Do you ever feel turned on being stronger/weaker than your partner?

I really love being overpowered by a guy. Even when it’s not sexual. I love when we’re cuddling and he holds me down when I try to move and keeps me pinned down when I try to escape:)
Do you ever feel turned on being stronger/weaker than your partner?
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  • That lip picture . . . . that's what I do all the time when ever I even feel the door crack a bit. . . Cuz I know he's coming into my room. We live together, but we still sleep in separate bedrooms. . . mostly.
    So, here's what happened last night.

    I was working online- It was a call, but my webcam was off. I was literally in the middle of saying "-Yes, sir, I'll have it in you inbox by 8 tomorrow-"
    He came up from behind me- he'd been out jogging. . . I didn't even notice him come into the room. And then suddenly someone started sucking on my earlobe- I muted my mic immediately (luckily).
    I was a bit cross. . .
    The call was on speaker, and I could hear my boss going all "(My surname) are you there? Hey?"
    I faked a WiFi disconnection- Don't turn on me, we hadn't had sex in a week, we were that busy -And shut down my laptop. . .

    He literally threw me onto the bed- rough, but I love it- and kissed the fuck out of me. Somewhere in between our clothes came off. He's always on top, and I love it. He pinned my hands over my head- something I deeply love but I pretend to hate it nevertheless- I struggled, but he fingered me-
    That took my breath away.

    And that is one example of why I agree with you Lower-Lip-Biter; I love it when he pins me somewhere and fucks me like crazy.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Yes. I like that he’s stronger and more dominant sexually. It’s a turn on to feel that I’m submitting to him. I like him to take the lead. He can flip me around into whatever position he wants, be forceful, tell me what to do, cum wherever he wants. It’s not very modern or progressive but that’s how I like to be treated sexually.

Most Helpful Guys

  • I suppose it's an adrenaline thing. I only once dated a massive woman, it was not a nice experience.

    Not so much the personality and charm, she was a wonderful lady. But trying to make love to a women bigger and heavier than me was awkward. She also ate twice as much as me and trying to live with a fitness freak...

  • I'm a very dominant lover as well as a bit of a sexual sadist. I love to hold her down and spank her.

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  • I just love being in his arms, he's just so much stronger than me. I love the feeling.

  • I get turned on when the girl is petite, yes.

  • As a guy the feeling of being powerful and masculine is great in its raw form. As long as I mentally know we are safe and can play, I can expose that side of my personality.

  • No because that just comes naturally.

    • Doesn’t mean it can’t turn you on

  • For sure, yeah.

  • oh yesss... its really a turn on on either of the cases.. being taking the charge and really putting her down or purely submissive is fucking sexyyyyy

  • Love that my fiancée is stronger and more dominant hehe

  • Always. I like getting dominated by my man :)

  • I love when a girl beats me up. Lol

  • I get really turned on when a girl takes control and knows how to ride, she can rock my work.

  • Yup..

  • Both is good.

  • Seems like a common thing.

  • Maybe you like hard sex...

  • Not me.

  • If SHE is, yes! My ex was really submissive and loved when I would randomly hold her down, pull down her pants and force myself inside her. Or tell her stuff like, "I could kill you with one punch, so you'll fuck me and suck me when I want and don't ever make me mad!"

    I only had one girl who was stronger than me. She was a martial artist and it felt hot to be the one dominated for a change

  • Yeah, I'm turned on by dominating guys in sex, I love pinning them down and riding them very rough.