Guys I've been wondering?

What dose it feel like to get an BJ? Guy's always seem to want that. Better than sex?
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  • If an intimate bedroom session is liken to a full course meal, then bj is the appetiser, and PIV the main course. (A sandwich tea after that is definitely dessert.)

    In principle, these acts are disjoint although related.

    Regarding the receiving of a BJ:
    1) its definitely a treat, not giving a treat.

    Hence whatever the Giver does is felt.

    For example someone mentioned enthusiasm. Yes, that is the key of giving a successful bj. And I may like to add, if she is prepared and willingly swallow, the effects multiplies 10 fold.

    Other feelings that we can get from the Giver is tenderness, love, even naughtiness.

    They are manifested by the willingness to learn what the Receiver likes; spontaneous start / stop; and switching between mouth and hand.

    2) as a guy, receiving a bj could be very intimate.

    Yes, many say guys can fuck without feelings. I think its true. But bj can bring back this feeling.

    Speaking of myself, I can feel it when my SO shed intimacies when eating me, even more than PIV.

    3) of course physical feelings are great as written by other guys. Hence I won't repeat.

    Regarding PIV (penetration):

    A) without foreplay, it can be mechanical. Yes, just a penis thrusting a vagina.

    B) with forplay, especially a great bj, receiving it,

    I feel totally "in love". And for more than once, I uttered out "I love you" when I neared. (Of course she didn't believe me LOL!)

    3) I would not write the physical feelings of having my penis in her vagjna. (Too many written already.)

    To conclude, I won't mix bj with PIV, as they are different part of a bedroom session. They are both great in their own ways.

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  • The best way to explain what a blowjob feels like, or even sex feels like is to take a sponge and wet it. Wring out all the excess water and then fold it over so that the soft side is touching each other on both ends. Take your finger, (usually your index finger) and put it through the hole that's created by the folded over sponger and start sliding it back and forth as if you're pushing it and out of the hole (mimicking a dick in a vagina or a mouth on a dick). That's the best way to describe how it FEELS. I hope it's enough for you to get wet over, as I'm assuming this is what you asked this question to do

    • so wet and soft contact. would a bj be better than anything else?

    • Some guys like BJ's better than sex, other guys like sex more than a BJ

    • i get that ty

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  • No where close to better than sex but very erotic.

  • Hmmmm been a while to give an accurate telling of this. Been too long in fact. But last I remember it is always a good feeling plus there is somewhat of a power aspect having her on her knees pleasuring me.

  • Its can be more intense if the girl knows what she's doing. The idea is she has full control over the tightness, but it only really works if she is enthusiastic about it - or at least enthusiastic about learning.

    • enthusiastic is more activity like harder or faster?

    • Not necissarily, though it tends to result in that. Enthusiasm is really just demonstrating that she yearns to do it right for her own reasons rather than just to please me.

    • like she wants it

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  • Well judging on the moans I hear when I go down on a chick it feels like if I were to suck your clit

  • No, from my experience girls seem to enjoy it more than guys do.

  • It totally depends on the girl giving it and how good she's at doing it. I'd rather east her pussy and give her multiple orgasms first.

  • I've answered this exact question before make penis glands are as sensitive as your clitoris so if someone was able to stimulate ever single solitary nerve in your clitoral as almost the exact same moment how would that feel for you?

  • Depends if it's a big black cock or a little white one tbh ngl

    • everything matters

  • I actually prefer your pussy than head

    • Me too

  • i dunno looks like it would feel good i think so yea

  • i heard its better than pussy

  • Better than actual sex? No...


    As for how it feels, wrap your lips around one of your fingers and bob your head on that finger. Overwhelmingly that is pretty much what it is like. At least to me. ‘Receiving’ is more or less novelty for me. Sure it is neat and quite intimate from an “options” perspective , but most women I have been with suck at sucking. Either that or I am just missing something.

    • okay i get you

  • Not better than sex. Just feels a little different and feels amazing! It's another form of intimacy and it feels so good in a warm wet mouth. Hard to explain.

  • Basically how it feel when your in pleasure when your getting eaten out

  • Depends on who is sucking your cock. Some bjs are painfully awful, some feel like a fucking dream. It's hard to explain the sensation because I think everyone feels it differently. In no world are blowjobs better than pussy though. Sweet , warm, soft, wet pussy is the best thing on this planet.

    • yeah!

  • Seriously, when a girl is really good at it, there is no greater feeling on earth.

    • wow okay

    • 😜😜😜

  • Regular sex is great. I love what it feels like when I cum in a girls vagina.

    But oral sex intensifies my orgasms. Especially as she puts pressure on the tip of my penis as I cum.

    Of course if a girl swallows it makes it even hotter.

    • yeah swallowing is hotter

  • there is a dominant part of it that they love

    • What is the dominate part?

    • @MannMitAntworten not sure what she thinks but maybe if she's in charge at that moment

    • @collie22 You could be right.

  • I used to think bj's were better than vaginal intercourse, I then realize a short time later that I only felt that way because my partner at that time didn't like giving oral. Everyone has his or her own preferences. With that said, I believe that oral sex is an essential component of intercourse for me, without it there seems to be less connection between my partner and myself and less sensitivity.

    • okay i get that

    • Thank you for your response. It is nice to know that someone is understanding. ☺

  • No getting a BJ is not better than sex, because the male is getting more pleasure then his female partner. "69" is nice to start with:)

    • good thinking

    • thanks :)

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