What happens with me and him now?

I was dating a guy I finally asked him after we had sex what we are actually doing since we were just going on dates for a month and I just didn’t know where I stood. He said me and him are just a fun thing since he’s not looking for a relationship. I just thanked him for telling me and I said I’m the same and we can just have fun and he just said yeah that’s fine by me. So now what? Do we still speak everyday
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  • Well that depends on you two and what you want. If you want to talk everyday and have sex than do it. If you simply want someone in your back pocket that you can call up and fuck than do that. Just be aware that he migjt have his own ideas as to what he wants and if you two dont align than there is a good likelihood that this will fissle out which is understandable especially if you aren't looking for a long term partner in him.

    • I want more than this I want something serious with him I want to change his mind

    • Okay well you've fucked up than cause you just told this guy you want a fuck buddy relationship and he's going to proceed under said pretenses. Now if you want a long term relationship you have a couple options available to you. You could simply call him tell him you're sprry but you lied and your not comfortable with a FB relationship. This is either gonna cause him to cut contact or, if he was lying, try to start a relationship but honestly the first is probably most likely. Or you could continue the relationship but try and make it not just about sex but also do activities together and try to create an organic relationship that way. Or the last potentiallity i see is a little of both where you cal him tell him you aren't really comfortable with the FB but you do want to remain friends and than try to work your way through the friend zone. Either way unless he immediatly asks you out you're still gonna have to look at other options as honestly im guessing this guy night not be the best long term prospect.

    • Yes I’m gonna try and do this and ask to hang out with him. And still do activities together. I feel like if I say about not having friends with benefits though he will just cut me off since there’s no sex involvwdc

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  • You asked a guy this after sex? Uhmm... rookiest move in the book. What answer did you expect lol

    • I thought he wanted something serious

    • You asked at the worst time possible. His minds made up after you put out, there's nothing more for him to work for

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  • Why wouldn't you?

  • That’s absolutely disgusting basically you’re nothing more than an F buddy

  • If you're having sex, you're boyfriend girlfriend