My girlfriend’s butty?

[Anonymous]

Long story short
I love anal and my girl has a nice ass and I just wanna hit that. but she is so frightened of it.. I asked to just give it a try starting with fingering but she said NO WAY

[sammy1537]

Statistics say that 30% of women will try anal at least once in their life. That doesn't mean they like it either. That means that more that 2/3 of all women do not. Also, of those who did try anal at least once, only 10% said the had it more than once. That should tell you something.

Instead of asking to do it, suggest that anal could be a birthday or anniversary present. Find something she really want you to do and suggest that anal could be usegbas encouragement. For example, my wife wants me to loose 30 pounds. She said that if I do we can have anal. guess what? I started going to the gym!

[Asker]

That’s a good idea Thank you good sir

[Anonymous]

Does she have any prior experience with anal play or penetration?

[Asker]

No she don’t

[Opinion Owner]

What is the bass of her objection? Fear of pain? Afraid that it is unhygienic? Simple moral taboo? Is she inhibited in other ways?

[Asker]

She says Pain and the fear of getting future problems in the area

[Asker]

I can see that There’s more but she won’t say

[Opinion Owner]

She has fallen victim to the girls who are too inhibited to try it so they make up stories about girls who became bowel incontinent because they did anal sex. Do you think some unbiased educational materials might help? Or is the hidden motivation the bigger problem?

[Asker]

I don’t think educational materials will work She’s talking from other people experience or she’s just paranoid

[Opinion Owner]

Have you ever tried giving her a quick lick around the back door when you are doing 69? Or just lightly touching her butt hole when she is cumming during 69?

[Asker]

Never , I feel like she wouldn’t like it and I don’t want her to feel uncomfortable

[Opinion Owner]

Too bad you can't help her to overcome this inhibition, but you are right; you must respect her boundaries even if they seem to be arbitrary.

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks for MHO!

[Asker]

Well you really are the most helpful no need to thank me 😆

[roody]

Respect what she said and try again in a while... if you bring it up too much it’ll annoy her and she’ll never do it.

[MarkyMark77]

@roody have u done anal?

[MarkyMark77]

do you have a thick penis? that may scare her! what kinda ass she got?

[In_Trance]

So what's your question?

[Asker]

I know it’s hard for you but try to find it

[Anonymous]

Were you going to ask a question?

[Anonymous]

That's too bad, fortunately I have a girlfriend who loves anal play.

[Anonymous]

Start by licking it

[Asker]

You think?

[Opinion Owner]

only if you want. But if you dont some better looking guy will and your tongue won't hurt her

[Opinion Owner]

also, you can gently rub it without penetrating it. Make her trust you by asking and telling her what you intend to do so she is not scared the whole time that you're down there.