Guys, do you actually like submissive girls (in bed)?

Question

So this is a bit of a personal one. I used to be pretty 50:50. I then became a sex worker for several years and had to be sub as that what my clients all wanted. I’m no longer in the job but I’ve found that I can’t switch back anymore and feel really out of my comfort zone when I have control and just don’t enjoy it. The problem is most of the guys I’m interested in just don’t like that... My clients though we’re all the opposite so I’m curious to hear what you think

PrudentGuy · Accepted Answer

I always have the impression that most white collar management level guys like dom because they are dom their worklife and hence prefer a change in the bedroom. (Vice versa blue collar likes sub.)

Looks like I'm wrong?

Personally, I like dom girls.

MrOracle · Accepted Answer

I'm a dominant, so naturally I prefer submissive women. It sounds like you're interested in submissive men, but that's not likely to work out well for you as a submissive yourself.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

In my experience, most guys secretly like to be dominated by girls ;)

perfectchaos · Answer

I perfer more dominant than submissive and even then some sub tendencies are ok. Want me to lead? Ok I will. Want me to choke, slap, hair pull, etc. No no no NO!

Berethor · Answer

I lot of emasculated guys on GAG, but yea most guys like submissive girls.

GingerGuy · Answer

Interesting that it's the opposite. But it depends on specifics for me. I don't want her to just lay there and do nothing. She needs to be "active". Also a large part of my pleasure comes from her pleasure, so how to make that happen (and to know for sure) is by letting her do as she wants with me, so I like her to take control sometimes for that reason. Especially if she's the type that doesn't communicate her likes and dislikes.

TraceyByrd · Answer

Ewww lmfao

Reaperbot666 · Answer

tend to like a girl who is a blend. but who is more submissive then dominant. roughly 70& sub / 30% dom

Tobi_Lerone · Answer

I like sub girls. :) I'm not directly dominant but it's not hard to switch for me and had a lot of fun with sub girls so far^^

Apope16 · Answer

I prefer 50/50. I like my girl to be dominant half the time

n4meAL · Answer

I don't like it I want women and men to be equal, I uphold gender equality.

Nephilim000 · Answer

I'm ok with it. But I prefer someone on an equal footing.

nodnol32 · Answer

I prefer her to be the dominant one.

StylesbyDR · Answer

I dont mind submissives, but i find doms to be more sexy. Nothing like a women knowing what she wants and just taking control of things.

chriscdi · Answer

i can do both but i like sub girls better, i think you got used to being sub, just cause you are uaed to it doeant mean you can't be dom, the more practice, the more you'll get comfortable, just do both in one session, so take the reigns for a while and then give it to the dude, you'll get used to both over time and you'll be able to do both again