Is it weird for me to last 20-30 MINUTES the first time having sex?

Yes, I went in with a 'loaded gun'. Couldn't climax for a good deal of time. Quite the contrary, since many guys cannot last more than 30 seconds... Is there something wrong with me?

Did other guys have trouble with this?
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  • A lot of circumsized dudes usually last about 20 mins. A lot of uncirc usually last 10 or less. Then round 2, both types usually last longer. I prefer a guy to cum quick though 🤷‍♀️

    • Well, to be honest, I am getting better. I can cum much easier than I used to, and I actually came in about 2-3 minutes one time, and I am circumcised. I think it was just a psychological issue I am still working on.

    • Yea i think thats the thing for a lot of people. Not just guys

Most Helpful Guys

  • Yeah I'm the same. It might not be typical, but I don't think there's anything wrong with you just because you have stamina. If anything it gives you an edge over the guys who can't last

  • I wouldn't call that a problem.
    I almost blew right away my first time, but then I settled down into a fabulous, hours-long session of lovemaking.

    • But you are uncircumcised, I take it?

    • No, I'm not uncircumcised. I'm curious why you assume that.

    • Because uncircumcised men tend to have the problem of premature ejaculation.

Most Helpful Girl

  • My guy started off lasting a long time then got faster with time. I guess it's just knowing how to get off from sex and that can take some practice

    • Thank goodness I thought I was the only one :D It was also I think because of psychological issue of how awkward it feels, and having too many thoughts about how I am performing. I am getting much better, as I can nut in a few minutes if I really wanted, but I am a gentleman. Hahahaha

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  • It's a blessing.

    • Well, yes and no. It can be a blessing, but nothing sucks more than not knowing if you are going to climax, and going home with epididymal hypertension... Makes you not want to do it anymore, if it is going to be stressful. I am guessing you busted in 30 seconds, and aren't circumcised? Hahahaha

    • Not true. I choose when I cum. If you'll be fully present and just control yourself, you'll cum when you're ready but be in no hurry out of respect for her needs.

    • Well, I can cum quickly now, but I like to pace myself to be a gentleman :)

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  • I don't know I went for like an hour and a half so no... Maybe

    • I thought I was the only one hahahaha

    • Yeah same everyone I knew who had been laid was like it only lasted for like 5 minutes how sad for them lol

    • Yes, but it is just that sexual frustration could become a concern.

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  • Same for me when with a new partner

  • You jack off too much

    • Not really. Before then, I was only doing it 5 times a week.

  • Where you nervous or stressed out at all? Things like that can have a significant impact on how long someone lasts.

    • I am guessing the same thing happened to you?

    • Sorry but I can't say it has. But if you read around you'll see there are a lot of guys where nerves get the better of them some so bad that they can't even get it up.

    • Well, I need some help too, but it is because of a vascular problem I have, and it is hereditary. Nonetheless, I am doing things to see if I can alleviate it :)

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