Can sex (or sexual things) ruin a special connection two people have?

If so then how?
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What I mean is, two people are romantically involved with each other for awhile, then they have sex and the vibe starts changing. I probably should’ve been more clear on that
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  • If that "Special Connection" is

    1) business, then parhaps. Its usually exciting and forbidden, hopefully not criminal. It lasts as long as the business lasts.

    2) platonic friendship, then no. It won't work.

    3) friends with benefits, yes, until someone comes along

    4) romantic, maybe.

    5) erotic, sure.

    • Update: Two person romantically involves for a while then have sex. The uncertainty brought about by "a while" is perceived expectation during that period, especially, for guys. Yes, us guys are generally sexually desirous. Hence we wait when our girl said she's not ready. But during that wait, we tend to imagine what it would be like to have sex when it should come. We'll probably had many "imagined" sessions and then burst solo during that long wait. And those "imagined" sessions are definitely perfect. Then came the real thing, which is "imperfect", like feeling "too loose", not like the "imagined" porn-like sessions. A matured and experienced guy would usually reasoned and come back to earth. The relationship likely stays. But the less mature and less experienced guy may put the blame in her and say "we're incompatible" and may break off. Hence I can only conclude long wait is good for the girl, but bad for the guy. And the resultant relationship is based on the maturity of both.

  • Yes. Sex always changes a relationship. Sometimes for better and sometimes not

    • When sex causes a relationship to change for the worse, how does hat happen, like what causes it to change that way?

    • Don’t know the cause but I’ve had it happen. Once you have sex the relationship is permanently changed and there is no going back

    • I see

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  • I believe so, trying to... No correction, avoiding that from happening now.

  • depends what type of connection the 2 people have, if its not a romantic connection or emotionally attached connection/sexual connection then yes, sex can ruin the connection because it can make the 2 people uncomfortable and make things awkward that can ruin the bond the 2 people have

  • I guess yes.

  • Anything is possible. While I'd argue that in most cases, it actually strengthens a connection, there are times when it doesn't. There is always a chance that someone's attitude will change after sex. Although, in the vast majority of cases, when that occurs it's because there wasn't actually a connection in the first place and their goal was to smooth talk their way to sex from the start.