Superb Opinion

  • You have no reason to assume that unless there is a lot more to this than what you said. That is pure speculation, with very little to go on.

    I assume you were drunk and blacked out, since you appear to not remember what happened. That means you have no idea what happened.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Well are there bruises around virgina or breasts where were you clothes when you woke up he may of drugged you and possibly raped you but if he has not gave you a explaination about it then that is weird if you did have consentual sex then he would say i would think and if was just a innocent thing where he put you to bed naked is weird but talk to him first if he claims you were wanting it thats no excuse so seek police advice or his parents advice whatever but dont assume find out forsure as a false report will be bad for him and you so find out the truth first who else was around it maybe someone else did or could be innocent weird but innocent.

Most Helpful Girls

  • There is a good possibility that is the case if drugs were used or you passed out etc.

    Go to the nearest hospital and they will check for any evidence. Don't wash yourself as that will remove the evidence.

    Please talk to someone who you trust and share your feelings.

    I understand you are under age and this must be a terrible feeling. You will get through this and you did not do anything wrong. Everything will be okay.

  • Before you do anything go to a hospital & get checked. If you where raped or even had sex they will be able to tell. Not much information to go on here. Something definitely happened though. Do you recall anything at all? If you drank any thing your drink may have been spiked with the date rape drug.

Scroll Down to Read Other Opinions

What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!

Related Questions

Most men that I have had sex with requested that I keep my wedding ring on while having sex. Why is that?
Guys, Is porn really so satisfying that you dont have a desire for the real thing anymore?
What do you like on your lover's penis/pussy before performing oral on him/her?
Why are guys often so rough in bed?

What Girls & Guys Said

6 35

  • Yes, you should assume it. Goddamn it, you're under eighteen. Talk to an adult about the incident: Your cousin is a terrible and dangerous human being

    • I'm 13

    • Well, is there anyone you can trust on this? Your parents? That cousin of yours should get what's coming to him. Also, avoid him at all costs. Don't hang out with him ever again, or be left alone with him under any circumstance

    • Kinda hard since his my guarding

    • Show All

  • What do you recall happening before you got in his bed? Was your cousin in the bed with you? Were you drinking alcohol the previous night? Using drugs?

  • Get a rape kit.

  • I would hope you don’t drink or stop drinking, not cool.

    • I didn't drink

    • One just doesn’t lay down and wake up in another’s bed without some reasonable explanation

    • I don't know l:/

  • That's a pretty crazy thing to assume without any other information.

  • Nope. Never assume anything in such cases.

    Get dressed, gather all the evidence you have around you, and get yourself down to a police station to make your statement.

  • If you think that don't shower go to the hospital ask for a rape test... If you bathe any evidence will be lost. I'm guessing this isn't normal for you...

  • You shouldn't assume anything, if you're suspicious, you should find out for sure, not jump to conclusions either way. Go to the hospital and have a rape kit exam.

    If you plan on doing anything about it, you'll need to do this anyway.

  • Don't assume, check how you feel looks at the evidence and what was the situation

  • I mean its definitely an assault, how did u feel down there? Usually we can tell if we've recently engaged in sexual activity, especially women

    • It was slimey and wet :/ and it hurt

    • It's definitely rape.

    • Sounds like some sexual activity happened then, I'm sorry

  • I assume that you were drunk.
    Just because you cannot remember having consensual sex does not mean that you were raped.
    The fact that you were in his bed suggests that you were a willing participant.
    If you had been unwilling, he would not have put you in his bed and snuggled with you.
    You have been drinking the Feminist Kool-Aid.

    • She got drugged.

    • @Warmapplecrumble How do you know that she was drugged? There is no mention of that in the question.

    • Read comments.

  • That's a good possibility and to be intoxicated to the point of not knowing what or where you're at and what you doing is not good that's why all women should have personal defense training highly recommended

  • What was the last thing to u remember before waking up, don't just assume anything until you have the facts.

    Were you ill the night before, maybe you had a temperature and they had to cool you down, maybe he was keeping an eye on you. Was he naked too? Was he under the covers. Have you checked yourself, is there's seamen about or condom disgarded, do you feel even a little sore down there

  • Yes what the hell

  • No you dummy. Check your clothes and down there for signs abd if you feel it then report it to police and get a dna test

  • You can’t just assume he raped you. There might have been a good reason for you ending up like that.

    • Which is

    • Were you drunk? Do you remember him undressing you?

    • No ;/ and no. Last thing I remener is drinking water

    • Show All

  • Surprising that you could not find out what time he undressed you, fucked you and let you sleep sound without letting you know. Were you drunk or senseless?

    • Drugs.

    • @Warmapplecrumble It makes sense. He must have fucked you, now I am strongly convinced.

    • Uh I am not original poster.

    • Show All

  • Need more details, If its too sensitive to mention on here, you can pm me.

  • No. Why would you assume that. Surely you must know how you feel if you have been...

  • What the fuck? :DD

  • Show More (21)

Latest Questions

Doo you tjink people are more genuin about their sexuality on gag?
Is it true that all females like guys to cum in their mouths?
What would you do if you found out that your husband had a mistress?
Why do I receive judgment for being non-alcoholic?
Home >  Sexual Relationships  > Woked up naked in my cousins bed should I assume he raped me?