He came too fast and then couldn't come again?

Hi Guys,

My boyfriend can usually come a few times we have sex, but last night he came too fast and even though he was hard, he couldn't come. I can't help but feel its something I did. Is this common?
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  • Hey girl, 😁

    No, no issue.

    And I wonder why you both are so "performance oriented"?

    Come on, relax... sex is for pleasure and fun. There is no right or wrong.

    Or perhaps the only wrong is get so tensed up instead of enjoying yourself and "let your hair down".

    May I suggest just forget the last session and talk to him about entering a "sex-filled" lifestyle.

    If he agrees, arrange to move in together and then live a nude lifestyle to begin with, then have sex daily, and a few times a day, whenever possible.

    If you succeed for 6 months to a year, you'll not ask a question like this one anymore. 😁

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  • It's not uncommon, and it has virtually nothing to do with you (nothing in a bad way, anyway). He simply got too excited and couldn't hold off, and it's normal not to be able to cum again right away. Sometimes you can, but for most guys, it's normal that you can't - it takes a while to "recharge."

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  • You did nothing wrong. If that happens again, suggest a break and then try again. I'm betting he'll be able to cum.

    • yea we didn't do a break, but usually he is able to go. he was hard

    • I have had the problem and a break does the trick.

  • So he came once fast. Then got hard again and didn't cum again? That can happen and it has nothing to do with you. Girls always think these things are somehow a reflection on them but that's not the case. But at any rate it must have been enjoyable for him to be able to last the second time.

  • yea and its not your fault, sometimes it be like that

  • Its normal. Maybe he didn't have a lot of cum that day.

  • Yes can be common, if he had some sex recently

    masturbated or the orgasm was powerful

  • Does cumming really matter? I feel like as long has he can get hard its not a problem unless you are wanting to get pregnant.

  • Many things can cause that and not a single one of those things, is you. Don't worry

    • like what? maybe because we didn't wait for the second round

    • Emotional state, whiskey, viagra, stress lots of things can make strange things happen.

  • You can rider him and go faster amd harder, he will cum even in the 3rd round