Is this bad? Does this mean that he only wants me for sex now or is it just regular male behavior?

[pink_and_inlove]

Before he was such a gentleman he didn’t touch me anywhere inappropriately at all but after we’ve had sex even when I’m at my house when he sees that no one is watching he’s always touching my breasts (first he starts by rubbing the inside of my upper arm and then he actually starts touching my breasts) he didn’t used to do that before and yesterday I’m pretty sure he knew that I was on my period and still did it anyways Is this a natural thing for guys? I remember my ex used to do this touch my ears and my inner arms accidentally touching my breasts and that guy only wanted a good time which I didn’t give him and he didn’t love me but the difference between them is that my ex started doing this since the beginning even before we kissed for the first time but my boyfriend only started being this way recently after being intimate with each other several times. It’s pretty weird that they both use the same method.

[VIVANT]

Honestly I’d just assume my partner is comfortable with me touching them once we’ve had sex and before basically once we begin touching unless they say otherwise I assume it’s ok.

Jay... 😛💗 I’m puzzled why you call it inappropriate? Then you say don’t mind it. If you don’t mind it what makes it inappropriate and if you mind it why say you don’t 🤔

I think I understand your main concern was what it may be indicative of. And not the act itself. But still.. where does inappropriate come from. Do you mean the timing?

[pink_and_inlove]

Lol I guess it’s just new to me

[pink_and_inlove]

Is it weird that I ignored him and just kept trying to nap 😂?

[VIVANT]

lol naaa not if you were tired 😂

[VIVANT]

Tbh I find it reducing if I’m half asleep. As long as that’s all it is ☝️

[VIVANT]

Relaxing*

[JHwong]

Certainly is horny male behavior 😂 but no I don't think there is anything to worry about unless he is not doing other relationship stuff. It's quite like how I tell my boyfriend how I appreciate him taking initiative, but I'm not with him just because he can get stuff done. Similarly, I'm sure your boyfriend is into you more than just physically.

[TadCurious]

When you're in love with a girl you just naturally want to touch her. My only concern is when he's at your house with your family at home. Trying to sneak a feel in that setting is not cool in my opinion. It would be super duper awkward if your family saw him copping a feel of your breasts. Main point: There's a time and place for everything.
🙋‍♂️🙂

[VIVANT]

Indeed indeed Boys getting a bit ahead of himself 😛 it’s not uncommon but he needs to reign it in in polite comment 😎

[VIVANT]

Company I’m embarrassed just imagining your parents seeing him cop a feel 😛

[VIVANT]

🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️

[pink_and_inlove]

Lol we both know how to be sneaky

[TadCurious]

@Vivant The idea of him miscalculating what he thinks is a safe moment = 😱😱😱

[VIVANT]

🤭😕😅

[Apope16]

No. It doesn't mean he only wants sex. Guys are just horny and want sex all the time. I know it may sound strange but its possible for a guy to want to fuck your brains out and love you at the same time. Even if he always wants sex. He can still love you.

[1millonlies]

Do guys do it for the strict feeling of pleasure? Or is it because they genuinely enjoy being close and intimate with the person they love? Lol or is it all of the aboveXD

[pink_and_inlove]

But he probably knew that I was on my period and he did it anyways why?

[VIVANT]

Jay what does your period have to do with your breasts — Completely diff area 😂😂

[pink_and_inlove]

@VIVANT but he’s trying to get me turned on right? Lol I don't know

[VIVANT]

Naa it can just be for comfort. Guys find boobs concurring— like babies. They lose them around age 3 ... by age 13 they start wanting then back 😛

[pink_and_inlove]

@VIVANT 😂😂😂oh ok bc I thought he was trying to tirn me on lol

[VIVANT]

I can't say I know for sure that he wasn’t trying to, but I can say 💯 certain he wasn’t necessarily trying to 😁😁

[Apope16]

@1millonlies it depends on the girl. If he loves you he wants sex all the time for pleasure and loves. If you are a fuck buddy or just a friend it is just pleasure. Especially if you have a tight pussy, strong kegels that grip his penis tight when he's inside.

[Apope16]

I have sex with girls on their period. Some guys aren't as grossed on. Sometimes the sex is buddy because the woman has more feelings, sensation, and is more horny. Its also a bit kinky. But wear a condom.

[Apope16]

@VIVANT he is touching her breasts because he fe er is comfortable doing so now. He believes that she is okay with it. I rub a womans breasts too because I am a boob guy. Boobs give me intense feelings of arousal.

[ofitziper]

Its pretty normal. I don't know he's motives but many guys joke about grouping their girlfirend's asses for example (not that they dont do the same for us but we do joke about it wich I don't know about girls). I had a girlfriend for 7 months wich i loved so much, and when we started to feel comfortable touching eachother we always did silly things like you said and other things too

[Warmapplecrumble]

Yeah it's natural and normal. I'd feel weird and unloved if my husband didn't do that.

[Berethor]

Regular male behavior, after sex he feels like he already own you, and rightfully so, your ex was pushy because he acted like that from the start, and before he actually claimed you.

[pink_and_inlove]

Is he trying to turn me on or pleasure himself? He knows that that turns me on lol but I was on my period so I felt uncomfy

[Berethor]

Both? he known that you are on period? and period don't stop him touching from your breasts.

tvtropes.org/.../NoPeriodsPeriod

[pink_and_inlove]

Do you think that he still wants to have sex with me even when I’m on my period?

[Berethor]

Some guys are turned-off by period sex, others are totally fine with it, you should ask him.

[pink_and_inlove]

I’m scared lol should I ask “do you care if a girl’s on her period?”

[Berethor]

You can start with that, but it won't give you the full answer about his stand on period sex. :)

[VIVANT]

He doesn’t own her I’m sure you were speaking in metaphor but it’s a bit much lol

[Berethor]

Yea metaphor, and technically she can leave him, but after their first time he has a claim on her. :)

tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/PropertyOfLove

[Sevenpointfive]

he knew he wasn't gonna get laid so he decided it was okay to play with boobs. i mean who doesn't like doing that? he must know your ex because that's a weird technique

[pink_and_inlove]

Nah they don’t know each other

[pink_and_inlove]

I don’t know why they both start by touching my ear, then my inner arm for a long time and then my boobs

[pink_and_inlove]

Meanwhile I was just trying to clothes my eyes 😂

[Sevenpointfive]

well you gotta keep those eyes warm too

[mich15smith]

I don't have any experience with relationships but after having sex he probably feels that you can be more open sexually together and wants to touch you more. You should talk to him.

[tofamous]

Oh that's a difficult situation to be in if you ask them to stop is you don't feel like you're what got any doesn't and then you need to really look at tall relationship was a basin is based on just a piece of ass or is there more to it

[AmeerX]

Seems like you gave both of them access to your body

[pink_and_inlove]

The other guy I had no idea what was going on I was too innocent this guy though Is the only guy I’ve ever allowed to touch my body

[AmeerX]

If I was a girl like you I would push him for marriage or at least seeing his parents right about now

[pink_and_inlove]

I met his parents months ago

[AmeerX]

How long have you two met? Because if it is more than 4+6 months then go for marriage

[pink_and_inlove]

I believe in waiting for 3-5 years for marriage. We have known each other for 6 months almost 7 and have been dating for 5

[AmeerX]

Isn't that a bit too long. I mean if it was me I could wait 5 years but not every guy is like me

[pink_and_inlove]

I don’t know just as long as it’s more than 2 years

[AmeerX]

I think I could wait that long knowing that you are with me and not going to goof up

[jeremy_09]

kinda normal usually more discreet

[bannacookies]

Have you told him you don't like it for him to do that all the time?

[pink_and_inlove]

I like it it turns me on lol

[bannacookies]

Oh, then I guess you don't have much to worry about if you like it. He probably knows you do so it's a win win.

[MrFluff]

Whats the problem? Im not following.. you guys had sex, now its normal he's touching you and all. If im not mistaken its not just sex but proper relationship so after sex its normal to have sex regurarly.

[pink_and_inlove]

I’m just confused lol

[GreenGold1992]

sounds like he doesn't respect you or your space and boundaries, have you talked to him about it? if you haven't said anything, he's just gonna assume you're cool with it.

[pink_and_inlove]

I’m cool with it just surprised

[GreenGold1992]

You made it sound like a problem

[pink_and_inlove]

Is he trying to turn me on?

[GreenGold1992]

Maybe

[andy530]

Sounds pretty normal to me

[pink_and_inlove]

Is he trying to turn me on?

[andy530]

He might be

[Tstrbrainer]

Lol no. It's just a common romantic behavior.
It's nothing strange as you two are already intimate.

They are not just sexual acts, but acts to comfort each other, to show the affection, etc

[VIVANT]

Yes ☝️

[bassinguy76]

He probably thinks it's okay since you've had sex. Tell him you don't like it.

[pink_and_inlove]

I don’t mind it

[Anonymous]

I don't think he only wants sex, I just think he's gotten more comfortable in letting you know WHEN he wants it

[VIVANT]

That’s a good point ☝️

[Opinion Owner]

@VIVANT Thanks Viv 😉

[VIVANT]

👍🏻👍🏻😊