Is it normal to ask to use a condom?

i'm about to have sex with a guy with no strings attached. we both have been single for a long time and just wanna have some fun. is it normal to ask him to use a condom? how do one night stands usually go? i've only had sex with boyfriends
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  • Yes it is absolutely normal to ask him to wear a condom and totally understandable and good on you for being so mature about the whole thing.
    I go to swingers clubs so i think i`m probably quite a good person to answer this for you.
    I`ve played with quite a few girls and all of them who have given me a blowjob or hand job haven`t asked me to wear a condom except for one. When i`m not wearing one and they are giving me a blowjob i always move it away from their mouth way before i`m about to start cumming and when it`s a hand job i always finish on them.
    Stupidly i have had sex with a few girls without wearing one but again i take it out of them way before i cum
    I`ve been with a few couples and the guys that they have been with have said to me that providing i wear a condom i can have sex with their wife or girlfriend or whatever they are and i have always put it on, and i am always more than happy to put one on and it doesn`t bother me in the slightest being asked to

Most Helpful Guy

  • Baby carry rubbers with you and if he don't have one you put it on him... it's not perfect but it will protect you from some diseases and it might protect you from getting pregnant if you're not on birth control but the main thing is is disease until you get to know the person and know that you're going to do this on a regular basis and you're not messing around with other people then you can you know do the testing and throw the damn rubbers away but yes if you don't know where the guys been or where he's going to be tomorrow you better have a rubber on him

Most Helpful Girls

  • It’s completely reasonable to ask him to wear a condom, especially in a casual sex situation. You may find that he’s resistant to that idea though. Many guys dislike using condoms and will try to convince you to let them go without one. Hopefully he’s reasonable about it and things go fine though.

  • I think it's normal to ask him to use a condom
    It depends on your comfort level and if you are on birth control

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  • Yes, its always normal to ask if he can use a condom. Its for your safety and its your body :)

  • I would expect the girl to ask for a condom. Otherwise I would assume that she didn't ask the yesterday guy either.

  • Totally normal. It would be irresponsible not to. If he refuses then don't do it.

  • Don't just ask. Say your going to wear a condom or this isn't happening. Please be safe

  • Yes. It's pretty normal. No big deal!

  • Definitely Yes and it's safe to do when you're not 100%

  • I don't have any experience but I assume it would be normal and even if it wasn't you should be able to tell him to use a condom reguardless.

  • i'd say just casually tell him to bring condoms xD i mean from my personal perspective, it's a nobrainer that i bring condoms but if she asks me for that, i even feel better about it, cause even for meaningless sex, i want a partner that is at least somewhat responsible xD

  • yes , and very smart

  • It’s best to ask him to use a condom. Be safe not sorry.

  • You shouldn't even need to ask... it's a basic thing.

  • Its very normal and smart too. You get naked and fuck, that's how one night stands work, lol.

  • I would say yes. You need to protect yourself. As part of foreplay, I would trick you (in a playful way) to put it on for me.

  • If not , it should be...

  • Yes it is normal.

  • Of course you should ask him to use a condom

  • I would ask him to wear one because you don't want to become pregnant

  • normal and safe

  • You should always insist on a condom with someone you do not have a longterm relationship with.
    Please note a one night stand is not as satisfying as having sex with someone that you are emotionally attached to.

  • Of course! Always better to be safe

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