Tips on how to cum faster? READ CAPTION?

I literally can't cum or it takes a really long time. Thats doesn't mean it doesn't feel good whenever i masturbate. But i saw this comment on ph: When I was 15 I couldn't cum because i didn't knew how, but then i followed the things this men did with my hand and OMG that fucking feeling was awesome. Now I'm 17 and I've orgasmed a lot of times but this vid will always have a special place, I always orgsam with this vid. by the way I would love some showerhead vids, I also love to do it so we could do it together.

So i thought that maybe i just don't know how to pleasure myself. i watched the video and the men told his girl to squeeze. I tried it and it felt better. Are there any other tips? From men and/or woman?
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  • Well, it always feels better to have someone else stimulating you compared to doing it yourself, BUT, if you can learn what they're doing, and if you can cum with them, you can use those techniques on yourself and get there on your own.

    Of course, you can simply rub your clit in various ways, but in my experience, the most reliable way to make a girl orgasm with fingers is the G-spot method. It's not as easy to do it to yourself due to the angles involved - you probably need to pull your legs back to make it easier, and it might help with a pillow under your ass, but you insert 2 fingers (pointer and middle, usually) and curl your fingertips to put pressure on your front vaginal wall.

    G-spot stimulation
    G-spot stimulation

    What you are really doing here is stimulating the base of the nerve cluster that makes up your clit, and you're doing it from below the nerve (and from inside) instead of from the top. But, you can use your thumb to also stimulate your clit. Your G-spot will swell when aroused and will have a wavy texture, and will kind of feel like a small, fleshy walnut. You will feel lots of feelings there as you stimulate it, especially as your arousal increases. You may also feel like you have to pee - this is normal, but you might actually pee during your orgasm, so either pee thoroughly before you start or put down a towel (or both). If you try too hard to "stop the pee" you'll have trouble orgasming, because you have to relax and let it come.

    I generally start with slow penetration and making wiping or circular motions on the G-spot, but as she gets aroused more and more, I speed up, and eventually, I keep my hand shape fixed like the picture above, but instead of moving it in and out, I move it up and down very rapidly - almost like a vibrator - so my two fingertips are kind of bouncing on her G-spot. It's very rare that this doesn't lead to her having a HUGE orgasm. Again, you may feel like you're going to pee, but you may find that you can't get over the edge into orgasm if you don't relax and let go - even if you pee a little.

    • Thank you for this comment. I will try it out and i really appreciate it a lot!

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  • How do you normally stimulate yourself? Rubbing Clit or fingers?

    • i use a toothbrush and push it against the clit

    • Maybe you should try fingers

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  • I think you just need to experiment and figure out what works and what doesn't

  • Sext with someone. I always cum faster when someone else tells me what they want to do or sends me a picture of their exposed body.

  • Flick the bean faster

  • Think dirtier thoughts