This isn't what I was talking about...
credit for trying? :o
I tend to agree with this.
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But I don't understand why they need to describe this as "disrespectful". I mean I am a domina, I'm into intense domination and all but I don't want anyone to feel disrespected.
It's not but some stuck up people refer to it as that even when it's not. On the other hand some people feel like they want to be degraded in some ways
If you're degraded without being respected then it's abuse, not BDSM. all people partaking in BDSM must be very willing and happy to be there. No one should be a victim. Do people really have such problems with the meaning of "abuse" and "rape"? Sex should always be respectful.
I agree. I mean I'm into BDSM but respect is fundamental here.
yeah.. thats my point... i too love BDSM but u have to keep the respect where if someone doesn't like anything, u have to respect it.. and do accordingly to the things of mutual consent
yeah... so u can dm me if u wanna discuss something.. m open to it
Well, I do understand the attraction of being submissive during sex but why should it be "disrespectful"? Can't you be dominated without it being disrespectful?
Disrespectful is part of the experience of being dominated!At the end of it, we know that this is only role-playing...A lot of what's done during sex is illogical
That's the ambiguity of BDSM: this is seen as disrespectful, yet it has to involve respect not to be abusive.
Being considered as human beings with the right to dispose of their own body and to tell their desires.
I still have no idea what that means.
Too bad for your paryners then...
Does it mean like I should not rape her or something?
For sure you shouldn't rape her 🙃
Ok so that's all it means?
How would you like to be treated and considered?
I want to 69 with her until we cum together. I know female orgasm is a myth but I'll tell her to take it. If she doesn't I'll be very upset and angry
It's not a myth at all. I wouldn't recommend 69 for it though