My boyfriend :\ broke up with me after I had sex with him :'( was the sex bad?

[karlajuarez12]

[Anonymous]

he got what he wanted, now he's moving on. Y'all women need to teach these young girls to be careful about this shit! This stuff fucks their whole lives up and y'all know it. Now as for you young lady, I'm sorry this happened but this is gonna keep happening unless you refrain from doing this and being easy. Sorry but atm that's what I'm getting out of this. I'm not good with these sorts of talks/lectures. I'm not a parent and while I can joke around with people I can also come off as rude or harsh. Just know that's not the case here I just suck at these things. Anyways what you dont yet realize is this can have a lot of negative psychological consequences for you.

Pair bonding is a real thing and the more sexual partners you end up having the less likely you will ever settle down with someone you truly love and respect (if that's your goal one day). You are going to be influenced by your peers all throughout high school and college. DO NOT TAKE THEIR ADVICE! Let them go out and party and sleep around and observe. You'll notice they dont end up in a happy place 10 years down the road. Be smart, be conservative with your body, that's literally the best advice I can give you because as a guy I know how guys think and we tend to be better at giving dating advice because we dont sugar coat the truth.

If you plan on not heeding this warning, be prepared to be used again and again like a whore. Some girls are into that, that's their thing. But something tells me you are not one of those girls. Get your head in the game and refrain. Get your affairs in order, worry about relationships later. Also... take up something practical in college or take a trade. Dont go for teaching, very specific, small fields. Get good with something technical and you'll go far.

[brennanhuff]

wait what made him your boyfriend? Usually that comes in to play after the sex. You were with him for how long before sex? Did you lost your virginity to him? Seems like he was never your boyfriend, but was with you so he could get sex. Sorry, but guys can do that. You most likely weren't bad but he was a jerk. But you're free of him and maybe find a better guy. He probably was just thinking about getting experience from you and not caring much more than that

[SarahP080102]

I'm guessing he wanted sex, hot sex then moved on for a different pussy

[Nawlins34]

One of two things here;
1.) The sex was bad to HIM
or
2.) He just wanted sex

Either way, he's not your boyfriend and never was if he dashed immediately after sex.

Live and learn. Be safe.

[integrale77]

That would be breakup sex, he was probably already planning on breaking up but but when he found out sex was on the menu he decided to hold back till after!
And leave on a high note

[Girther10]

It depends, I’d have to observe your oral abilities, and make an educated guess based on how your mouth and tongue feel, or how they are perceived to feel.
Do you think he enjoyed his cock being sucked, os the real question, imho.😎

[Kaneki05]

Called using you. He got what he wanted and walked off. Also i doubt the sex was bad and even if it was just means you can grow to be better at it but it's his dumbass fault for leaving you and noting letting you do so. Also it's quite hard for the guy to not find sex pleasurable unless if they had it tons i am guessing which probably would make him a fuckboy.

[Citizenkirk]

How should I know? I wasn't there.

[Reaperbot666]

sounds like he just wanted you for sex. so once he got it he bailed. happens a lot these days.

[Dargil]

Nope. It was all he wanted and you gave it away to easy. Early sex never buys a relationship. Never.

[Apope16]

Most likely not. He probably just wanted sex and not a relationship. But it depends on how long you've dated or had sex.

[themann43]

Just saying she doesn't look 15. And yes you got used by him which is no surprise because your very hot

[Arjunaguy]

That could be a reason

[chriscdi]

thats buzz, sounds to me like he went through all that just to get laid smh

[magiusX26]

am not him so didn't sleep with you to know for sure (besides the obvious age factors involved) but i highly doubt it was bad sex. most likely sex was his goal, he achieved that and is now moving on.

[karlajuarez12]

Smh :/

[R3DthatDude]

You gave him what he wanted. So now what have you learned?

[karlajuarez12]

Don't fuck on the first date.

[Thatsamazing]

@karlajuarez12 ... No. That's not the issue.

[karlajuarez12]

Than?

[Thatsamazing]

@karlajuarez12 What I said in my particular comment-- that it may have nothing to do with that at all. You should ask him, rather than assuming.

[karlajuarez12]

I did he blocked me on social medias

[Thatsamazing]

@karlajuarez12 ... You don't have his phone number? You can't text him or call him?

[karlajuarez12]

Nope we meet on fb

[Thatsamazing]

@karlajuarez12 Wait you met up with the guy and got fucked without even getting his number? Okay, well... yeah I guess there's not much you can do. How exactly is this dude your boyfriend if you don't even have his number?

[RHK36]

Nah, he just got what he wanted. He was trash.

[Thatsamazing]

Yeah possibly. Or maybe that wasn't the issue at all. Why don't you ask him?

[wondering_guy]

Sounds like that's all that he wanted from you, sorry if that harsh but it's trust, find someone who appriciated you, even if the sex is bad, it's no reason to dump you

[Iron_Man]

You were a booty call and you’re under age I can’t believe you did that

[banana75]

who initiated sex? if you did then he wanted to say good bye anyways, but you know guys will never turn down sex.

if he initiated it, then you might just be too good and he wanted do it one last time before final good bye.

[FriendlyEnigma]

Probably was since you're 15, he prolly left your ass for someone of legal age

[Wise4myage]

It likely had nothing to do with sex, but try to get an answer out of him.