Do guys think goth girls are super into kinky crazy sex?

[Anonymous]

So I don’t call myself a goth but I definitely have gothic interests and I just think dark/fantasy stuff is pretty and I maybe dress a little gothic but I don’t chase after that image. Seems like most guys that ask me out think I’m goth, which is fine, but then when things get sexual they act like I’m supposed to be some freak in bed. They’ll tell me to bite them, one guy wanted me to tie him to a door knob and pull to cut off his air circulation before he’d orgasm so he’d have an amazing orgasm (did not do this by the way), or just other random things that I’m just totally not into. I’m pretty vanilla with sex and I’m not ashamed of it. I like sex lasting around a half hour, hate having dragged out elaborate sex. I like gentle kisses, not rough shit that all these dudes try with me. Like I want to be choked? Um no thanks.
am I projecting this image by being gothic or?

[Berethor]

You project the image of dark feminine, didn't you notice that dark is common in BDSM too?

https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/LightFeminineAndDarkFeminine

https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/EvilIsSexy

[ret04]

Generally, yes. I have an inclination to believe goth girls must be pretty hardcore in bed. It's a classic case of judging a book by it's cover. She looks hardcore, therefor she must be hardcore. It's stupid thinking, because plenty of clean-cut preppy type girls are freaks in bed, so I guess it stands to reason plenty of goth girls types will be vanilla.

[Marcuslrh]

That may be the case but it's just the guys your attracting by how your looking that are a little out there let's say when it comes to the bedroom that's not your fault but probably does have something to do with how your dressing and presenting yourself unfortunately

[abc3643]

You sound wonderful to me... and I love goth.
Clan of Xymox's latest album, "Spider On The Wall", is great beginning-to-end.

[Asker]

So great. And thanks (:

[AaronKrieger]

You'd be surprised by how many gothic/egirls want to be choked.

[SjE78]

not all are and not all aren't, there are some goths i known over the years who dress and live the style but that is about it, being goth isn't about kinks or such it's more about clothing style, interests things of a more dark nature... some like the occult, others metal, some like both others just like the clothing style

tbh i have known women who weren't goths be more into kinks and fetishes than many who are usually typecast as goth

[Apope16]

Yeah. We do. In my experience they have been.

[KilledByBees]

People should really never assume anything, they are just getting their fantasies mixed up with reality and not taking the time to get to know you.

[Kabluie]

yeah I dated a goth in high school and we opened a lot of doors with dom/sub thing sometimes to experiment, but we did gentle things more often.

[winterfox10]

That's the stereotype that goth girls have, yeah.

[AmeerX]

Gothic style has nothing to do like that. That's stupid stereotypical mindset

[TheFlak38]

most of them are boring.

[asshole_]

yeah

[In_Trance]

probably not

[clinteas]

all the goths I met liked anal, so there's this non representative sample for you

[Asker]

Hate anal

[Jakeofalltrades93]

that is the typical assumption

[bassinguy76]

That's just a stereotype. Your average joe could be into kinky stuff.

[Anonymous]

I don't know about kinky but I certainly imagine them being doms.

[Anonymous]

Could be. I've always thought they weren't into sex at all! lol But you're right, it shouldn't have anything to do with it, but people gets these thoughts in their heads.