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(Straight men) Would you accept a blowjob offer from a gay friend?

Here's the situation- a gay friend of mine has recently asked if he could give me a blowjob. I said no thanks because I'm straight. He has been really pushing the matter and saying things like it's not gay to get a blowjob from another guy, or even have buttsex with one because it's "fucking" and not "sex"... He even went on to say all of his fuckbuddies in the past were straight, and is straight up begging me to let him suck me off. I keep telling him no way, a bj from another guy does not appeal to me at all, but he is persistent, and is even saying stuff like I can watch whatever porn I want while he does it or close my eyes and he won't speak to me during. Still a hard no from me, but I'm curious if there are any straight guys out there that would do something like that or have in the past.
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  • Gay guys like to think that because they have a dick they must have an advantage over women when it comes to blow job skills. He imagines that if you let him blow you you will be so amazed that you will want more and possibly want to see what else you might be missing. He doesn't understand that the *only* thing that differentiates sex from all forms of masturbation for straight men is a woman's attention. Gay sex is just masturbation to straight men, but awkward because some other guy is there actually thinking it's real sex.

    So, you could tell him if you ever find yourself extremely horny but too tired to masturbate, you'll call him. But otherwise he should stop asking.

    • Lmao he said that exactly, that I would be blown away by his skills. He even keeps asking for nudes and sent me videos of him with other dudes... I don't know how he does not comprehend that I find the entire thing repulsive... He's gonna get blocked soon if he doesn't stop

    • Well. Surely you are aware that, for men, excessive horniness plus excessive overconfidence can lead to some pretty toxic behavior. This is exactly as true for gay men as it is for straight men - you just don't hear about it as often because it's usually directed at other gay men.

  • Fuck no! I wouldn't do that in a jillion years! "It's not sex, it's just fucking?" What stupid sophistry!

    This guy is not a friend if he cannot respect your wishes. You should tell him to go suck a goat's titty and get the fuck out of your life.

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  • That's the problem with having gay friends, yes it still gay, and you have better options. :)

    https://www.youtube.com/embed/UmY6oJmUT7s

  • I personally would probably say no. However at the end of the day my penis doesn't care if a guy or girl is sucking it.

  • Let him suck you, it’s just a bj, more the merrier, close your eyes and enjoy the feeling. I’ve let a guy friend suck me a bunch, he loves it and continues even after I cum in his mouth

  • Meant to vote no

  • whether or not its gay or acceptable is of no relevance. What matters is you refused his offer and he pressed the issue which is weird next time he asks just tell him no and to stop asking

    • Yeah I agree. I eventually had to block him because he wouldn't drop it... We weren't very good friends anyway, so it wasn't worth dealing with.

  • i have and it was amazing. but if you dont want to then stick to it and tell him no that you are not interested. its no different that guy trying to force himself on a woman

  • I'm Straight and I've received a blow-job from a male friend and I would do it again. 💞
    I'd go for it if I was you. and accept his offer and let him suck you off. 💞

    • Straight? Are you sure? Your profile pic is two guys kissing lmao

    • Just because I have pictures of two guys and two girls kissing doesn't mean I'm gay lmao.

    • Did you continue to use him after the first time, or was it just a one time deal?

  • I probably would. Though, I wouldn't do it because I'm attracted to him ( which is the important part ) see, in my book, if you:

    A treat him like a girl

    B) wanna do it again afterwards

    C) do gay foreplay

    Then you're gay or partly gay. Just don't do any one of these things and I won't do wider you gay... but, just because I won't that don't mean society won't.

    Good Luck! 😀 👍

    • *consider you

    • Thanks for sharing, I appreciate seeing another perspective. My personal perspective is that I don't care about being potentially labeled as gay, but coincidentally, I am not at all interested in doing stuff like that with other guys. Nothing wrong with people being gay or doing whatever sexual acts they want, it's just not for me. I asked the question because I was interested to see what others would do in the same situation.

  • I'd sooner chase him away, and I'm not sure how nicely!

  • I would need to be single. If I am single I don't care too much who sucks my penis.

    • Would you consider yourself straight, bi, gay, or something else?

    • Straight, but I don't care about the body attached to the mouth in my penis

  • Ewww. Ewww

  • Will you accept a bj from a girl?

    • I would, still depends on the girl though... why does that matter?

  • I allowed my black gay friend to suck my dick

  • I consider myself a straight guy because guys don’t turn me on. I love the female body, but in high school I did have a friend that I gave a blowjob to whenever we hung out or he would spend the night over. I’ve given him a blowjob prolly around 15 times since the first time when we were 16 and now we are 39. I only think of girls and never even look at guys. It’s just something that started back in high school and secretly happens whenever we see each other again.

  • maybe if i was super horny with no alternative

  • Hell no!

  • Given that you asked this as a anonymous person, you already know that it is considered "Unacceptable" and not worthy of social considering. If you truly believe in a cause, step-up , throw away the mask, and ask like a man.

    When you do, I'll answer it when you block people from answering it being anonymous as well

    • uhhh... this wasn't asked anonymously. I don't know why this made you so angry. If you actually read before you got mad and replied, you would know that I didn't ask this question looking for advice. I was just curious about how other people would have responded. Wtf are you even talking about with "If you truly believe in a cause"? Especially considering the irony of you asking anonymously, it begs the question if you are even capable of stringing together one coherent thought

  • Maybe if I was desperate for one but then I guess I don’t have a woman around for that. Pretty funny we never have a woman begging to do that

    • Man, if only women were like that... That would be pretty cool if women were remotely interested in me lol

    • Yeah it sucks that it’s usually gay men instead that are, go figure

  • Hell no. If you're straight, it's hard to get pleasure from any sexual encounter with another male.

  • There's nothing wrong with trying it for once then you can decide if you enjoy it or not, I don't think it makes you gay, and I would consider it if I had the chance, might even wany to try giving not just receiving, but I'm not down with butt sex, it's not my thing, only blowjob.

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