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How can I make my boyfriend cum from a bj?

I don't know what to do so thought I would ask to see if I can learn. I want to make him cum.
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  • I'd ask a few technique questions but then I's have to post this in a reply and it's too long for one. So here goes. Caution. Word Wall ahead. Probably nothing new here. It's all just tried and true.

    A skilled blow job is the single most important thing you can do for a guy. Most girls do not know how to give an effective blowjob. They have to resort to trial and error partly because guys can't verbalize what they want. Over time, I have received quite a few and, as important, watched AV clips that ended in visible evidence of ejaculation. What struck me is how much alike they all were. So I laid out an effective routine. With no porn drama necessary, here's what always seems to work.

    *What happens in the foreplay stage varies from guy to guy; teasing, play, etc. Many girls have certain teases that are good for starting arousal. The goal is to get us hard and drooling precum, but not too near to orgasm, so the "tank" has time to fill. While there's always some on hand, arousal induces emergency production of semen so his volume will be bigger and his orgasm will be stronger. I favor a nipples to knees erotic massage. Five to ten minutes is good.

    *A blow job is not romantic, interactive sex, it is one-way sexual therapy. You make it all about him. It is a combination of hand and oral. The head wants bobbing, sucking and licking, slick, soft and smooth. The shaft wants vigorous hand stroking. Conversely, vigorous stroking overwhelms the head, and the shaft doesn't respond as well to a mouth as it does to a hand. So a good blowjob is suck and stroke. In the early stage, they are synchronized, with your hand just below your mouth, bobbing and stroking in unison. This will get him ready to cum. It should only take five minutes after foreplay, once you get the hang of it.

    *Once you start, never stop or slow down. Build steady tension to the finish. It is OK to level off to "edge" him for a short while, to make him last a little longer, so long as you don't lose ground. When he starts to buck and breathe deep, he is ready to cum. Go aggressive. Increase the intensity and speed of sucking and bobbing to where you can still sustain that for a few minutes and break away hand stroking to go as fast as you can with a moderate grip.

    *He wants to cum in your mouth while you suck and stroke. Be prepared for it and don't skip a beat. When he starts to ejaculate, stop bobbing and straight-suck only. Keep hand stroking, but at a slower pace, to coax out the last squirts. If you have a gag reflex at ejaculation, curl your tongue up to deflect the stream. You should like doing this.

    *Stay "locked on" (sucking without motion) until he unplugs. It feels good to drain out and shrink away under vacuum. Also a little brief, occasional "suckling", like a baby on a pacifier, is a good tease while we drain. It will make him jump, but he will like it.

    *Be careful not to scratch or bite. It can put the fire out, particularly true with braces.

    *Deep throating and "face fucking" are useless porn antics. Your mouth and tongue will give a better sensation that your throat ever could.

    *He may instinctively grab your head and try to drive deep when he cums. It's nothing personal. It's biology. You can avoid choking by gripping his penis firmly in front of your mouth so he can't drive it in too deeply.

    *Swallowing is up to you as it gives him no pleasure but may give him an ego boost. I actually prefer she spit my payload into her palm so we see how well we did, like this.

    How can I make my boyfriend cum from a bj?

    *There is nothing that will make a man feel more loved than a skilled blow job, where he can be indulged without feeling self conscious. Developing this skill can help cement your relationship and make it less likely he will cheat. A skilled blowjob is not slutty and don't act that way. A blowjob is "girl power". One more thing. This Meme is funny but absolutely true.

    How can I make my boyfriend cum from a bj?

  • use a lot of tongue around the tip area but i mean all of the tip area, especially at the edge and if you need to torture him do all that after he had cum because then the tip is at its most vulnerable... and also try licking up the shaft and just let the tip feel as much warmth and touch as you can deliver..

    • I am happy to know i might have told you some stuff you didn't already know :)

Most Helpful Girl

  • You always will be able to make him cum... remember not to use teeth... know that you don’t have to deep through if you use your hand also!
    Main thing is to not stop and get the rhythm going! When he’s going to fun his dick will feel harder and he’ll start groaning... keep going and when he comes slow down but keep taking him... and then with your hand pull up and see the last of his cum...
    Then take all of him in your mouth and clean him up in one swoop

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  • Use your hand and mouth together and let your hand do most of the work. Keep your hand and mouth together so that they form one long barrel and go all the way up and all the way down the full length. Keep things wet!

    Pay careful attention to his reactions and you will know what direction to take---more mouth, more hand, firmer, lighter. Each time, whether you are successful or not, ask him what he was feeling. Encourage him to give you whispered directions while you are engaged.

    That should do it.

    ~JSmith

  • This ain't the milk isle is it

  • That may not be possible, it depends on him. It's not about you at all. Many men cannot climax while passively receiving oral sex.

  • work the tip, shaft and balls.

  • LIck the head of his penis , that would drive me crazy

  • Start by putting his penis in your mouth. Lick around the head and just under the head of his penis. Engulf as much of him as you can. Start going up and down on his penis using your hand to apply friction to his penis. Keep doing this until he starts to moan really good and then slip a finger down to tease his butthole. Keep slightly squeezing his balls and occasionally tickle his butthole. Try holding him in your mouth while jacking his penis up and down. Swirl your tongue around the head at the same time. Practice will make perfect!! Good Luck!!!

  • just suck on it, im sure eventually he will sploosh just dont use your teeth and im sure you'll be fine 💯

    • I'm doing that now I don't know still not doing something right

    • it takes a while with some people, I've heard for some people getting head is harder to cum then pussy, I don't know how true that is but do what you can

    • thats very true. i rarely ever cum from oral stimulation.

  • Suck harder and faster. Use two hands. Watch for the squirm.
    The truth is most women are not that good at it. And really, it's just a prelude to fucking. So I would suggest you get it nice and hard and then hop on it and fuck his brains out.

    Ever find the Stormy Daniels vids? Dear god can she suck a dick. LOL

  • Just keep sucking nice and slowly. Try to gag on his dick as much as possible. You will feel gag reflex but you will have to kill it to keep going and make yourself a cum queen

  • So it will be a mixture of natural talent and technique can you get him into your throat how often do you deepthroat him do you look at him is it wet do you use you hands play with balls lick and suck balls while jerking a lot I'm very sensitive to being jerked while getting the the underneath of my Dick right by my balls sucked if you hit me with that then 2 hand pepper grind me then deep throat it's a huge explosive orgasm coming and don't look me in the eyes sexy and determined like that's how I ended up married

  • Watch lots of porn to get ideas and keep practicing on him.

  • If he can't cum from a blowjob the problem is most likely not you. How about you ask him not to masturbate for a week or so (also no other cumming from sex with you or whatever) and then give him a blowjob? If he still can't cum then, he should see a doctor.

  • Treat it like a lolly. Suck and lick. Run your tongue round the tip. Use your mouth like a pussy...

  • Put it in your throat

  • - focus on head if he's uncut
    - no teeth
    - build up, gradually
    -don't forget the balls!
    - eye contact
    -enthusiasm
    - dirty talk
    - compliments
    - rhetorical questions

  • Massage his prostate to milk it and he'll experience a "female" orgasm, a whole body orgasm. Once you crack that egg though he'll want it all the time

  • Ask him. He should be able to tell you

  • The question should be why isn't he cumming...

  • Pm me please id love to help you

  • You will not learn it here, instead, you will get bunch of horny people making advances towards you!!

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