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Think of the analogy of boiling a frog. If you throw the frog into boiling water it will leap out. But if you place it in cold water and gradually increase the heat, the frog won't notice and will stay even when the water boils. Getting men to play rough (who aren't used to playing rough) is very much the same. Make a game of trying to convince him to be just a little bit rougher each time. Have him turn up the dial gradually, so over time he can reorient his perceptions of what you can comfortably receive.
But if I’ve asked you to then what are you afraid of?
Zero confidence that I'll do it right and not mess up.
It doesn’t but that’s the fun of it ;)
That and the gauging and chocking sound does not help.
are you a masochist? xD
Very much so
well there you go xD most men aren't sadists. that's why.