This is why I always keep numbers with girls have slept with. In case I either have an STD or missy tells me she is pregnant. Anyway, THIS is the time when you grab your balls and put your brain to work. You talk her into having an abortion. This for both your and her sake. You are not ready for a child and it will be a disaster to for a child to be born in a world where there is no love between mommy and daddy, most likely living in a single parent household and have been an unwanted "oops" their entire life.
You do anything in your power to make sure she gets that abortion and support her doing it. If she is keen on having the child, you make it absolutely clear that you will not be in her life. She will be on her own. Oh, and also do a paternity test to validate its yours and not some other dude's kid. Always keep text messages as a record or something in case she tries to one up you with false accusations or what not.
This may be helpful:
You man up. You call her and ask her if she wants it. If not, you ask her if it's ok to drive her to get the abortion. I say that because it's her choice and you may not agree to it but because you helped her be in that situation per say, you offer to help her through it. And if she wants to keep it, you ask her the role she wants you to play and the role you are comfortable with. If it's becoming a partner with her, just a pregnancy partner or just being willing to be the dad. She what she wants and work with her.
Yes, I get it. She was dumb enough to go on tinder and get pregnant but you were dumb enough to sleep with her. You are both in the same boat whether you like it or not.
If you had sex with her resulting in a pregnancy, the right and honorable thing to do. Is to hold her hand through it.
This! 💯
Why thank you ☺
I’m too young to be having children... I don’t think I could give them a good life and keep them happy. So I think my only choice would to be an abortion.
Quite simply I wouldn't be in that position in the first place. Simples!
This is a hypothetical 💀💀💀💀
Sorry, I actually thought you were referring to your own current situation. x
Thank you for the MHGirl.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!If you are going to have the baby and place it for adoption, you need the consent of the father. If you are going to keep the baby, it deserves to have a father as well as a mother. Even though it was a ONS, he may still be a responsible guy when he learns he is going to be a father.
I would let the father know and see how it goes.
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I haven't heard from her since the one night stand so I don't know she's pregnant unless she tells me. I guess I find out in 18 years when a young woman turns up at my door and says "your my dad"
You're my dad.
Your looking for the er other integrale77 his kids are always knocking on my door calling me dad
Oh damn ok
push myself down the steps
so a hypothetical one eh?
right then what i would do is reply if i know there was definitely a chance that i could be the father... and discuss what to do next...
but personally if this was the case and i was to have sex with a woman from any dating app/site i would more than likely already be in a relationship with them so it wouldn't be a difficult decition to see what is to be decided...
Finally some people don't seem to understand what a hypothetical is
yeah i've noticed :) lol... should include "Google is your friend" into your description update... but then some who dont understand may not get the reference lol :)
Well, that is what they get.
Sighhhhh
If she had a one night stand with me (I'm like so low on the food chain) I'd have to wonder just how desperate she was to get laid. After that I would volunteer for a paternity test of positive I'd ask to raise the child (can't have mommy going off having one night stands with a kid in the house) besides if she did try birth control it would mean she didn't particularly want one anyway.
I would get an abortion.
Move to another country and say good luck
Agree or disagree with this action it works sometimes
So now you're just making shit up. Got it. Dear lord.
Um what?
Quit making shit up.
Making shit up abouttttt what?
Find a bridge to jump off
Who doesn't try to do that though
Abortion, next question.
But what if she wants to keep it 😳
Then she is an idiot
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Yes, I read your update, but the entire POINT is that that I would NOT have casual sex precisely because I do not want this to happen.
I KNOW THATTT!! but this is for fun Jamie don't make me face palm smh
Lol. Well, if she's pregnant then I guess she's not the only one who got fucked. (I mean, I'm not against having kids, but I want to at least plan for it.)
by the way, by "fucked" I just mean that I will have been dealt a situation that I otherwise wouldn't have chosen. So I wouldn't necessarily be thrilled about it (at least at first.). But yeah, of course I would be responsible and do the right thing. I would take care of my baby and my babymama.
I got half on the abortion
Let me be honest that's opening statement I have the entire abortion a ride there and home and if she says no that's when I start begging
I wouldn't ignore her. I would be there for her if she needs me. I would support whatever descision she makes, abortion, no abortion so ofcourse I would do my duty with beeing a father, even if it wasn't planned from start. If she wouldn't want me involved at all, I'd respect that.
be in total shook never get responses off dating sights. be confused if I had, lack of interest in responding. overcoming those hold my tongue when they turn out to nothing like their profile. Dig out the charm anyway. and have a pleasant evening. Avoid making excuses to leave. still refuse to drink because it will not make things any better and will be trapped. wake up in the morning confused that I am still there. Shit my pants when they call me darling. Look out of the window to check that the motor is still there feel the woozy head and think something is a miss. Drive to the doctors, find out that I had bee given a date rape drug. Tell me off for going on a dating site in the first place. Later realize the news that I will part of three and kiss joy goodbye, after finding out that the little arrival is part of me case closed life imprisonment. Thank god no one responds to me on dating sites.
I- ... . hm
what does that mean
If she got pregnant and she hasn't talked to me in a month? Does she even still have my number? She might be raising the kid herself that is if she hasn't had an abortion.
Well, I am the one who fucked up, so she's my responsibility if she accepts it.
It's so refreshing to find a guy who doesn't blame the girl lol
If we had some hook up off tinder id just block her and never talk to her. can't really improve the situation... just drag me down too.
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