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I’m living with my in-laws and my boyfriend doesn’t want to have sex with me. What do I do?

It’s been around 6 months of me living with my partners parents and he refuses to have sex with me because of it. I understand not having sex as much, we used to 4/5 times a week, but it’s now non-existent. I literally have to beg for sex and even then he says ‘it’s awkward’ with them in the house. It’s now gotten to the point where we’re so awkward about having sex, that even when they go out he doesn’t want to. He says he just wants to chill, relax or that he’s tired. It makes me feel so fat and ugly and unloved. We cuddle and peck each other but we don’t even romantically kiss. I’m really not happy with my sex life and sex is a really big thing for me. What can I do? I can’t take it anymore.
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  • If you can afford a room at a motel it may help. If he doesn't even try after all the emotional and physical stress he has put you through. I would leave. People who are happy together are not there because of convenience. They are together out of love. It reminded me of the talk my x girlfriends daughter and her mom and I had one night.

    The daughter was living at home with her boyfriend. They paid rent and were really respectful so it was cool that they lived there. Her boyfriend was at work and the daughter just started crying out of nowhere. Her mom and I were really concerned as to what was going on. She just blurts out that she had to beg and plead for sex and she didn't feel like he loved her anymore. I found it odd that her mom didn't give any type of advice or support. I think it grossed her out. I gave her the advice of possibly getting a motel room and see what happens from there. Her mom pulled me into the other room and started in on me for putting my 2cents in. How could I give a step daughter that type of advice. I said that given that I helped 4 of my friends with thier relationships and they still are my friends. It says a lot about the advice I give. I just look at a problem from both sides equally and then form my advice.

    Her mom and I are no longer together nor do we talk. The daughter how ever and her boyfriend still talk to me. Not as a family unit but more of a friend ship.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Talk to him about it.

    https://www. girlsaskguys. com/sexual-behavior/a10152-how-to-talk-to-your-so-about-sex

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  • Don’t marry him and officially make them your ex in-laws

  • Being in a relationship understanding plays a crucial role in any aspect. When he is not listening to you after these many times then no need to be in relation.

  • Maybe he's really gay then you're just a there to distract anybody from think anything different

  • Living together, unmarried?

    THIS isn't THE 90'S

    GO GET YOUR OWN DAMN APARTMENT

    • I’ve been made redundant from the coronavirus and he hasn’t had a job since December. If I could move out, I would. I have a job interview next week.

    • So you're dating a loser, basically

  • The car is a great place 🤫

  • My mother in law lives with me and has effected my sex life

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