Scroll Down to Read Other Opinions
I think the problem for me isn't that much raising another man's kid, as long as you can treat that kid as your kid and become a father figure in all respects, but the real problem is that the ex will always be around, because it's their kid, and that's not just some ex, but the father of their kid, so that makes it pretty worrisome for me
@RemoErdosain yes the drama from the past relationship's are a big part as well. but kids do much better when they have 2 or more positive role models to look up to in live. even if they are not their birth parents.
That may be a thing
well im sure it is missy lolbut i dont target mothers specifically, actually i tend to avoid mothers tbh
I completely understand why someone would do that too.
just many complications in such small amount of time, for me of course as im young, it would put me in a pretty shitty situation, but im sure people avoid mothers for different reasons, some reasons being better than others of course