Girls want to wait for a few different reasons:
1. For a very few, it may be a control issue, but I think it's the not a common reason.
2. They want to make sure that you are not just a player looking to hit and run.
3. For most girls, having sex means exposing their most sensitive vulnerabilities. They want to know that they can trust you before they are willing to get in bed.
For most women, this isn't a silly game that they play. If you think it is, them just move on to the next girl who is willing to drop her panties on the first date.
So, after three months, they are feeling affection for you, they trust you, and they are ready to let you do something that they have not done with very many partners. Then you retaliate with this "you punished me so now it's my turn to punish you.". If I was in their position, I would probably decide that you were just a huge jerk and call it quits with you.
You see, the problem - which you probably won't want to admit - is that you just want to get laid but they just want to be loved. If you can't accept that concept now, I hope it will click for you eventually.
No he didn't think she waited long enoigh and he wants to make sure she wants a real relationship and not just empty sex
I call BS! If you thought 3 months want long enough, you would say that at the very beginning of the relationship, and you would agree to wait 6 months or however long you both wanted to wait. That is a total BS explanation!
Well I don't think people usually specify how many days they're going to withhold sex at the beginning of a relationship
Then I wait for however long he needed until he was ready to have sex because I respect him and wouldn't want to push him into something he didn't want to do.
But it would matter on his intentions. Is he trying to "get me back" because I wasn't ready for sex yet? Because then I'd leave him because that's a total red flag and I would have just preferred him to tell me he didn't want to wait in the first place and left then. Men are way to expectant with sex. Just because you want it doesn't mean a girl should give it to you.
Ask him what I was doing for the last three months. There’s no reason we couldn’t have waited at the same time.
He wanted to wait longer apparently
Then he should have told me that from the beginning.
He should have told you how long he wanted to wait for sex at the beginning of the relationship? Wouldn't that just make it an arbitrary length of time that doesn't really mean anything?
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!That's dumb. She would have already proven herself by waiting during the same period that I had to wait.
I think it's unexpected for sex
But what if!
I would leave him for playing stupid games
... But in this scenario you were the one playing stupid games 1st...
No because she probably isn't ready to have sex and wants to wait for right time
... You didn't read the question, she decided she was ready after a certain amount of time
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