When it comes to one night stands, would any of you consider having one with a small penis?

[Anonymous]

For the sake of transparency, I’m around 2.5-3 inches, and while many of my friends have each individually had sex with around 5-6 different girls, I have yet to get more than a blowjob. I’ve been told by friends and “hook ups” that I’m definitely gonna struggle because of my size and that I need to be very good in bed, but I’m not sure how to get any experience when it seems like I’m too small for most girls to consider.

[meetkitty123]

If you were 18 or over I would advise you in full sexual details But because you are under age all I can say is hang in there. You are still quite young and jumping into sex just to keep up with your friends is a bad Idea.

Besides they are wrong. Its NOT ALL about the sex. I dated a man for 3 years who was no thicker than my thumb no longer 2.5 inches to 3. The sex wasn't the greatest either but I still wanted to marry him and said yes when he asked... Why?

Because he treated me right and was romantic

However the moment he turned into an ass and broke my heart I left the same day!

Your best bet is to read everything about women psychology and physiology as you can from reliable sources such as. orgs. edu. gov

You need to understand how women think!
You need to know what we want. You need to make it your personal mission that you stand out amongst all men because of your words and actions. You must be compassionate hard-working loyal trustworthy. You don't need to wear name brand but you need to look presentable stylish clean and well groomed all to the nines!

You need to bring the romance and the gentlemen wooing behavior. Open those doors pull those chairs out walk her around a puddle carry her bag or books. Read some girl romance novels to get a feel of what we want. You need to make sure CHIVALRY IS NOT DEAD!

Read 5 love languages by gary chapman
Read his needs her needs by willard harley
Read How to Win Friends and Influence People in the Digital Age by Dale Carnegie

These books will help you approach women with confidence. If you read them not only will you go far with women but you will go far with everyone you meet and it will even help you be successful in your future careers.

Ps as for sex do not rely on porn read reliable articles on pleasuring a woman. You do not need to actually have sex to know what to do if you study hard on it. When that time is right you need to make sure that she is absolutely satisfied first.

[meetkitty123]

I have to specify the sex wasn't the greatest HAD NOTHING TO DO WITH HIS SIZE! There were other factors. ° His unwillingness to perform certain tasks ° He suffered from Premature ejaculation (PE) ° He Suffered from a low sex drive None of the above has anything to do with having a small penis size. All of the above can be addressed and solved. If he had been a little more open minded about seeing a urologist for the PE, performing certain sexual acts or trying new positions the sex would have been better. He also was not willing to use a penis pump with a penis ring to keep the extended size. When penatration occurred it was pleasent however due to his condition it was short lived. And yes it is physically possible to have sex and find pleasure with a short penis for both the woman and man. I would have to plan our Sexual encounters and provide my own foreplay. Only then was I able to Orgasm with such limited time of penatration. So make sure you are open minded and are willing to provide adequate foreplay to the point where she is out of her mind in pleasure. Another note when I said do not rely on porn it was a typo It should have read "Do not rely on porn ONLY" Perhaps you should also forget the one night stands concept for now. Fucus on studying about women. How to woo them and understanding their wants and needs. Then make finding a long term girlfriend your goal. You need to build an emotional bond with a woman so she will adore you and will be open minded to your size.

[Asker]

Just to clarify something, when you say he suffered from PE, how fast was he? I obviously don’t know how long I would last during sex but for bj’s I usually last around 30 secs-1 minute and masturbation is usually like 1-5 minutes.

[meetkitty123]

30 seconds to 1 min I think you may want to work on edging exercises. There are also numbing creams. You should practice with a condom on too so you can get use to wearing one and it may help with the edging exercise.

[meetkitty123]

Aim to reach 10 mins Sometimes it's learning when to stop and slow down before continuing. One guy once told me he would control himself by thinking of something overly cute or overly disgusting to get his mind off of climax. His secret words to himself was kittens or Grandma 🤣

[Asker]

I’ve tried to wear condoms before but they’re all too big

[meetkitty123]

you seriously need to go and get prescription protection

You can't be having sex without a condom
There's a such thing called a female condom that the woman wears inside of her.

Your other options us ti try this website with small condoms

listen you don't want your first time having sex to be your last time imagine catching aids on your first time that's not cool

Most clinics give free female condoms that's an option the woman can wear the condom

And googling smallest condom brand will help you but I did find a link with one website that sells small condoms

https://www.ripnroll.com/collections/small-condoms

[meetkitty123]

Ps you can also get STDs by unprotected oral sex

[Tiffany_Taylor_Made]

With barely even 3 inches between your legs, I'm surprised that you even get blowjobs. I've never sucked anything that little, but if I did, I would feel like a baby again sucking on a pacifier. Whenever I suck dick, I love having my mouth full, but with something barely 3 inches, it would feel like I'm sucking a Dum Dum. It's a waste of time. I have a fiancee now, but had just a few one-night stands when I was in college. If I ever did return to the "sleeping around" life, I definitely wouldn't give a 3-inch dick the time of day and let it fuck me because I wouldn't feel it. It would be no different to inserting a tampon and dicks aren't supposed to feel that way. Dicks are supposed to reach deep enough to reach those most sensitive and pleasurable spots and be thick enough to stimulate those walls at the same time.

If I saw that the guy that wanted to fuck me only had a 3-inch dick, I would instantly leave the room. At 3 inches, I'm not even sure you would be able to reach the pussy, let alone provide any pleasure. Chances are, a guy that small would prefer anal, but I don't do anal. My only advice for you is probably to just stick with prostitutes when you're 18 of course. I'm sure if you paid a whore enough money, she would give your little dick the time of day. If you're lucky, you could probably even enter a relationship with someone that doesn't care about size, but I think even the women that dubiously say "size doesn't matter" would be taken aback by something that is barely 3 inches. There must be some hope because, hey, if you're barely 3 inches, that must mean that some men in your family, most likely your father and/or grandfathers, must have little dicks too and they started a family. With some hard work, persistence, and dedication, maybe you could do the same one day.

[Asker]

Lmao fuck you too

[Tiffany_Taylor_Made]

@mrwells1: You're mad at me because you have a tiny dick?

[Asker]

No because you’re lying 😂

[Tiffany_Taylor_Made]

@mrwells15: Lying about what exactly?

[Asker]

Many girls would be satisfied by 3 inches

[Tiffany_Taylor_Made]

@mrwells15: By making them laugh?

[Cherokeehp]

Nope.

[Asker]

You wouldn’t even consider it?

[Cherokeehp]

Nope.

[Asker]

Why though

[Cherokeehp]

What am I supposed to do with it?

[Asker]

Whatever you would normally do with a penis?

[Cherokeehp]

Also if anyone were to find out it’d be embarrassing for the both of us.

[Asker]

How would it be embarrassing for the girl

[Cherokeehp]

Cause then I’d be the girl that fucked the micro penis. Not only would it be physically unsatisfying, I’d be ridiculed if word got out.

[Asker]

Okay well there are millions of guys who are 2-3 inches

[Cherokeehp]

And I wouldn’t have sex with those millions of guys.

[Asker]

Also I don’t have a micropenis. I’m 2.5 inches but its not medically a micropenis

[Cherokeehp]

I still would not have sex with that. 5 inches is the limit. Its the average.

[Asker]

What about 3.5?

[Cherokeehp]

I just said 5.

[Asker]

Yeah but don’t u realize that half of all dudes are still under 5 inches, how can u say u wouldn’t fuck half the population based on dick size

[Cherokeehp]

I can say it pretty easily. I won’t fuck half the male population.

[Asker]

So even if you were in love with a dude, and you found out he was 2.5 inches, you wouldn’t fuck him?

[Cherokeehp]

I typically have sex pretty early on in my relationships, so I’d probably discover his tiny penis before I actually fall in love. I would not have sex with him.

[Asker]

So wtf am I supposed to do? It seems like 99% of girls share your same mentality. How am I supposed to lose my virginity?

[Cherokeehp]

Woo some girl and make her fall in love with you before sex. Pay a prostitute. Be one of those people that wait till marriage. I don't know.

[Asker]

Well what are the best positions for a 2 incher? Like I’ve tried using a pocket pussy but I wasn’t able to reach the hole

[Cherokeehp]

If you couldn’t even reach a pocket pussy, how do you expect to reach an actual vagina and actually satisfy a woman?

[Asker]

Well my dick is very girthy so girls would be satisfied by that, and also some girls probably have holes that would be easier to reach

[Cherokeehp]

If you say so.