Did I have sex with my boyfriend too soon?

I lost my virginity to him after knowing/talking to each other for 5 months and dating for 3 months.
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I felt ready and i domt regret losing it
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  • It all depends on how your relationship is. If you guys already have a healthy, happy, and loving relationship in 5 months (and are still working on it too) then I would say it is alright. Along with the fact that you were both ready to have sex and wanted it together.

    • Our relationship has always been healthy

    • Then that's a very good sign. Hopefully you guys will be together in the future too.

Most Helpful Guys

    • I tend to have 4 rules when dating someone new.
    • 1. no sexual interaction until were in a exclusive relationship.
    • 2. no sex until we have been dating at least 90 days.
    • 3. both of us get tested for STD's and other nasty things to prove we're clean.
    • 4. we both use protection to reduce risk of pregnancy.
    • if a new partner can't follow those. then their most likely not worth my time.

Most Helpful Girl

  • It really all depends on what’s “too soon” for you! Some people are comfortable having sex on the first date, it takes some people 5 months! It’s really doesn’t matter too much as long as you’re comfortable with it happening!

    • I love him

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • It depends, why are you concerned enough to ask this question?

    • Im just curious

    • Very little to go on. If nothing has you concerned though, it's fine.

  • Only you can say if it was too soon or not. It's all about what you feel comfortable with.

    Some are happy to have waited a year, some a month.

  • If you don’t regret it then it wasn’t too soon. It’s up to your own pacing and your own decision. :)

  • Only you can answer that question.

    • I hope not lol it felt right though

    • If it felt right, then you have your answer.

  • That's fine

    • Master 😘

  • Damn he is an Asshole
    Who gonna wait for 5mnt for one pussy.

    • He’s not an asshole

    • Ofc he is lol. Who gonna wait for 5mnt just to get pussy? Only looser

    • He says he wants to marry me he doesn’t want me for just sex

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  • It already happened, though. It's not something you can take back. The only thing that matters now is whether or not the relationship is successful. And 50% of that depends on you. (Though I personally think that each party should be giving 100%.)

  • No, I think you waited long enough. But it depends on how you feel.

    • Im just glad I lost it to him

    • Sounds like you were ready for it to happen.

  • My limit for virgins usv6 months minimum, but 3 for nonvirgins.

  • There's no such thing as too soon. You did it when you felt it.

    I had sex with my current boyfriend on our first date.

  • I don't think so, that seems like a good time. It'd only be too soon if you weren't ready and pressured into it.

  • No, as long as you feel he was special to you. I honestly think thats all that matters.

  • Yes. Any sex prior to marriage is too soon.

  • "Soon" is a matter of respect. Not time.

  • Only you can answer that question. There's no magic timeframe. If you love him, you made the right decision.

  • Yes, you did.

    • I might be wrong, but I bet you're regret will show up in a week to a month from now.

    • No i don’t regret it I love this man and a see a future with him and I know that he wants a future with me

    • I hope you are right; but experience tells me that he is much more likely just saying he wants a future with you.

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