A big reason that the male orgasm happens (best) from head is when there is a very steady rhythm stimulating the tip. "Deep throating" is not such a big deal because all that does is simulate the experience of being in the warm wet snug vagina. During intercourse, it is the tip being touched and stimulated that causes excitement and orgasm.
Keep in mind, all the best BJs are also a bit of a hand job as well so don't be afraid to give your mouth a break.
And don't forget the balls! They get lonely and are STARVING for female attention. So, sometimes use your fingers or hand such as cupping or teasing testicles or the penis.
Google "Fellucia Blow" and STUDY those videos. Those women are experts at fellatio and genuinely love it. The sensuous BJ really is best both for the guy and for the woman. Watch and notice how easily they do it yet aren't choking or getting sick. And watch how they switch between mouth and fingers.
Also, look into videos for:
A) lingam massage (tantric massage for the male genitalia) B) yoni massage (tantric massage for the female genitalia - he should return the favor).
That said, consider studying good hand-job videos. All you then have to do is imagine doing what the woman is doing with her hands and fingers, but instead replace with lips, tongue, and mouth. I'd upload a video, but it is not safe for G@G. PM if you want the links to two such videos.
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On_the_other_handYoda
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B aggressive Be aggressive. A great blowjob has a LOT of enthusiasm... genuine enthusiasm. There is powerful secret I discovered/invented that later I've only seen once in a adult video. The girl/giver needs to tug hard like she is trying to pull and detach the penis from his body with a very tight grip. She should also hold the balls and move them like with the other hand that is wrapped around his shaft. DO NOT pull the balls to far along with the shaft hand. The tube that connects the balls are very sensitive. Pulling the balls too far is more painful than squeezing them. Ask your guy if you can SLOWLY pull the balls in the direction of the head of his penis and to tell you when it starts to hurt, then you will have a baseline of how far you can pull the balls. The hand that is cupping the balls should basically be touching the bottom of the hand wrapped around the shaft. When the girl pulls the shaft with a tight grip the pinky finger that is at the base of the penis should stay in contact with the hand that is wrapped around the balls. The hands should move as one unit.
So... grip (the shaft only) hard, and pull hard, while holding the balls and gently pulling the balls in the direction of the shaft hand.
I call this the PBJ (power blow job).
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AustColombiangirlYoda
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I normally let the guy ram it far down my throat, but I also have no gag reflex. I love deep throating long thick cocks
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Ragnarook
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You have no gag reflex? damn...
Akshayjosh
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You kidding how do you manager to breathe.😂😂 I'd want to try such a thing
Short answer (7 2 1 EXTRA BONUS!): 1.1. Jerk it 1.2. Suck it until you get cheek dimples (not just mumble it) 1.3. Slower is better than faster 1.4. Deepthroat 1.5. Look in his eyes 1.6. (act like you) Enjoy it 1.7. Dress up/look nice/let us see you at your best ===== 2.1. Practice with a banana 2.2. Use it as a reward/surprise ===== 3.1. The NO-TEETH BLOW
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784456
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Long answer: 1.1. Jerk it - we boys (with toys) jerked it for such a long time... And we still do it! We like jerking ourselves. So jerking is the closest that you can do to us to 'trigger' our 'ohh, I remembered I like that'. A lot of girls don't jerk it (while blowing) and it boggles me. I mean, when we rub you, we rub you like you rub yourselves with the extra added bonus of our 'exterior' hand position that can reach deeper depths because yours is kind of tied to the rest of your body at the shoulder, d'ooh... Why don't you return the favor and do us nice? 1.2. If you just put it in your mouth and expect the magic to happen, no jerk, no suck... you're doing it wrong! In a (not so recent) study, most males admitted to be the most sensitive at the tip of the penis, so while you remind us of how good we fell with your jerking, do us all a favor and take the tip of the penis between your lips according to "3.1." and start creating some nice memories. 1.3. Just search for slow blow and fast (er, throbbing) blow on porn sites and compare the "how fast it... ends" time. I bet that you will find that slower... is faster! 1.4. This is one of the things that require a bit of training... But this is what I like the most! Most of us guys will grab your head and start thrusting at some point, so prepare for that accordingly. The secret to deepthroat is to pull your tongue as far out as you can in order to make room for the new ahem, "guest". The good thing is that you can do this together with the moves from "3.1." for great results. 1.5. If you close your eyes while you do the thingy, you'd better not do it at all... We guys are more visual than you and we won't quite allow girls to blow us if we don't like (watching) your face. A girl's eyes are, regardless of color, quite attractive for me. So why not take it up a notch and let us see your full beautiful face while you do it? (this relates a bit to "1.7.").
784456
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1.6. If you don't enjoy it, you might as well don't start doing it. I, for instance, like making women cum because I consider myself a good match for them if I succeed, right? But most of my 'action' leaves out mouth-to-crotch action, because apparently I managed to achieve my goal without that and I just kept getting better at it. I, personally, had only had 2 good blows in my life... and I had a lot to pick from! The others felt like it would have been better for the girls to not even attempt it, because they mostly turned me off than on... 1.7. DON'T switch off the light, DON'T do it under the blanket, DON'T do it with your winter jacket on... unless you two are in the woods at -10 degrees Celsius. :)) We men are visual animals. Well, at least I am. If you go down on me, I would rather see your nice curves, some strategic flesh, your hair... Because I like to pet you while you do it and if I pet your winter jacket... it's not so rewarding for either one of us, right? Do it in a way that we get to see most of your body naked so we don't need to think about the one before you that did it nicer, but to actually remember YOU. And try to touch him with your body as much as you can. A lot of girls grabbed my but. I'm not such a big fan of it, but if you like it, I'm ok with it. What I like is you grinding on me with every part of you, like you want to get through me and under my skin... for us two to become one. As best positions: do it while he is standing and you get down on your knees or while he lays on his back and you get on all fours and arch your lower back hard so he gets to see both of your chest and booty. 69 might come 3rd.
784456
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2.1. Peel a banana and put a (your favorite flavor) condom over its flesh. Peel it so you don't hurt yourself with the (maybe) hard (er) peel. Also, a banana in its peel is harder to deform from its natural shape... Now the condom is for making sure you can take it out of your mouth not if, but WHEN it will break apart in your mouth and maybe choke you to death... Stay safe! 2.2. My favorite blowjob fantasy is when I come home (from work?) and she gets down on her knees, unzips my pants and start blowing me in the doorway. Behind the closed door, lol, I'm not such a pervert to enjoy my neighbors see us... I also got a fair share of mediocre blows after I managed to make girls cum for the 2nd or 3rd time like a reward: "Hmm, you're still not done? OK, let me help you, you deserve it and by the way, I can't take it much longer..." which is a kind thought that I appreciate... I would appreciate putting more effort in the actual blow, though, but hey, I still appreciate the thought. 3.1. How to do it? Pull your tongue out over your bottom teeth and stick it between the inside of your lower lip and your bottom teeth. Now, for the upper half of the no-teeth blow, open your mouth wide and pull your upper lip down and under your front teeth. now get a penis in between your lips, wrap around and start creating some cheek dimples. As a bonus to the bonus, try to open (the) wide (st) as you can so your teeth don't hurt either one of you (believe me, it can hurt through your lips, too!). Feeling teeth is a major turn-off, so please try not to expose them... And after you manage this type of blow (and you're not going for a deep throat), you can start to retract your tongue back inside of the middle of your mouth (pull your lower lip over your bottom teeth like you did with the upper lip) and start caressing his tip while it's inside your mouth. Good luck and come back with feedback! 🍀
hellionthesagerebornGuru
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Well that depends on what your both into. If she is submissive and he is dominant, then letting him take control will be fun for both of you (just know your limits (you don't want him to get carried away and either hurt you or you have an "accident" because he went to deep for too long or what have you)). I personally enjoy that, but I also like to tell her what to do. I like to have her look at me while I use her, I also like to tell her to play with herself while I'm doing so (edge her, let her play with herself until she is getting into it then tell her to stop, things like that). Definitley need to swallow and not be afraid of his cum and to show that your turned on by it (imagine a guy going down on you but he acts like it tastes awful and he isn't happy doing it. Its not exactly something that sets the mood).
But the best thing you can do is just be enthusiastic and communicate with him to find out what he is into (some guys are into different things and at different times (for instance no hands to start because its visually pleasing, but maybe he wants you to finish by using your hands and mouth because it feels better, some guys may not care either way, so its best to ask him).
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ohsheeMaster
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Moan and take it slow and deep look in to my eyes as I stuff it I. Deeper as it's gagging you moan more slide it all over your face and cheeks tell me you want me to fuck you in slow motion as I ram it back in
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JackSmyGuru
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I actually don't want her to do that, and don't really like it. I know, I'm strange, but I think it is degrading for her, and I love kissing so much, and don't want to taste dick, when I kiss her!! :)
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jshm2Master
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Depends on the type of oral you are able to give, I suppose.
Some guys like more tongue swirls around the shaft, some like sloppy. Others like to skull fuck, and yet others like lips from the tip to the balls.
Unless you're a succubus, these are details you want to discuss with the partner before you proceed with the deed.
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eat_love_workoutXper 4
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the BEST blowjob I ever got my now ex girlfriend was on her knees in bondage
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Walt832Xper 6
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I have an Asian friend I thought Asian are delicate but daaaum lol from innocent to savage. So I'll do what she love and how she likes it.
Do I enjoy hell yes she has a good imagination.
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Samoht_Sirrom1Xper 6
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Use your tongue more... Flick your tongue on the top lick around the tip are at from right near the balls lick all the way to the top and when sucking remember to lick around the go and (underside)
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Samoht_Sirrom1
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Auto correct changes glands to go
t-8900Yoda
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personally I dont want my partner to give me blowjobs at all. I'm weird about making out with someone who does oral just because the idea kind of bugs me lol. I'd rather her spit and stroke and look me in the eyes and talk to me. Plus I'd like to spend time using my hands in her too.
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JacobRotoXper 7
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Don't have the experience to say, but I'm looking forward to experienced people's answers.
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kemo56Xper 6
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I want you to hold the shaft, lick the head tease it slide your mouth over it, look at me with a glint in your eye as you're licking the head of my cock and then maybe start talking naughty in between licks and sucks no I want you to take the lead
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StylesbyDRXper 5
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Stare into their soul. That is all.
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GoodGuyBreakingBadMaster
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Take a couple licks of the head and watch it swell , if you feel your pussy getting wet you know your enjoying licking daddies cock , within minutes let his hot cum load go all over your mouth
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TCredoYoda
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Will admit... this question made me quiver with a deep erotic vibe :)
My "answer" is... it's situational.
If you were to give me a blowjob right now - as I've been chilling out on the couch after a long week... as you curl up next to me... I'd want you to work your wonderful magic... licking, kissing, bobbing... with one hand I'd play with your hair and your face... the other rub along your back and your ass... I'd sink into the couch and just get lost in watching you give me such pleasure... I'd certainly enjoy cumming from this wonderful act but it'd also be awesome if you then rode me cowgirl... up, down, grind... over and over as my face and mouth get wonderfully lost in your breasts...
Under a different circumstance... let's say we just got home from a fun night out... and while we were out my eyes were constantly devouring every inch of you... as soon as we got home, I'd grab you hard for a deep kiss... and you'd knowingly sink to your knees as my night-long aching springs out... my hand would grab a fistful of your hair... I might even slap the sides of your face a few times with my arousal... I'd be assertive and as things build up, I'd end up thrusting with firm hands on your head... as this unfolds, it's all building towards some fucking that would wake anyone within a 7 mile radius...
And there are countless other situations which would naturally and erotically answer your question :)
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TCredo
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As I slip off to bed now... my answer will be thinking of your question :)
Sam_The_SavageYoda
+1 y
You look ugly So I passed you to poor guys. I don't want you even touch my cock. 😘
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TCredo
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I am guessing you are joking?
Senpai_potato
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I don't know who is even trolling here this guy or the OP
TCredo
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@Senpai_potato I won't speak from others but in my opinion... the OP is off the chart lava hot
@senpai_potato sorry lol... I meant... I won't speak FOR others...
Senpai_potato
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Am not clicking a suspicious link 😂😂 and OP pfp is hot we don't know if OP is 'LaVa HoT' or not 😉
TCredo
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@Senpai_potato lol... that is a link to a GaG question from the lava hot OP with your demanded proof :)
Senpai_potato
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Hmm 🤔 *presses X for doubt*
TCredo
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@Senpai_potato lol... if you hover over the link, you'll see it's a GaG one... you could also go to her profile page and see the collage of lava hot pictures :)
MakeushiverYoda
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Don't try to be too much ofan over-achiever. The fact that you are already (in this scenario) already giving some lucky male a blowjob is considered to be an act that would require, maybe incite, some attention. Multi-tasking may be the hallmark of the successful woman in the 2020s but you certainly wouldn't be excused from nothing like household chores. I think you actually wanted to know what you could do erotically to make the blowjob even hotter. I love it when a woman uses both her mouth and hands together. There are a few things that the hand does better than a mouth though both are first rate activities. Perhaps a lubed finer or two up his ass would be a pleasant surprise. I think you probably have a good repertoire already so if you find anything great, us guys can use it to suggest 6o future lovers as requests. Hot photo
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MassagemanEditor
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Go more slowly and carefully in the beginning, let him lead. If he's holding your hair as in the picture, use your hands to play with the rest of his body.
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tofamousXper 4
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You know sometimes Rubbing my legs my ass you know whatever you feel like doing at that moment is which should do You're keeping sex interesting in not routine is you to what you feel like doing at that moment Wait for the feeling notes your partner to tell you which is good and what's not to the emotions in the movements
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BoobManMaster
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It really depends on if you're trying to build it up and draw it out more or if you're working up to the grande finale!
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