You might have to just grit your teeth mate and address it to her head on mate. Wait until you're in the right moment (I'm sure you know what I mean) and ask her directly.
If your relationship is as strong as you hope it to be you can work through it and see if there's any issues she has. Maybe she's just really and I emphasize really here lol insecure about the topic of sex and doesn't want to disappoint you. If that's the case then lucky you eh. If not, then I have no idea 🤷♂️ sorry mate.0 0 0 0
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Tough situation. It’s highly unusual for there to be no sex in 4 years. I usually don’t last 4 weeks. Lol Anyway, you’re going to have to address it head on. Be honest with her... you love her but you need the relationship to progress so this conversation has to happen, whether it’s awkward or not. One thing that comes to mind is that she seems to have intimacy issues and avoids talking about sex completely. There may be underlying reasons for that and they might not be good (sexual abuse perhaps), so be understanding and empathetic. If there aren’t any serious issues holding her back, then her lack of interest in sex will probably not change and you’ll have to make a personal decision on the future of the relationship. Sometimes you just have to admit compatibility isn’t there. Best of luck to you.
0 0 0 0For me if the sex is important, sounds like she has major issues surrounding sex and u guys r just not on the same page 4 a relationship
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Honestly, I'd say leave her. If I was in a 4 year relationship at my age, I'd be planning a wedding. I would suggest counseling, but you're not even married so just leave. Resentment is a very dangerous emotion. I would not allow that to manifest any further
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0 6I suggest you move on unless you want to make a project of turning her into a mynx.
0 0 0 0my sis have a boyfriend for 5 years, they never had sex, at 6th year, she ditch him for another guy. she have sex this time, and now that guy is my bro in law. there is a high chance that she doesn't sure about u so that why she doesn't want to have sex.
0 0 0 0Get married. Or dump her.
0 1 0 0If you love her and she's the one, talk to her about how important it is to you. If not, move on.
0 0 0 0She’s screwing someone else.
0 0 0 0You haven't fucked her after 4 years? Jesus dude, it's time to move on.
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