Is romantic kinky sex dead?

[Anonymous]

it seems like every guy friend I have pretend to be Christian Grey. They want to choke, punch, slap, spit, piss etc, no disrespect just not into it. It seems my tastes are singular. I want someone to love on me during sex and make my body twitch with his touch. I do like candle wax, medium biting, scratching, hot and cold play, tie up, blindfold, toys, cuffs, roleplay, i dont care if someone watches (no pictures), warming oils, spanking, different positions, licking food or alcohol off ( just not genitals), im pretty open to trying new things too.

[Mr1derful]

I hear you and if i was your age or you were my age, id exactly want that too. Its not dead its just for your age, guys your age aren't there. Guys your age watch too much porn and want to perform and act like a porn star. As we get older, or speaken for myself, im exactly that way now. I found the right partner and lover to share that with. We are into everything and kinky light bonding, but not into the hard-core humiliation type. We type each other up (alternate) with bed restraints, blindfolds and we just spoil each others bodies to the end where our sessions last between an hour or two. We take our time, be slow and sensual and work to build incredible powerful orgams off the charts.

[Mr1derful]

For example I tie my girl down, blindfold her, run a feather all over her naked body and heighten her senses. I kiss, lick and suck all over her body from head to toe. I might take out the massage oil and rub her body all down sensually. I may pull out toys and use on her. Of course I give her a nice slow oral session. When she finally can't take anymore and she's begging, then I penetrate and tease nice and slow and shallow and then deep. I might sometimes put my vibrating cock ring on and enter and have the vibrations sit on her clit while I sit inside and feel her squeeze me. And we try to orgasm together. It's about fun, exploring and taking our time. I think it comes with age and a lot of experience.

[Asker]

I would love to have a partner like that!

[Mr1derful]

It's amazing! Well if things don't work out...

[Dargil]

One girl asked me to put ice cubes in her vagina. At first, I gallantly declined (maybe a hint of misguided male patriarchy?) But then I thought: Hey, why not? She's a big girl. But she actually liked it a lot. They melted rather quickly and then in I went. It was... interesting. Romantic kinky sex.

[Asker]

I like ice cubes traced down my body and also to melt inside. I also like poprocks and heat from having gum or peppermint in his mouth lol

[Dargil]

Pop rocks. Forgot about that.

[Asker]

Awesome feeling 😎

[Dargil]

Creepy question: Is there a clean-up issue?

[Asker]

With pop rocks not really. The food is more dangerous tho. Don't want an infection

[JosyJosy]

Nope.

[Browneye57]

Boyz your age spend WAY too much time jerking off to porn. You're gonna need to date up a little.

[Asker]

right. What age group tho?

[Browneye57]

Your profile says 18-24. Which end of that spectrum?

[Asker]

I'm 24

[Browneye57]

Part of the dating ritual is discussing likes and preferences, needs and wants. This is what adults do. If your guy isn't responding the way you want, you have the option, actually an obligation, to convey what you do like. And primarily, you date to be able to make a determination as to whether they are a match or not, are viable as a long term partner. Most simply will not be. Making broad-brush statements about all men, or the state of society, based on your limited experience is beyond shortsightedness. If you don't like your guy then next him and find one you do.

[Zen10]

I'm into everything except that crazy sex. I don't care for bdsm and spitting I don't care for ropes but I like chains. Candle wax and back scratches. Not slow

[Emanon_18]

Sometimes is good 😂

[andy530]

Sounds like your brand of kink is just not lining up with the partners you’re meeting. That does not mean there are not many guys who are very much into your brand of kink

[Asker]

Very true 😁

[andy530]

I’m sure you’ll find someone who shares your kinks and brings a few of their own

[Asker]

I hope so lol

[andy530]

I’m sure it will happen

[scooogy]

I consider myself as kinky as well as romantic, yet I'm not into your stuff, just more touches.

[Asker]

everyone's into different things. Id be curious to know what you're into

[scooogy]

I consider myself cunnilingus fetishist.

[B2281]

Hope not.

[Anonymous]

I'm here and that's what I want