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I want a relationship with him but he just wants sex?

Anonymous
Okay so I was dating this guy and I asked him what he wanted and he said he didn’t want anything serious at the moment. He’s only 18 so I was not really shocked. We were dating for like a month and a half and my fault I only just asked him what he wanted since I was so scared too.

He said me and him are just something fun not serious, I said to him like what do you wanna do now, that’s fine by me let’s just have fun then and he said yeah let’s just do that. I didn’t mean fun as in just being a sex toy I meant fun as I’m still seeing one another and going on dates and sex at the same time seeing where things go.

How can I clear this up? I don’t want him to just see me as sex? We haven’t spoken for a few days I’m just trying to give him space to figure this all out on if this is even what I want because it’s risky that I might catch feelings. But how can I clear this up? I still wanna spend time with him. We have already had sex and it was really good but I wanna see if it can go further. I’ve heard it before about I shouldn’t have slept with him so quickly but honestly I know so many people who have done this and it may not have worked out at first but they actually ended up together.
I want a relationship with him but he just wants sex?
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