I think there is a big misunderstanding on your side.
It's not you who isn't good enough for him but he who isn't good enough for you.
As you seem to be caring that much about his pleasure, his feelings and his joy there is nothing you should blame yourself for.
But as he obviously isn't caring the same way about your feelings and isn't interested in you feeling well, i definitely would recommend you to dump him.
There is people out there who are going to value and appreciate you the way you are and the way you like to give oral and everything else about you and your personality!
There obviously is a lack of respect for you on his side and hearing this might gonna hurt you, which i really would prefer not to do so, but this doesn't change anything about it being true.
Seems like he is just interessted in a submissive partner and not in an equal relationship, which isn't the way a healthy relationship should look like.
You really deserve way better!
Don't let someone like that reduce your self esteem as he isn't worth it!
Respect yourself! Because you deserve it!
Claim the same respect, you got for your partner, from your partner.
If he isn't able to do so then there is no reason why he should be a part of your live as he clearly doesn't deserves to be.
Also where is the sense in a relstionship if communication isn't working or someone isn't even interested in communication?
It's one of the most critical and important parts of a relationship.
Your partner also should never tell you to be less disagreeing with him as it is your opinion and he should be interested in your opinion despite of his own opinion.
So yes, unfortunately he clearly isn't respecting you which is a shame and i'm really sorry about this being like that and also having to tell you.
But as you're in love with him, the dumping part most likely isn't going to happen yet, so i know that saying this may won't help you handle this situation at the moment but as it's my opinion is just had to mention it right in the beginning.
Still i'm hoping that saying this could open your eyes and make you readjust your priorities. Also i'm pretty sure that you'll have to admit this being true at some point and then you'll hopefully be able to move on.
But for the moment as i'm sure that you are willing to work on it and willing to give it another try no matter of what i say or how much i'm right about this, you should try to face him with his lack of respect for you.
If he isn't even willing to communicate about it then you got your answer!
You seem to be a very lovely and caring person and that's what your partner should be like as well!
Much love and good luck for handling this situation and i really hope you won't let him continue to reduce your self esteem!0 0 0 0
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