I'm asking mainly because my girlfriend and I are both in our first real relationship, and I don't want to do things that cause me pleasure at the price of her comfort. She has encouraged me to touch them before, but while we make out I try to refrain from being too sleazy. When I do fondle them she seems to lean in and enjoy it, but I want to hear some opinions on this. How much is too much? Would you rather my hands be around your waste or on the back of your head, or is fondling more pleasurable for you?