Why would my boyfriend say if I don’t let him fuck me then he won’t fuck me anymore?

I told him it hurts because I’m a virgin
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I was a virgin before I got with him He penetrate inside but I keep on moving a lot because it hurt we didn’t had a full on sex
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  • Then stop calling yourself a virgin. He's already using you for sex and then you want to know why you being treated so poorly. Once he able to touch you that way then that's it. You're not a virgin. What's done is done. But he's not treating you right. And that's why I keep telling people all the time, don't have premarital sex outside of marriage because now you do that you don't know who you got, that enough is a sin, and once you lose your virginity you can't take it back. From what I heard it will hurt for a while because you got to get used to having sex, and you got to have sex often an order for you to get used to it. But other than that, that's a decision you chose to make, and at the end of the day he just wants to get in and get out. By him say what he saying to you, none of the ten thousands go to find another girl that he's going to screw with that isn't a virgin. Not necessarily your fault. That's who he is. But you made a decision to lose your virginity outside of marriage, and you chose to do it with him.

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  • Just tell him that it hurt a lot and you’re scared. If he’s your boyfriend he should understand and you can find a compromise or wait to have sex until you’re ready.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Hey tell him to fuck off then tell him it's the other way around. .. then tell him he needs to grow up and learn how to use it because if it hurts then he sucks then tell him its not about him its about you then tell him him if he can't do any of the above and please you then you will find some one that can

  • Duh. You need more foreplay. Lubricate more, get the blood flowing... And he needs to *care* and be really *hard*. I would not want to deflorate any woman with my borderline ED right now...
    Why he says so? Dunna, probably he is a dick without empathy...

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  • He's threaten to end the relationship if you don't have sex with him. He's pressuring you.

    So take his leverage away: end the relationship. You don't want a manipulative guy

  • Because he is a manipulating D-BAG and doesn't care about you, and only cares about his own personal joy!!
    Dump his lame ass, and find a NICE guy, that treats you like the Lady you are!

  • What an All-Pro fuckhead your boyfriend is? Are you still with him?

  • He just wants the sex, please break up with him before he breaks your heart.

  • I doubt that you count as virgin anymore, and do you want him to fuck you or not?

    • I do but it was hurting me at first I was moving around a lot I couldn’t stay still

    • I see, I think that the main issue is that your boyfriend does not seems to value your virginity, and he see it as an obstacle for proper fucking rather than proof of pureness, that's why he has suck a low tolerance for your behavior, "the gods send nuts to those who have no teeth." Yes at some point your moving around can get old, but he ready to give up on you after your first time? though he might not really meant it, as him saying that he won’t fuck you anymore is the same as him saying that he would leave you, as clearly your boyfriend is not gonna stay in a sexless relationship, especially after you had already agreed to have sex with him, it would be a serious downgrade for him at that point, a downgrade that he is highly unlike to tolerate. You technically let him fuck you, if you didn't then he was not able to penetrate you at all, so he clearly should be able to see that you was making some effort, for a virgin even getting naked in front of a guy can be an issue, while your issue happen only on the last stage, after you allow him to penetrate you, but wasn't able to handle the feeling of having his cock inside you for long, mainly because you was virgin, though many virgin girls who was able to have full sex from the first time. Your boyfriend don't seems to be a patient guy to say the least, but at the same time he might expect you to soldier on and/or fully submit to him.

    • Your first time seems to have been uncomfortable for both of you, in different ways, but it was also sounds quite funny, to think that even though you agreed to let him fuck you and say that you want him to fuck you, you was moving around a lot, as if you are not controlling your body or as if you was playing with him, it's likely the most rebellious pussy that he had been with. So at some point you told him to stop because it hurt or he give up on his own because you was moving around a lot? anyway if you want him to keep trying then maybe you should tell him that, maybe it would offset some of the negative feeling that he got from you moving around a lot and telling him that it hurts, tell him that you want him to fuck you, and that you sorry for your uncontrollable pussy, that way you might be able to make the unsexy situation into a little more sexy situation, and maybe it would motivate him to try again, also you can try to guilt him a little, you can tell him that you lost your virginity to him not for him to give up on you so quickly, tell him that he should finish what he started. Maybe you should also buy him a cowboy hat and tell him that having sex with you is like riding wild horse.

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  • DUMP
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    HIM
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    NOW
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    He is not worthy of being with you.

    He wants to fuck something?
    He can go fuck himself.

  • He said it because he’s a dick.
    Dump him and find yourself a considerate man who’ll put you first above his own needs.

  • He's just being abusive and manipulative. Ditch him, as he clearly cannot get you aroused and comfortable enough to make the sex enjoyable.

  • He’s an idiot

  • Just manipulation for you to have sex with him. Pathetic behavior if you ask me.

  • He's being childish, is all

  • Because fucking you when you don't want to be fucked is called "rape," and rape is generally considered rude.

  • Because he's an insensitive, self-centered douche bag

  • Well, at least his comment shows he's not going to rape you against your will - he's just going to leave. He's apparently honest about his intentions, so that may make it easier to dump him.

  • Sounds like to me the job and just looking for a piece of ass and not a relationship

  • lol don't fuck him anymore then. what a douchebag.

  • Because he’s a jerk and the reason it hurts is because he’s a piss poor selfish lover

  • Wow. Dump him he’s pressuring you what an asshole

    • A real gentleman would tell you “do you want to stop?” that’s what my boyfriend does

    • I also have the same problem with the pain

  • You should tell him to FUCK OFF!

    If he said that to you he doesn't give a shit about you or your feelings let alone have any type of respect for you or for himself for that matter.

    He's a fucking manipulative fucktard who is trying to pressure you into doing something that you aren't yourself ready to do. Do yourself a favor and drop him like he was a hot dick in the virgin village.

  • how can he not fuck you anymore if you're a virgin?

    • I told him it hurt because it’s my first time that’s when he said well if you won’t let me fuck you then I’ll will never do it

    • I was a virgin before I got with him He penetrate inside but I keep on moving a lot because it hurt we didn’t had a full on sex

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