I flirt with my boyfriend through text, he never asks for sexy pics, even when I say I have new underwear, I want him to ask but he never does?

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I flirt with my boyfriend through text, he never asks for sexy pics, even when I say I have new underwear, I want him to ask but he never does?

winterfox10 · Accepted Answer

Your boyfriend has heard the nude pics horror stories, and he would rather avoid that potential situation all together.

Something you need to understand as a heterosexual woman is that every kind of risky, naughty thing that your boyfriend isn't doing; he isn't doing because other heterosexual women have probably reacted in ways that scare the shit out of him. It might make you feel less "desired," but your fellow women have made anything sexual an absolute minefield.

He doesn't want to seem pushy. A lot of women complain when guys ask for pics, and he probably just wants to avoid seeming like "one of those." It also could be that he knows that having intimate pics of you could turn into a whole thing if you broke up with him. I never ask women for nudes; it's just asking for trouble.

AustinMan · Accepted Answer

So send him something extra sexy and see how he reacts. Prepare yourself for any outcome. It's just a little test.

sheamatura · Accepted Answer

He’s probably under the impression that girls don’t like when guys ask them for pics. Which is true for some, but there are different opinions on that across the board. Anyways. Don’t wait for him to ask, offer them up yourself, be confident, bold, he’ll probably love it.

olderstrongernow · Accepted Answer

Has he devoted himself to something spiritual that doesn’t allow him to?

JPrez · Answer

Might be a soy boy.

hornyafbi69 · Answer

I have no clue but can I ask instead

Dargil · Answer

Maybe he's being gallant and dumb. Ask him if he would like to see them modeled.

dutch69lover · Answer

Just send him some pics

wondering_guy · Answer

Qwow he's a gentlemen, I think he's respects you and likes you a lot to perv to much, he prob prefers to be intimate in person

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Maybe he's a Christian.

Cellestial · Answer

He doesn't want you to think he's disgusting for asking for nudes. I'd say give him signals that you're down to send him if he wants

TienShenhan · Answer

Maybe he's afraid of you accusing him of being a pervert, or maybe he thinks sending sexy pics is a bad idea because private info is often stolen and sold, or used as blackmail