Straight men, do you believe lesbians hate men? Straight women, do you believe gay men hate women?

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allenwants2 · Accepted Answer

When I was about 13
I had 2 older friends Linda and Heather they were a couple they helped me so much in many ways mostly kept me away from hard drugs cause that's where I was headed I took up a very large part of darn near every day and evening for a good year Linda worked at a steam generator plant making electricity but Heather was home so we hung out there were other girlfriends of hers would come over and we would talk and joke most of the day I had quit public school and they new it so they were teaching me about life and what I needed to do and didn't know it then Linda would come home from work and there I would be sitting on the couch so after awhile she got me a job with Eddie the plummer I worked with a guy named nemo but after work there I was back on the couch those. 2 puts lot of time in me so that is why I don't think they all hate men years later I was at a landromat and in walks Linda I hadn't seen her in about 10 years she saw me iyelled Linda she yelled Allen and we hugged what seemed like forever before she let go she told me Heather died a few years. Back in car accident we cried holding each other but Linda then said she was sorry she couldn't let me come to her house because her partner wouldn't understand our friendship and with a heavy heart went our separate ways it's been 20 years sad tosay

007kingifrit · Accepted Answer

the science on this subject is inconclusive but persistent

There is a link between abused children and those kids ending up gay

46% of gays report being molested as children where only 7% of straight people report being molested as kids

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/11501300

here is another study that points out the link between homosexuality and being abused as a child (either sexual or physical) the study goes on to say it is difficult to prove a causal link but certainly something is there

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3535560/

https://stream.org/yes-childhood-sexual-abuse-often-contribute-homosexuality/

so yea it is reasonable to assume many gays do hate the other side

weasley8 · Accepted Answer

I’m bi. But I voted anyway. Because I figured that the reason you said straight people is that they are into the opposite gender. And so am I. I’m just into the same too.

No. I don’t think that gay men hate women. Nor do I think gay women hate men. For the same reason that straight women don’t hate other women, and they don’t hate all the men that they’re not attracted to, and vice versa. Not being attracted to someone doesn’t mean you hate them. Moreover, there’s also the fact to contend with that a large number of gay people primarily have friends of the opposite gender. My little brother is an example of that one. As are many of my friends. So of course being gay doesn’t mean you hate the opposite gender.

Honestly, I think that this stereotype only exists as a way to delegitimize homosexual attraction. Basically by saying that it only exists because there’s something blocking heterosexual attraction. But that’s not how things work. And bisexuality even existing is evidence that you can be attracted to the same sex without having a reason not to be attracted to the opposite sex.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Im bisexual and i knew of a few lesbians who hated men and one of them trashed men completely which is really messed up. I dated this girl too so i felt really bad. I dont think I'd ever be able to date a girl again who completely hates men because that is sexist and really cruel just because you don't feel attracted to men or had bad experiences doesn't mean you should hate them all. I know there's good men out there and my boyfriend is really awesome and i had a few good guy friends in high school and middle school. It just depends on the people regardless of sexuality and gender. Anyone can be a jerk there's no other way around it and i dont believe gay men hate women either. Gay men are actually some of the kindest chill people in my opinion i know from talking to a few.

MrOracle · Answer

I've known lots of lesbians (I live in the Bay Area, and have a number of them as customers currently). Most don't hate men - they're just not attracted to men. Now, I *have* known a few who DEFINITELY hate men, but they're certainly the exception rather than the rule.

meetkitty123 · Answer

There sure has been a lot of hate questions that I've been coming across lately honestly I get that it's a question but I have a question why does anyone have to hate anybody?

I enjoy both men and women on an intellectual level I just can't picture hating either one.

Smoke-n-Growls · Answer

Glad to see there's a good chunk of rationality right now. Not straight, bi, and I know some lesbians who hate all men but few gay men who hate women. One of my best friends is a gay man.

Barbie6969 · Answer

I actually dont care what anyone hates about my gender. Im not concerned with their gender or sex life and is appreciate the same respect

NamerOfStars · Answer

No, I just think they're not attracted to (or not primarily attracted to) them. If a lack of attraction implies hatred, then I am  WAY  behind on my hating quota.

aWes0MeNeSs · Answer

Out of all of the gay men and lesbians I've met, the vast majority don't have anything personal against the opposite sex, but just aren't attracted to them.

Account · Answer

A person's sexual orientation has absolutely nothing to do with hatred or dislike towards a specific gender. It makes no sense

Brainsbeforebeauty · Answer

No I don't think that at all. I think it's about their sexual orientation. It's more about who they're attracted to and who they fall in love with then about hating on others... And then you have be sexual people that are attracted to both so obviously they don't hate, they are attracted to/ love both...

mindNsoul · Answer

That's a tough one. I've seen more lesbians hating men than gay men hating women.  So I don't know 🤔

Lliam · Answer

I don't think all lesbians hate men. They just prefer sex with women.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

The haters usually make a loud noise and get too much attention, so their numbers get over-estimated.

blank_expression · Answer

A closet lesbian ex certainly hated dick. She complained before she came out of the closet about that one thing. The lesbian ex hated the size and the stretch, while a very feminine ex loved the oversize. There is a definite correlation between man hate, dominance, and the dick. If you notice, most feminists-lesbians claim to have clitoral orgasms only, while the feminine women I know have vaginal orgasms. The lesbians will usually have very low 2D:4D ratios (low empathy) and some usually other masculine features as if while they have a vagina, they are wired male mentally and detest men for their penis while they match up with their clits. Based on my lesbian and bi ex experiences, they hate men.

Pasiton5 · Answer

They are humans also not mutants it aliens and it comes down to respect respect their right to live as they choose, why is that so hard to do

lightbulb27 · Answer

there seems an underlying spite against opposite gender. most have been wounded by the opposite gender. not sure that is 100% of the reason for their behavior, but contributes.  who knows...

JackSmy · Answer

Some of my best female friends are TOTALLY Committed to another woman!! I HATE LABELS, and they are just my friends, and what their sexual preference is, doesn't affect how we relate, and the sense-of-humor, we share, and working together, sometimes!
I have never gotten the impression that they were 'hating me' being straight, and even, sometimes teasing, and letting them hug me!
Quite the contrary, they all seemed to like just having a 'straight guy friend' that totally supported them, and loved, and defended their right to love who they chose!!

bigmatt98 · Answer

No I'm not stupid

Gerdchen · Answer

I love women and I don't hate men. Why should a woman who loves women hate men? We humans (at least some of us) are able to sort others into more groups than just "I love them" or "I hate them".

normalice · Answer

I think hate is the wrong word, but it's not far off. It's a mixture of confusion, disinterest, fear, and even a bit of competitiveness. These are all necissary components of hate but not all there is to it.

RolandCuthbert · Answer

I can't believe the results. I would think most of the GaG faithful would think lesbians are women with daddy issues. Well, they seem to think that way about most women who are not attracted to them.

Godofmyownwurld · Answer

Im a lesbian. I dont hate men, I just dont want to fuck them. They're hairy, they're not the right shape ⌛, their voices dont turn me on, etc.

If certain individual men insist that their weird floppy dicklets would be the one to "turn me straight", then i hate them. If they're like "aw who hurt you?" Or "you're too pretty to be gay." Then I hate them. Individual idiots, not the collective gender.

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