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Is it weird to masturbate alone whilst being in a relationship?

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Most Helpful Guys

  • No, unless it makes you less inclined to have actual sex with your partner.

    I lived with one particular woman for over a year. The two of us had crazy sex at least twice a day and sometimes for hours at a time without a break. She was as adept as a kung fu master. Her entire body was erogenous and she was orgasmic as can be.
    At some point, I found her dildo and she admitted that she sometimes found time to masturbate when I wasn't around. It just increased my admiration for her.

  • No, it’s not weird at all. In fact, it’s recommended because it allows you to get more familiar with what feels good. You can play around with different things, seeing how they feel. You can do it without anyone else seeing you. Then you can either do them to yourself next time you are with your lover, OR tell him to do those things, bc it feels so good...

Most Helpful Girls

  • I don’t think so. Sometimes you get worked up and it’s easier to take care of it solo.
    It would be a problem if you were choosing to masturbate after your partner tried to be intimate with you.

    • Do you ever feel depressed after?

    • No. Mostly content and happy.

    • Oh okay 🙂

  • Not weird. I do it often. It just feels better for me. Plus he never sleeps in bed with me anymore. Too busy playing video games all night.

    • Girl u need to dump him lol

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • It's definitely not weird. Even when/ if he totally satisfies you no one can please you like you do as you know exactly what you want and like

  • No, it happens- the best way to handle unavailability or differently-leveled sex drives.

  • No, it's not. Even though you're in a relationship (whether you are sexually active or not) doesn't mean you stop masturbating. I think it's more weird how people think you should just have sex with your partner every time and never please yourself. Masturbation is pretty healthy and can even be used to strengthen the relationship. I know I've read studies where if a woman in a relationship masturbates, then she'll be more likely to want to have sex with her partner (or something like that).

  • Not really. Sometimes people just need to get their rocks off and your significant others might not be around.

  • No, it is completely normal. Even when you have a relationship with someone else, you still have a relationship with yourself, mentally and physically.
    ~JSmith

  • Not weird if your partner is not available to satisfy your sexual needs.

  • Not at all. Some times you need that feeling when your partner is not available or not in the mood. Enjoy those moments as well as your together time.

  • Not at all. Its perfectly healthy to still get yourself off in a relationship. You dont have to do everything together. Its nice to have alone time

  • nope! sometimes the best person to get you off is yourself because who knows your own body better than you (:

  • Not really I'm not in one tho , so not sure but what I do like is doing it with some one who want to do it right now together that's a turn on

  • Most people do, even in relationships! It is different that being together, and having sex, maybe mostly for guys, but some women have said they sometimes like it a bit, before bed, to sleep better, when we can't be together.

  • Nope. Gotta do what you gotta do

    • Totally

  • It's kinda weird you have to do it in relationship at all. If your partner isn't satisfying you in the bedroom, then might be ready to have sit down and talk.

  • No. If ur partner is unavailable what else r u supposed to do

  • Well it's better than cheating, but it's bad if you are ignoring your man for the sake of masturbation.

  • No... I think it’s common

  • No. I’m married and my husband and I both still masturbate.

    • I always have in relationships

    • Me too. I don’t see a reason not to lol

    • Totally

  • Nope, not weird. Sometimes you eat a meal together and sometimes you just get a snack alone.

  • I feel if you are used to it then no but if you have to resort to it... it might be something to try to work with your partner to ask them for more intimacy. But I have heard stories where this happens so I don't think it's uncommon...

  • Nope

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