Guys, Why do guys like anal so much?

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  • I think the answer is different for every guy, and many guys actually don't like anal. But I'm not one of them. I love it, and here's why.

    First and foremost, my wife loves it too. She is the one who got me into it in the first place and she gets more and better orgasms during anal than vaginal. And I have to say it's pretty fucking hot to see her cum that hard while I'm fucking her ass, especially while she's on her back. Her legs go up high and wide while she's rubbing her clit with one hand and squeezing a nipple with the other and the look on her face is makes me feel like cumming right then, and I often do.

    But aside form all that, anal just feels great. It's tighter around the opening, of course, and the texture inside her ass is different than her vagina. It's silky smooth and luxurious. I love that about it. It's also deeper because there is no cervix to bump into so I don't have to be careful not to hurt her. One she is warmed up and relaxed, I can go balls deep in her ass and that feel amazing. And there's no risk of pregnancy when I cum in her ass.

    What's not to love?

    • Did you anal before you were married?

    • Yes, a lot.

  • I have listened to opinions over the years and I have given this subject substantial thought.

    I think that anal sex is a power dynamic. Men wish to do this because it makes them feel dominant and in control. Curiously, women do it for the same reason. When a women submits in this way, it puts her in a position superior to other women who will not comply.

    This dynamic is very unhealthy and so is the act of anal, since it can result in hemorrhoids, anal fissures and loss of bowel control.

    I have never been attracted to anal because I want a relationship governed by love and kindness, not power and control. I also enjoy making a woman feel really good and anal does not serve this end.

    ~JSmith

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  • i dont do anal any guy who prefers butt over vagina should question if there gay lol

  • Do you mean him in your bottom, or him taking it in his, with your toy? It's not clear, and today, a lot of guys are loving playing, and women are loving having toys and loving the guys, and feeling more 'dominant'! LOL!!!

  • Some guys don't

  • For me It's the intimacy and that she trusts me so much to do something that intimate with me.

    • How is it intimate?

    • It has a potential to hurt. Both, physically and mentally. As with every sexual practice, revealing your preferences can make you vulnerable. The other one can make fun of you or mock you for it (even if they were the one who suggested or initiated it). With anal sex still being thought of as something weird by many people, this is especially true. So you make yourself vulnerable and that is a very intimate thing.

  • Two reasons:
    1) When we do you ladies missionary style we have a wonderful view of your lovely face, your breasts and clit. When we do you doggy style we can't see anything except for your asshole that, by the way, is constantly moving, changing as you're getting ready to orgasm. It's the only "attraction" on this side of your body! Well, after seeing this show time and time again, can you blame us for wondering what it would feel like to put it in there?
    2) intimacy! We want to be close to you. We want you to open up to us physically. This is why you letting us enter you in all openings is so significant. It shows that you're holding NOTHING back in your love for us. It is such an important sign, men have been known to cry with joy when that happens.

    • Explain more about the intimacy please?

    • When your love allows you to enter her, that's a very big deal. It demonstrates to us that you are accepting us as someone who becomes part of you. There's nothing closer or more intimate than being inside of you. Wether it's vaginal or mouth or anus: they are all a big deal to us. That said, we understand that anal is the ultimate in closeness and intimacy mostly because women do not give it as readily as other means. This creates a hierarchy of intimacy with anal at the top of hierarchy.

  • I like oral or vaginal sex more. but if a female partner I am with likes anal. I am willing to give it to her if she cleans/maintains the area regularly. seems like most guys who like anal more. are secretly bi or gay to some degree. even without them knowing it their-self.

  • My theory is that guys think they are studly if a woman will let them stick it in there

  • Simply because its tight and thus feels really good. Likewise if the girl enjoys anal she can flex her muscles when a man is about to finish to give a really intense climax. there's also the benefit that the girl can not get pregnant.

  • Because it feels good. Nice, warm and tight!!

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