Girls, have you ever cried during sex, how did the guy react? & Guys, how would you feel/react if a girl cried during climax? Would you be turned off?

[Anonymous]

I was a virgin up until about a month ago. When my boyfriend of 2 years and I finally decided to have sex, I cried (tears only not like actual whining sobs lol) when we were reaching climax. He’s WAY more experienced than I am so he definitely knew what he was doing. It wasn’t because of pain or anything like that (there was only a bit of pain not enough to elicit tears... at least I don’t think so). All of these sensations were flooding my body during sex and before I knew it tears were falling down my face while I was moaning. 🤦‍♀️ After we were done he was so sweet about it and started kissing my face and neck and then laughing a bit. He said it was cute, but I was cringing on the inside. I literally could not believe or even begin to understand how that happened... Ladies, has this ever happened to you? & Guys, how would you react if a girl had tears streaming down her face during sex? 🙈
* Also I am 24 that is why I’m so embarrassed. Crying during sex at 24 (wow)

[Berethor]

Don't looks like it was a turned-off to him so why does it matter if it's a turned-off to other guys? tears are usually associated with sadness, but girls can cry for other reasons as well. According to the media Asians seems to be more into that than europeans. I am not a fan of it for a similar reasons that I am not a fan of BDSM, I rather see a girl who smile than a girl who cry, but that said if a girl is virgin, and if a girl was able to climax in the first place, it's a turn-on, so even if the crying is a turn-off for the guy, the positive factors are still likely to offset the negative ones. Guys tend to be more territorial than girls, the fact that he is the only guy that you had sex with likely makes you more valuable to him, and the fact that you was reach climax, something that not all girls are able to, shows that you have a fairly high sexual potential.

Yes are 24 already, a fairly big girl, but at the same time you was a virgin, so he didn't excepted you to act like sex is no big deal to you, plus if he waited for a whole 2 years and it also show that sex was quite a big deal for you, even without you crying during sex, I also think that it's unlikely that you would keep crying after you get used to having sex, at least when it comes to genuine crying, so it's not like that situation is likely to stay for a long time, and at least you first time was not very painful for you, as it might had been a bigger issue than tears, also it's kinda funny, you lost your virginity, and the only thing that seems to bother you is that you cried during climax. Crying during climax didn't made you look like a tough girl, but then girls are not excepted to be tough. :)

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[Iron_Man]

That would be bad I would think that she’s regretting it or sorry that she had sex or is in pain

[xxochloxxo]

Yeah I have, it wasn’t noticeable though i tried not to make it noticeable and it was only for a second just because of how passionate it was and how I didn’t want it to end

[AustinMan]

It just comes from being overwhelmed.

[Avicenna]

It's a turn on

[Nayyr]

I cried