Boyfriend likes me on top, but does that mean he is lazy and wants me to do all the work? Guys what are some reasons you like girl on top?

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Mr1derful · Accepted Answer

Def feels good getting rode! Its a diff feeling and I love the views and yet can relax. Or I love to pull her down to me and thrust hard from underneath. I love when she rides reverse and I get such a hot view of her ass and her pussy just swallowing me inside her.. I also like to mix it up and I like to wear a vibrating cock ring and have her ride me with it on. The grinding is extreme and she goes crazy! I'm Ike a sybian! I can let her go and finish or slow it down and I sit up, she wraps her legs around me, were face to face and we can kiss or I can suck her nipples, etc. So many fun things to do! But a pillow underneath helps in having a firmer and deeper ride and less chance to fall out if she starts bouncing like crazy (which can hurt)! I like a slow sensual ride where she's thrusting slow and using her hands and especially nails, and tickles me and scratches my chest or nipples lightly or reaches behind and massages and scratches my balls! Effin heaven!

integrale77 · Accepted Answer

Could be a number of reasons. For me: -
1 ) it's a great view.
2 ) gives me chance to play with your nipples maybe even your clit.
3 ) it takes me longer to cum with a girl riding me so switching to that position gives me chance to calm down if I was getting close to cumming.
4 ) if for the last 40-50 mins I've been doing most of the physically activities it gives me a breather!
5 ) I might be feeling a little lazy.
6 ) when I have a girl in this position i can pull her towards me and while she is lying on my chest hugging and kissing I can actually start thrusting with my hips quite rapidly and unexpected 😉

rienna888 · Accepted Answer

lmao it's exactly what u said, he's being lazy. He wants to feel good without doing work or if he switches halfway then it's equal contribution LMAO

Quackthulu · Accepted Answer

If he isn't doing anything while I'm bottom that either means he is lazy or just has no idea what he is doing.

AustinMan · Answer

She has some of her most intense orgasms up there.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

The most likely explanation is that he enjoys seeing your naked body and playing with your boobs while thrusting and reaching orgasm.

Red_Arrow · Answer

The girl on top allows her much more control. That helps a lot if she normally has trouble enjoying sex, especially climaxing. It also lets the guy use his hands much easier. Great for breast play and clitoral stimulation.

summiter · Answer

It is fun sometimes. I like playing with her boobs and watching my dick slide in and out.

roody · Answer

I don’t think that makes him lazy...

RJJ33666 · Answer

Well, if your boyfriend likes you on top then that's just his preference, just because you are on top doesn't necessarily mean that he is lazy, if the sex is good then that means he is not lazy. But if he just lays there and does nothing, absolutely nothing, then yes he lazy. Some guys like women own top for many reason, some of them is that they like to see her bouncing on top of them, giving them an empowering and satisfying feeling and they also like to see their expressions more closely.

boggboss · Answer

Helps to last longer feels different and gives easy access to breasts whilst not taking away from the action he is also able to pump upwards in stride so its not like he has nothing he can do

hassan9873 · Answer

You can find out if he's lazy, by asking him to do doggy style too.. if he always want you on top, that might be a lazy guy. But tell me, does it bothers you?

Citizenkirk · Answer

A shiftless attitude in any part of a young man's life cannot be tolerated as it is the lazy attributes in a developing male that leads too bad habits and behaviors in life. Ask him too give you a massage or rub your back and shoulders after a long shift at work. If he declines, then maybe you should reevaluate your relationship options.

t-8900 · Answer

it's more relaxing, and I can feel more pleasure at the penis as well. Probably has something to do with the CNS being fully relaxed.

StylesbyDR · Answer

Sometimes the guy on bottom is good for part of the time. Gives the guy a breather and it gives the girl more control over the speed. I mean a guy can still do most or all of the work from the bottom too and its a nice view or perspective change for both. Top is nice for the guy too cause i feel like you can get deeper penetration.

Browneye57 · Answer

Switch it up honey. The number one complaint by women is that their sex partner is too passive and weak. Boring AF.

wondering_guy · Answer

If a woman is in missionary position or doggy style, does that make her lazy and want him to do all the work?

ashish804 · Answer

its really sexy seeing u ride... while the tits are dancing.. and my dick making u enjoy it.. while i could spank u in between and play with ur tits while u ride.. its an amazing position though but not always.. there is different mood for this

RingOfFire · Answer

When she's on top you can see her entire body. For guys the visual part is one of the most important parts.

I don't like any one position best. I like doing them all... moving from one to another. But watching her body while having sex is one of the best parts.

Wise4myage · Answer

Seriously, you really need to ask him. I love that position a lot, but I am always open to new positions.

KrakenAttackin · Answer

We love to see you tits jiggling in our face.

Protein_mate · Answer

Yeah he's probably lazy/submissive

abc--123 · Answer

Girl on top gives us easy access to fondle all the fun bits

jirwin7979 · Answer

she is in control and it goes in deeper with her ontop... i find it hot as heck... but i am all alone so it dont mater

Boyfriend likes me on top, but does that mean he is lazy and wants me to do all the work? Guys what are some reasons you like girl on top?

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