Boyfriend doesn’t make me orgasm?

[Anonymous]

After he cums, he isn’t in the mood and I finish myself off. It happens constantly. Is it dump worthy?

[Love2Jackit]

Oh he's got 2 go. Any man that cums 2 fast. Then want help u get off. Worse than that he won't eat pussy. U have got u a self centered asshole. One who only thinks of himself. I mean nobody else. He's only in it for himself. Reason I know this. He's what I call true proof of the Devil. Meaning the Devil thought he was the divinest angel. U see what happened 2 him. God cast him out of heaven. Then in 2 the lake of fire. 2 live in hell for all eternity. Well it's time for u 2 cast ur Devil away. I promise u thier is better. Make him see what he lost. I bet u he will make up all kinds of lies. Saying it was all ur fault. Remember a self centered asshole dies no wrong. In thier minds they are always right and everybody else are always wrong. True proof the Devil don't have a wife. The Devil promotes men 2 gay. That's why many people don't believe a man being gay can and will go 2 hell. I know the gays don't want 2 hear it. By being gay that is a lifetime time sin against God. God created woman for man 2 have a friend. One that reproduces the world. Remember gay men do nothing 2 repopulate the world.

[Anonymous]

So basically he’s using you as a masturbation aid and he doesn’t treat you like a lover. You might as well be an inflatable fuck doll. Your experience of sex is utterly irrelevant to him… And your asking if he is dump-worthy? Yes! Life is too short for selfish, inept lovers. Sexual compatibility is extremely important. Wouldn’t you prefer a guy who was enthusiastic about making you cum as much as you could possibly stand? (He’s out there!)

[Asker]

Yes and my ex was like that. It sorta feels like a downgrade tbh

[Opinion Owner]

You deserve better. Good luck finding happiness and satisfaction. :)

[ZiZi_Bell]

I wouldn't say it's dump-worthy unless you talk to him about it and he still refuses.

If you tell him it bothers you and he still won't do anything about it then that means he doesn't care about your pleasure. He's not interested in pleasuring you, he only cares about getting pleasure for himself.

That I think is dump-worthy. If he can't care enough about something as simple as making sure you cum, what else is he gonna not care about?

[Asker]

And there are other things

[ZiZi_Bell]

Ah see yeah. It's not dump-worthy on its own, but if there's other stuff then yeah I'd say dump him.

[SarahP080102]

Hell yes!! If he doesn't take time to make you cum then get rid of him

[AustinMan]

Maybe. Is he inconsiderate in a lot of other ways?

[Asker]

Yes he is

[bigmatt98]

Leave his ass. Find a man who puts your desires and his on the same playing field and enjoy cumming togther

[roody]

Have you talked about it?

[RxMc2401]

Jesus you need to cut this guy loose.. His number one priority should be making your pussy soaking wet and fucking you until you’re coming so loud he can’t think.. Then he needs to send a hot load deep up inside your pussy just to make sure you know who your pussy belongs to..

[TadCurious]

If he doesn't care about your pleasure then he's a bad lover in bed. He should be working with you (with your guidance) to give you an orgasm before penis-in-vagina starts. And that includes giving you oral.

[Reaperbot666]

• let him know if you both can't enjoy the encounter to the fullest. then you will just start to deny him his the chance with you.
• so he might want to learn some foreplay skills that pleasure you better. which you might have to teach or tell him what you like and dislike.

[Asker]

He knows what I like, but he doesn’t apply it

[Reaperbot666]

then let him know if he can't get you to finish on a regularly basis you won't help him to either.

[Asker]

I told him and he says he doesn’t care about that. He does say the right things

[Reaperbot666]

it is possible to get a girl super horny without eating her out. but takes time and practice to learn.

[Asker]

He will need to learn fast

[Reaperbot666]

have him read this. page 1 ok so disclaimer this might not always work. but I have had some good success with a few of my ex girlfriends over the years. ***make sure to use protection.*** if your looking to get her in the mood. this may help you a bit. start with the basics, step 1 kissing lips and neck. step 2 once she seems into that start gently rubbing / squeezing her breasts or butt or both (depending on what she likes). step 3 once she seems willing. help to remove her top/bra and gently rub or pinch her nipples (again depending on what she likes). maybe give her butt a few gentle smacks. unless she likes it more rough. (again depends on what she likes) step 4 after you got that going for you. start alternating between kissing her and sucking her nipples. step 5 once she seems ok with that. move one hand down south and start rubbing her clit gently. while continuing to do the other steps above. (note if she starts to willing play with your dick by now. she is starting to get horny).

[Reaperbot666]

page 2 step 6 by this stage she may be giving you a blowjob. but if not that is ok. keep the focus on her more. maybe work your way downtown and start giving her oral. So she will get even more horny. (if you not sure what to do at this point. you can ask her what she likes. not every woman is the same.) step 7 by now you are having sex or are really close to it. if not just keep repeating the steps above. until she gets to where she can not think about anything but getting fucked by you. step 8 try your best to give her an orgasm first. you may need to switch rhythm and/or position. a woman typically takes a bit of time to get into the mood. but once she is there she can go for a while. so pace yourself and try to last as long as you can. just as long as your both enjoying it. if your unsure about how long you might last. consider rubbing on out roughly an hour before. so your not nearly as sensitive when you finally engage in sex. because you won't be having sex with a loaded cannon. so you'll be able to last nearly twice as long. ***make sure to use protection.***

[Asker]

Sounds so good and now I know he’s not doing it right, because for us it’s 1. We kiss 2. He asks me to suck his dick 3. He starts positioning himself behind me and slides it in 4. He grabs my boobs and rubs my clit 5. I’m on top

[Dargil]

Talk with him and set rules that are adequate for you. You cum first by some means or nothing happens after that unless you give him a pass like on your period.

Why does he not do oral?
How about fingering technique?

[Apope16]

Yes. Dump him

[Bananaman177]

It all depends on whether he's willing and able to learn and improve.

If he just does his business and doesn't give a fuck about you, go ahead and dump. If he wants to please you, then it's your job to educate the dear boy.

[Nephilim000]

It is dump worthy. It's like the ultimate in selfishness

[hellohruu]

I think yes like what kinda boyfriend is that the one that can’t satisfy you

[winterfox10]

Honestly, yeah... that sounds dump worthy

[Mr1derful]

Yes sounds like a child and very selfish. I never finish and not finish her off! I keep 8to go but more importantly rub the hell out of clit and suck her nipples , etc til she gets hers!

[wondering_guy]

Talk to him, tell him sex is off the table till he eats you out till you orgasm

[reptocarl2]

He’s a piss poor selfish lover. You tell him to step up his game or you’re going to find someone that will fuck you the way you want

[Wise4myage]

He is very much dump worthy and selfish too, but do you play with your clit during penetration? If not, try that and see if it helps to make you have an orgasm.

[Chris2769]

Have you talked to him about it?

[allaboutyou2]

I think absolutely, a successful relationship is when each partner serves the need of the other and doesn't focus on their own pleasures.
It's a team effort, like anything else in a relationship.
If you care enough to want to keep him maybe encourage him to concentrate on your pleasure, maybe oral or using a toy, whatever works for you two.
My attitude is I will make sure my partner cums a few times before I even think about anything else. But to be fair I love foreplay.

[korey182]

sorry, wow that's really tough, maybe only if you're very serious

[Asker]

What do you mean if I’m serious?

[korey182]

if it is a serious relationship

[Asker]

It is serious

[korey182]

okay

[Asker]

😔😔

[korey182]

you'll be fine i think

[Asker]

Thank you 💖

[korey182]

you're welcome : )

[TrustOfWorthington]

yep dump this idiot