Guys, why are some men scared to throatfuck even when the girl asks you to do it?

[ava00]

Why do guys either refuse or are gentle when you ask them to throatfuck you? Are they scared of hurting me?

[Aguysopinion4799]

I would 100% want to do that, but the issue at hand is pretty much like what most guys on here said.

Most girls can't handle it
Without proper experience you don't know what their limits are
There are multiple types of "ThroatFuck"
Has he been told what you will do if it gets too much, because you need to make sure he knows what you are doing and why you are doing it.
Guys don't want to risk getting a lawsuit on themselves for hurting her during sex, even if it was her proposal to do it.

It isn't often a case of guys not "Wanting" to do it but rather they just know there is so much that can go wrong if they aren't close with the person and not 100% on the same page.


On another note, you have personalities.

There are vanilla guys who are just scared of doing anything out of the norm and just want to avoid hurting someone, they can also sometimes be thrown into a Masochist category.

Then there are the ones who WANT to do extreme things but they don't agree to do it until you have 100% agreed with it because their worry is that they think their actions may get them in trouble if there was no verbal agreement to such extreme things.

I myself am a Sadist, I would definitely want to have a person in a ThroatFuck situation, gagging, struggling for breath, but I also wouldn't want to do it with a person who was not prepared for something like that, I would want them to understand how far I was going to go and that if they can't handle that then we shouldn't consider such things.

It really does depend on multiple scenarios and personalities.

[MrOracle]

Yes. It's not hard to take a girl from "enthusiastic" to "overwhelmed" to "freaked out", especially if you don't have some history and some trust together. You can tell a guy what you want, but unless he knows you well, it's hard to really interpret exactly what she means, or know if she really means it or if it's just an idea she has with no real experience to back it up - and no guy wants to be accused of sexual assault or whatever.

If you're in a relationship with the person and have built up trust together, it's very different. You have a better idea of what she can probably handle, and you know how she's likely to react.

[Red_Arrow]

Because of the embarrassment of taking her into the emergency room with a terribly bruised throat.

[connythebaker]

Yes probably. If a female asks me to do sth. potentially hurtful or degrading I will probably simply throw her out. Most guys don't like to play therapist for their partner's mental issues.

[Marcuslrh]

I would say that's probably the issue and you have teeth in their if you gag, bite down or start to be sick because of it we pay the price big time you have to think about these things

[spartan55]

I don't think scared has anything to do with it. It's not something most guys are going to pull out of their bag without knowing for certain their partner is down for it. I agree with @Automatic812, I've never had one woman ask for that.
Ass smacked? Tits slapped? Choked? Inner thighs squeezed? HELL YEAH to all those... but no throat fucking requests.

[normalice]

Only reason I would decline to throatfuck a girl who asked me to is because I wouldn't want to cum to early. But if she's willing to put in the work for a second round, then I guess she better hold her breath.

[ChocoBrownieMonster]

Because the noise of choking is not v. nice.

[Dr_Sausa]

If she asks me to throat fuck her, she's going to get throat fucked, period. Lmao!

[ava00]

Haha 😂

[glennos89]

I guess because it looks like absuse when you see it in porn movies and I don't wanna abuse any girls

[Bananaman177]

It takes very little pressure to cause a permanent jaw injury.

Very little pressure in the wrong direction, that is. Forcing a jaw open is the easiest way to break it, dislocate it, or destroy the ligaments. Any one of which could very easily lead to a permanent injury.

There's a lot of things that you see in porn and think, "oh, that looks easy!" But you can absolutely destroy yourself trying it if you don't know what you're doing.

[JacobRoto]

Oh I'm super scared. Now, I'm a very confident person, but I completely lack sexual dominance confidence. I'm always scared to do something undesired or cross some line.

[ava00]

But if I’ve asked you to then what are you afraid of?

[JacobRoto]

Zero confidence that I'll do it right and not mess up.