Guys, How would you feel if a female friend told you she touches herself?

I was talking to a guy friend. He asked if I was a virgin, and I told him yes in the traditional sense. He asked what that meant and I told him I was but I touch myself. He asked me how I do that and do I use dildos. As a guy, how would this information make you feel?
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Also, would it change the way you see her? (More/less likely to want to date her let’s say)
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  • I've had a few GFs, and several women friends, married, and two lesbians, and they tell me intimate details about how they like to play, alone, being FRUSTRATED with husbands and partners who don't love them enough!!
    I love when women tell me details about their ways of playing and masturbating! I don't know why, but so many seem to feel comfortable with me, and share, really intimate things with me! I love most of it, because I really care about them, as friends, and I love that they trust me that much, and share these things!
    I already respected all of them, and cared about all of them, so sharing intimate things just made me feel a closer bond, more trust, with them!
    I pay attention, and listen, and the married ones seem to just adore that, because they complain that their husbands never 'hear them'!
    I think I know more about their wive's, and their most personal feelings than they do, even though she has told them!!

  • Honoured teased and wondering if there is a message there

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  • If a woman offered this information, iI would feel privileged that she trusted me enough to share such intimacies. But if I were a womam and a man asked me this, I would feel invaded.

    He was definitely crossing a boundary. Unless you invited this question, it shows poor judgement on his part.

    ~JSmith

  • If a girl shares that kind of sexual information with me, I assume that she is much more likely to be interested in me sexually.

  • I would tell her that I would love to help her with that!

  • And why is that not surprising unless she was from Pluto are we all not human and have like desires traits behaviors well deviants are in a class by themselves but I would probably say you ever tire of touching yourself call me I will relieve you of that task happily if she's a good looker if she's not well I'll call my proxy

  • Actually you don't seems to be a virgin in a traditional sense if you use dildos.

    • I don’t haha

  • I would feel great if a girl trusted me so much that seh would tell me about those things.
    Wouldn't change how much I'd want to date her or how much I'd respekt her.

  • Personally I'd I care enough about a girl to want to date her the only thing I ask is that she doesn't give me any STD'S

    • If I care enough.. Not I'd care enoigh

  • I would be turned on and it might make me want to date her more

  • I wouldn’t ask that question to some random girl because I’m not creepy.

  • I think it's Sexy if a girl tells me she touches herself, I like her to send me a video of her fingering herself and give me close up of her pussy , this would not make me think less of her and I would date her.

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