Does not wanting to lick a guys genitals make you childish and not so open minded?

[Anonymous]

[AmandaYVR]

Well first in order to answer it I would want to know what you true age is and experience level in relationships and with sexuality. Without that, it's not possible to answer fully. But the short answer is 'no', and don't let any guy bully or pressure you into thinking this way. But if you were of a certain age and over, then I would discuss with you why you don't feel the desire to get close to guys sexually. Could be all sorts of reasons, or maybe you do have some desire but they are unfamiliar to you still, and maybe you don't fully trust them.
It's actually a fairly complicated question, and very specific to your circumstances.

[Asker]

I just recently turned 24 and the repack I just wouldn’t prefer to do that is because when looking down at the hair on a guys genitals it sort of turns me off thinking of that being in my mouth. I don’t mind giving oral in general and swallowing etc but even then I have my limits because I’m not into the gagging thing because I always feel as though I’m gonna vomit and that will turn a intimate moment into a disgusting one.

[Asker]

*reason

[Derekk]

If he's not managing himself down there and trimming it, or if he's practically choking you with it, obviously you're not going to like it. Tell him to shave and calm down a bit on the thrusting if you want to give it another go in th future.

[AmandaYVR]

Ok, that makes a lot of sense and I'm so glad to hear it. Everyone has different preferences with this stuff and none of it is really wrong. So you are well within your rights to how you feel. Yes, follow @derekk advice and gently ask/coax him into doing some maintenance down there. He should be mature enough to understand the benefits of that, and happily oblige. Most men do trim or shave or groom nowadays. I'm not suggesting you leave this man over this, but it's not too much of an ask, is my point. It's standard practice. And while you're at it, having this conversation with him, you might want to remind him that it's your treat/gift to him, and you get to decide when and how. That also includes not pushing on your head, forcing you to do anything you're not comfortable with. I have read somewhere once that it is possible for a girl's gagging to result in throwing up. That shocked me, tbh, but yeah, the feeling of gagging is not a good one. It always brings you back to the last time you legit threw up, and that association is no bueno with sex. So be assertive here and decide where your boundaries are. Sex should be enjoyable for both, and if it's not... well, something's got to be tweaked. And hopefully it's not the partner, but rather the communication, or finding a compromise.

[Asker]

@Derekk it’s more to it than him Just not managing himself down there, that was essentially the reason, hair and the thought of that hair being in my mouth but then when I denied doing that he got upset and said I act like a “Little girl” and that I can’t give oral right and that I should watch more videos. It’s a way to communicate everything and he wasn’t communicating but more so making me feel insecure all because I don’t enjoy him taking my head/hair and forcing himself deep in my mouth and almost causing me to vomit. I pull away and he gets upset, when I can’t hold my mouth in place long enough to catch all of his c**, like he likes, due to him forcing my head down even more while he orgasms, from the blow job, he gets upset at that. You can’t expect me to perform miracles and I’m feeling uncomfortable.

[ghostqueen]

That has nothing to do with being childish.

[cheapshotbob]

no it makes the guy a 5 year old needing his bottle before he goes to bed lol, that the most childish bull i have ever heard of. you dont need a guy like that. if you was the one asking to have it done t you im sure he would feel different and go down on you any time you ask.

[AustinMan]

Childish? No. Close minded sexually? For sure. No head or ball sucking?

[domasphuck]

Everyone has their likes and dislikes if you gave it an honest try and still didn't like it enough to say you don't want to do it its not childish

[JackSmy]

NO, not at all!! I don't like women I am with to do that!! I love kissing her, and don't want to taste dick! I also think it is degrading for a lady!
Ironically, I love going down on her, and teasing her until she has an orgasm!

[Berethor]

You childish only if you are asexual, not licking genitals only means that you are conservative.

[sammy1537]

How about option C: not ready to explore that part of sexuality yet.

[Tobi_Lerone]

No it would more say it's the opposite. :)

[Nephilim000]

Not at all everyone has different likes and dislikes

[chriscdi]

not really, i know a girl that doesn't do oral, her excuse is "i dont know where they have been" sounds like a pretty good excuse to me 🤷🏽‍♂️

[Coffemmmsoogood]

Not at all☺ i just want the normal things my penis in the vagina

[AmeerX]

Umm I don't think it has anything to do with open-minded

[clampfan101]

It’s okay to have preferences.

[CubaPirate]

No it just a matter of personal choice and no one should judge you for it

[Anonymous]

If you're sexually active with guys; then yes.

[Anonymous]

No.
It's gotta be something you like and want to do.

[Anonymous]

You can do whatever you want