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Girlfriend won't have sex after dating nearly 4 years, what should I do?

Anonymous
I've been dating my current girlfriend for nearly 4 years now & we are yet to have sex. We have on occasion tried anal here & there but it's very rare & often doesn't last long because of her getting a little awkward. On those occasions I basically did everything while she laid back awkwardly the whole time. She's 24 & I'm 27. I'm basically her first serious boyfriend, but I've had a few past girlfriends before her so due to our experiences being different when it comes to sexual things she takes it as awkward & often tries to dance around the subject. Since she lives with her mother & I had lived in my parents small home which both allowed minimal privacy I had been understanding of it for the first year or 2, but now that I have my own place & nothing much has changed it is starting to bother me. She tries to avoid the topic hardcore whenever I try to talk about having sex & she gets awkward each time. It's starting to make me feel resentments & uncertain about future with her, which isn't good because while I love her personality at a certain point the sex & intimacy is important too. I hate to push because I'm not that kinda guy but 4 years of no sex is a long time. What should my next move be in this case? I'm planning on moving again in December when my lease is up & the thought of asking her to join me has come up but the no sex thing has me second guessing that too these days..
Girlfriend won't have sex after dating nearly 4 years, what should I do?
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