Why Do Some Women Accuse Men Of Treating Them Like Sex Objects Yet Plaster Their Boob And Butt Pics All Over The Internet?

Why Do Some Women Accuse Men Of Treating Them Like Sex Objects Yet Plaster Their Boob And Butt Pics All Over The Internet?
After having a discussion with @Aakash_Hangargi (third pics for you 😂) about boobs and then seeing yet "another" question where the poster seems to just want to show off her boobs made me think why do women accuse men of objectifying them when they're really objectifying themselves... Do what you want, but don't put the blame on men then...
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  • Most of the time we can chalk this up to hypocrisy and really all of us have done hypocritical things in our past so no one is above judgement. But it’s past midnight on a weekend so I’ve got nothing to lose by TRYING to rationalize some of this behavior:


    Theory #1 - the woman is in a good mood and actually feels happy with her body. So she wants to share online but her expectations are to get feedback from a very specific and attractive subset of people; attractive to her. Getting attention from those people she is attracted to will only increase the endorphins she already had flowing and lots of attention brings joy. In this scenario if she gets attention and feedback from unattractive people she is going to lash out and reject their advances as they don’t fit into her narrow and shallow expectations. Saying she feels objectified is just a way of rejecting in her mind someone of less quality than she is because they don’t deserve to interact with her.


    Theory #2 - the woman is feeling negative emotions and is hating how she looks. She will post these pics because she believes that by seeing attention and comments it will bring happiness and make her feel better. Again in this case she has narrow expectations of which compliments she hopes to receive and therefore when someone gets too sexual or their underlying intentions go further than the compliments she seeks then she lashes out and reflects her own negative vibes back to that person.


    Theory #3 - the woman may be in a mood to banter and flirt. She posts the pictures and when she gets comments her style of flirting is to call them out and claim she feels objectified. Once again her expectations are the other person knows her style of flirting and will respond in a playful way to start bantering. In this case she full well knows they are not objectifying her, it’s just the opening salvo.


    Theory #4 - it’s a trap! Personally after experience with the ‘how do I look’ section over the years on GaG I’ve found a good percentage are fake and the asker has ulterior motives. They may post a skanky photo and after some people fall for it and respond they push back crying out Objectification or use another account to swoop in and belittle the person. Is a pathetic game, they want to feed on others emotions of fear and embarrassment.

    • I just don't get it.. Any of it..🤷🏼‍♀️

    • All fair theories!

    • @ecfresh I didn't mean didn't get your answer.. That was great as always.. I just don't get things these days.

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  • I have the exact same question in my mind and many women/girls gave me the same answer! And the answer is: This is how we empower our selves and feel sexy. There is a lot to say about that statement, i know women who can show they are powerful and sexy without showing skin and they don't get much attention and as always! They are misjudged and the usual (control freak) name calling. The social media attention works by showing of skin and some melons or some peaches in tights to get the likes and sometimes sponsors which leads to getting payed. For me! It's all about the BENJAMIN'S baby

    Puff Daddy - It's All About The Benjamins
    Puff Daddy - It's All About The Benjamins

    So the real ones are all ignored and misjudged in one hand then you have the ones who just want to make the dream of being rich without having a degree or even combined, many will do anything without showing their privates (only a glimpse) so they get the kinda of attention that brings money.

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  • tbh, it is "do as I say, not as I do" & "practice what you preach".

    Women want attn, usually from certain guys (or girls), but when others admire them or comment, they do the Me 2 movement crap..

    I have divorced friend that CONSTANTLY posts sexual stuff and lots of barely dressed pics on social media, BUT gets so mad when guys respond, comment, or ask her out.

    I asked her why she does this if she does not want the attn.. she said she just likes sex, showing off her body, and basically rubbing her ex husband's face in what he is missing out on...

    • See I don't get that either... If someone's an ex, why do you care what they missing or not. I had a friend say that once to me when had to meet my ex hubby for tax purposes and she told me to dress sexy so he could see what he was missing out on but uh yeah as I left him for being extremely abusive, wtf would I care and I don't play games like that and I was already with my second hubby by then so again WTH would I care or do that, 🤷🏼‍♀️

    • i agree... to me, she is full of anger over him leaving, he did abuse her, and she has never been single before.. got prego at 16yo, married at 16yo, had 4 kids... divorced at 25yo... he left her with Nothing.. I think she still loves him, but not the way he treated her... I stayed with a lot of abusive me, for either fear of being alone, or "i can change him".. and then stupidly, went back to several of them, mostly for sex.

    • Yeah I stayed with my first longer than should of but we learn. Don't beat yourself up over it we all make mistakes, bad decisions That's how we learn and grow sometimes 💜🙂

  • Bc some woman are self centered, and just plain stupid. They have no respect for themselves, and its a very very awful way to play games with guys that its not fair to them bc they can't have them when they have already a hard time being horny themselves everyday.

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    • thanks for the MHO 😊😊😃

    • No prob

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  • Let's see? ... this is a two part question

    FIRST PART: I am not one who does that actually

    SECOND PART: No comment... lol

    Why Do Some Women Accuse Men Of Treating Them Like Sex Objects Yet Plaster Their Boob And Butt Pics All Over The Internet?
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  • Not the same women. I doubt if the ones sticking their boobs in everyone's face are the ones complaining about being objectified. Now if they were the same ones, there would be something really wrong with their thinking.

    A group of people can never be hypocrites unless they all the same.

  • I'm not sure if the women who love to show off their bods are the same ones who are up tight about being objectified. Any woman who does both is very confused.

    I, personally, think there is a healthy aspect to objectification. It's actually just an appreciation of beauty. We can see the human body as the highest form of art and appreciate it in the same way we appreciate any work of art or wonder of nature.

    Idealizing the human form is the very basis of sexuality. It's magical when someone sees another person's appearance as ideal and actually gasps at the sight. It's one of the greatest pleasures in life. Beauty and physicality should be celebrated.

    The danger is when that's all a person sees. People are not mere objects/things. They are much, much, MUCH more. As long as we appreciate someone's full humanness, not merely their appearance, then there is nothing wrong with feeling awe and appreciation for their physical form. And there's nothing wrong with taking pride in one's one physicality. I hate it when women are shamed for doing so. I do think it's odd for someone to feel objectified for merely being appreciated. But at the same time, I realize that really unhealthy forms of objectification are not uncommon. And that harms everyone.

    • Great answer... And just to state, I'm not trying to shame anyone but there's ways to show your physique without showing everything.. I just don't want to see young women think that's the only way to get attention or feel sexy is to show their nakedness to everyone.. If they want to that's their choice but if they feel like they have to for attention then that's different, if I explained it okay 🤷🏼‍♀️

    • I hear you, bbb. It's true that some ways that women present themselves are exhibitionist. It makes them seem shallow. Sometimes it's like they are into commercial culture and think of themselves as the kind of products they see in media. In other words, phony. It goes beyond being comfortable in their own skin and taking pride in their appearance.

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  • If you figure this out, please clue me in. It seems there is no shortage of women who are all too willing to be objectified. When a woman is that up front about her visible assets, I am inclined to wonder if that is all there is.
    ~JSmith

    • Exactly! Sexy is an attitude not a state of dress or undress

  • Just because someone shows off their body does not mean you have every right to disrespect them. That says more about you than the person that's just doing their own thing.

    • Yeah okay if you read, these will be there same women that say men see them or use them for just sex. and if you further read I said do what you want but then don't blame men. But that you apparently didn't read or get that part says a lot about you as well 🙂

    • "You" is a general statement. 😌

    • Also, I date women. I've also dated women that worked in the sex industry and I still didn't disrespect them. If you are respectful, it comes naturally. Why be mean when you can be nice. It's so easy. Once more, "you" is general.

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  • When I was married, everything that I did that was wrong was, of course, my fault. Everything that my wife did that was wrong was a reaction to something that I did so her errant behavior was also my fault. Conclusion: whatever happened, it was my fault

    • Ha I thought that was just my role in life lolol I don't even have to be there but if something happens it's my fault

    • @olderandwiser Yup, I went through the same thing. Never again. I will never be able to trust a woman again.

    • #brainsbeforebeauty. Guess how long that marriage lasted?

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  • Well, for starters, there's no such thing as "objectification" unless you think people like to f*ck toasters or something. If anyone were to treat people like objects, it'd be women, considering they own 90%+ of the sex toys out there. Being sexually aroused by someone is literally how life works. Anyone who whines about "objectification" is likely just a feminist (aka, an idiot) not worth paying any attention to. (Not referring to the OP, here.)

    With that out of the way, these women are just hypocrites and b*tches. That's all. They like the attention and like to CLAIM "I dress this way for myself," but that's a lie because if you didn't get attention from it, you wouldn't dress that way to begin with. You'd dress to look comfortable because you're not looking at yourself all day long (unless you're walking around taking selfies the entire day, and some women out there do actually do that, so maybe THEY get a free pass). So yes, it's purely for attention. However, they just don't want attention from unattractive guys (which are most of us), or they want the attention, but don't want men to comment on it. It's usually feminists who dress like this, often times to bait supposed "misogynists" into commenting on it, so they can feign feeling victimized, oppressed, and "objectified."

    I personally hate people like this. Hypocrites and those with double standards. They can f*ck off, for all I care. You have the right to dress however you want as long as it's appropriate, and people have the right to react however they want to how you dress. You don't get to have autonomy over your own body PLUS other people's eyes.

    • Ha very well said!!!❤️👍👍🙂

  • The women complaining about sexual objectification are mostly different from the ones posting nudes.

    • Sometimes but not always and there is other ways to get attention... Butt if putting it out there can't turn around and say men see women for only Sex, cuz ain't they doing that to themselves then 🤔

    • nah, there are plenty of slootz who hate and expose dudes that sent them d pics. they are all over instagram.

  • It's her body she can do as she pleases, besides sometimes you just want to take a cute pic and post it, some people do it for attention and others do it for self-appreciation, why are you so pressed by these women if you don't do it why do you care if they do?

    • I really don't.. But then women shame men for looking out being pervs. And that ain't even right... And I can ask what I like, Why do you care? See how that works 🤷🏼‍♀️

    • actions have consequences dummy.

    • H-Y-P-O-C-R-I-T-E ! Once I had this female friend, who had my entire trust and (I thought) I had hers. I've a very acid sense of humor, and always say sincerely what I think, no matter the consequences. It's a HIGH value for me, sincerity. Anyway: she had a breast augmentation and, woe to her, posted a selfie on her Facebook wall with a monster cleavage, while posting "my new acquisition". I commented "and what are they selling these tits?" My god, the social havoc that has caused! She called me every imaginable name then blocked me and stopped talking to me. It's indeed her body, and she does what she wants with it. But if she exposes herself like she did, she won't be surprised at people's reactions. Better yet, she only has to assume her big boobs!

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  • That's different!! I am told!!
    I like certain ones, and they don't show off, and post pictures on the internet!
    I have never been accused of treating any as 'sex objects' but rather had most say I was the most "loving, caring, and some added 'gentleman'!"

    • Well that's good

  • Because they want the attention but not to be seen as total sluts.
    So they flex their good stuff in order to look appealing but keep the creeps away by taking a moral high ground.
    Once they meet a guy they deem worth their time they'll let him say and do pretty much whatever he wants

    • This seems pretty accurate!

  • Sometimes it different women, but many women nowadays think that they can eat the cake and have it too, and of course there is feminists, and feminists tend to be an huge hypocrites.

    https://www.youtube.com/embed/WOqXQ_MVXUo
    • Omg again with the cake 😂😂I had such a craving for a piece of cake after reading all them replies yesterday lololol someone owes me some damn cake 😂😂

    • Whereas I agree with the point in the video, I believe the majority of feminists aren't hypocrites.

  • The sexyer is the small one in the upper left.

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  • Women who post pics like this are certainly objectifying themselves

    • I agree.. But then turn around and bash men for just Wanting them only for sex, 🤷🏼‍♀️ makes no sense to me

    • Yes! And no it makes no sense at all

  • I don't like it when a girl has obviously dressed to impress So you give a genuine smile just to show she turns heads so looking fantastic and what do you get for the compliment but a filthy look a if your a kinda perv Well that's what it leaves me feeling like

    • Can't get mad at people for staring if you got it all hanging out or call them pervs for looking,🤷🏼‍♀️ that's such hypocrisy

    • But it happens more often than you think

    • Oh I know it does, hence the post lolol

  • Well, its always been seen that many (not all) guys are very open about their sexual life. They are not very open but like to talk about. Seeing guys talk like that, some girls mistake it with objectifying girls as sex toys. Their are also men who directly objectify, but most of the time guys are just appreciating the sexual life they lead and the woman they were or are with. Some girls like to accuse guys while also putting up intimate photos of themselves on the internet. These girls might not feel very good in expressing their sexual life verbally while are comfortable with sharing it indirectly through the internet. The girls just mistake guys objectifying them when the guys are just expressing themselves and then the whole objectified as sex toy thing happens.

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  • Yep, sounds like a prime example of hypocrisy to me. Looks like these women just want to have their cake and eat it to.

    • Yeah agree there

  • I just got done reading why do people oversexualize women in the media. This was a clear agenda question as the poster of the question only accepted what they wanted to hear but I went it might not be only sex that sells but some women want to be sexy too.

    Maybe women like sexual roles. No thumbs down but no thumbs up for sure...

    It makes me wonder about where the balance is... Do we allow actresses the choice to be sexual or the option to take on a non sexual role in the future. That would be an interesting thing in hollywood for women to choose the roles they want rather the roles the need to get into Hollywood aka Emma Stone easy A

    • You can be sexy without showing titties and ass.. Sexy is more the confidence and attitude you "wear" not just the clothes you do or "don't" wear

    • Agreed

  • For the most part, the women complaining about being sexual objects are not the same women plastering their T&A's all over the internet. Now one could make the argument that the women complaining about sexual objectification should police their own, to which I think they would respond that in pointing out the ills of sexual objectification, they are.

    As for those who complain *and* put dem titties on instagram, well they're certainly inconsistent, aren't they? But you'll find hypocrisy in all walks of life. Some I think would argue that being sexy isn't the same as being sexual objects. They want to be seen as sexy, but as a human being as well. Then there's an element in some cases, perhaps many, that it's OK if you're an attractive male, but they don't want an unattractive male sexually objectifying them.

    I believe the biggest hypocrisy is when women complain about being sexual objects then turn right around and do the same to men. Cosmo ran an article about the best bulges in the 2016 summer Olympics... while running numerous articles about the dangers of sexually objectifying women. The thing is, I believe in this case the women doing the complaining *are* the same ones who are admiring the best athletes' junk. The responses I've heard to people calling them out on this run along the lines of, "Well, men have been sexually objectifying us for centuries, so turnabout is fair play." This I think is taken directly from the two wrongs making a right playbook. Moreover, I would argue that women *have* been sexually objectifying men for as long as vice versa, it's just that for centuries they were made to keep quiet about it.

    https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/g5982/best-biggest-olympic-bulges/

  • Kudos 👏🏽👏🏼👏👏🏾👏🏻👏🏿👏🏽 Thunderous applause from the UN

    • Lol thanks 🙂 I'd curtsy if wasn't afraid it'd throw hip out 😂😂

    • Bows in acknowledgment of you not wanting to throw a hip out. 😌

    • 😂😂😂

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