Should I leave my wife for a 19 years old girl?

Question

I’m 34 years old married to a 32 years old; we have a 5 year old daughter. Everything was fine until a group of college kids moved next door to us. One of the college kids that moved in , is a 19 years old college girl, she has an amazing body. My wife use to look hot but after our daughter was born, she gained weight. I couldn’t control myself so I talked to the college girl and we ended hooking up. I was a little surprised that she agreed because I feel old and I thought she would want to be with a younger guy. I guess I do buy her clothes, shoes, and bags. I told her that I want to marry her and she said yes. I really want to do it but what if she’s just using me for money.

Dazey14 · Accepted Answer

For God's sake, you must actually be a total idiot. Do not take her to dinner. Block her, ghost her this is what she is used to and what she will do to you. Aren't you embarrassed enough? Even if she thinks you love her, she has no idea. What's not to love about getting gifts, having sex and only having you around when it's fun? Same for you. Do you miss college? Did you not want your daughter? Does your wife work outside of the home? This is my big question. Does your wife work outside of the home?

Are your daughter's friends going to be safe when she gets older or are you going to have trouble resisting them as well?
Do you and your wife ever go out or do you have a sitter for any other reason? A young teenage babysitter?
Is it really so bad that if a young woman moves in next door wherever you live you are going to try to screw her?
Did you marry your wife for looks only?
The day is coming when your dick will not work so well. Hope it's sooner rather than later. Do not have any more children with your wife by the way.
AND if you divorce DO NOT subject your daughter to some other woman
You are totally selfish. DO NOT have visitation with a new wife and take your daughter away from her home.
Have you ever followed through with anything in your life?
You should be knocking yourself out for the woman that bore the child you say you love. "My wife gained weight." God only knows what you have done to contribute to her difficulty.

Every time your side piece sends you a pic. Send your wife a loving text or call her. Put your wife on your screen saver. Bring flowers. Just do it. Dumbass.

1Sophisticatedme · Accepted Answer

you are a big fool!!! And i hope she uses you for yoyr money and whatever else she can screw you for... your wife had to sacrifice her body to give you a child, and she is there for you, and she looks after your daughter... why bother asking this question, you already know the answer... you screwed up your life for a girl that has her life ahead of hers and she would get someone else in the future bc you will be all saggy looking, then she can ask here on GaG if she should leave her ass boyfriend or husband bc you proposed that question already and not even divorced yet, so she would cheat on you bc your not handsome anymore bc you got heavier and saggy... hope you leave your wife and she gets someone better than you.
So to your question, leave your wife and child, then make sure you got a great job bc you are to pay child support. Good luck with your screwed up life. Voting for your beautiful wife and child.

SjE78 · Accepted Answer

well not being funny but it sounds like if you are willing to give up a life and commitment for someone who may or may not feel the same about you then I say just do your wife a favour and end it, cos clearly she doesn't need someone who is gonna go after another woman as easy... sure your wife may have not got the body she used to have, but honestly neither would you have... but you dont see her chasing a young college guy cos you've let yourself go do you...

but your wife's body has changed cos of being a parent isn't easy...

your wife deserves someone better tbh... and when that college girl gets around your wife's age and looking a bit worn out... and she experiences what your wife has, when you begin chasing the next piece of ass you can get your mits on well good luck with child support and divorce costs is all i'm gonna say...

t-8900 · Accepted Answer

LMFAO she IS using you for the money. But at the same time if she leaves your ass it would be well deserved! Then you would know how your ex wife feels you son of a bitch! Typically I'm on here giving a lot of these younger females some stern talking tos. But that's not because I hate women, it's because I hate infidelity. A cheating man and a cheating woman are both the same level of shit! You are throwing away your marriage because you can't keep it in your pants? Man your poor wife is better off without you. Hope you lose the kid too. Children need two parents. But when ones a sack of shit... if I saw you in person I'd grab you by your shirt collar and slam you up against the wall. My childhood was fucked because of infidelity and it screwed me up bad! Think about someone else other than yourself!

btbc92 · Answer

You are no husband. And you already committed adultary against your family. Your wrong. And you basically cursed yourself and your family because of your sexual sin. For a 19 year old, barely legal girl who probably is just going use you to find another man after afterwards. That chick doesn't love you. She loves sinful sex and your money. That's all. your wife and daughter doesn't deserve that. And this is why people you don't get married if you have no desire to be faithful. This is the real reason why women divorce.

Chels96 · Answer

Just think twice about it. Even this thought about a 19 year old girl makes you a prick. Don’t you see she is using you? Ofcourse when you pay everything for her she says “yes”. If you really want it, then just divorce your wife because this isn’t what she deserves, and your daughter also doesn’t deserve that. I think you are making a big mistake at this moment.

AustinMan · Answer

Don't be an idiot!! Get into couple's therapy and see if your wife will do something about her appearance.

PBandJ_Nerd · Answer

I think it's wrong for you to leave your wife and kids for a college student. My parents have been together for many years and my dad never left my mom just because she gained weight. Not just that but there was me and my 3 older sisters. All of us loved our family, whether we were skinny or not. If you cannot love somebody even as you both age then don't get married.

MrHopper · Answer

Yeah just do it, you got one life to live

Flower7 · Answer

You should start working out with your wife so she can get back in shape, and also start buying and/or cooking healthier foods to help her eat less calories.

It's not guaranteed that things would work out with the 19-year-old. That could be a complete waste of time and also ruin your current family. That would be a huge risk to take.

The neighbor is most likely just using you. If you stopped buying her things, her attitude toward you might change. It's not a good idea for you to be buying her things anyway since you're married to someone else. For many reasons, this "relationship" seems like a very bad idea.

Hangry22 · Answer

Oh you pathetic excuse of a man. You do know you have a daughter right? Guess you will be okay if her husband does this to her too

Warmapplecrumble · Answer

No she's using you for money and your using her for stupid perspective. Why can't you just find your wife sexy.

SarahsSummer · Answer

So when you stood and professed your vows to your wife to love and support, in sickness and in health, till death does you part, maybe you should've added in.. unless a hot college chick moves in next door. Don't be a douche. Actually too late, yo already are. confess to your wife and child that you are in fact a douche, and let the chips fall where they may. But dont be surprised if you not only lose your wife and child's love and respect... and your money, but also that of the teenage tramp living next door. And by the way, once you go through that, you won't even be living next door to the teenage tramp.

Barbaric · Answer

If this isn't trolling you're an oxygen theif.

MysteriousT · Answer

I can't believe you are asking such a question. How the fuck did your lovely wife trust you for this many years?

Ccheeto99 · Answer

I feel horrible for your wife and your daughter

rachel776 · Answer

just keep her as a grl on the side, she'll get tired of you pretty quick, so leaving your wife will not be a good situation for you

RJJ33666 · Answer

Do not leave your wife for a 19 year old. What you are experiencing right now is not love, but just a small infatuation. You have a wife, and leaving her for a 19 year old who you barely know and hooked up with is just wrong. You don't fall in love by loving a girls amazing body and hooking up with her. You are supposed to talk to her, understand her, create a relationship on honesty and trust not hot body and amazing sex. And I don't want to judge, but woman or person would just agree to marry a person after a hook, ahe agreed to marry you because you can support her financially and buy some good stuff. Again I tell you, DO NOT LEAVE YOUR WIFE FOR A 19 YEAR OLD.

EmmaMary · Answer

Congratulations on winning a Troll of the day award.

sak9525 · Answer

No. You will definitely regret it on a fine day

Reaperbot666 · Answer

she wants a sugar daddy

lanadelrey25 · Answer

You're kidding right? What is wrong with you, you're a disgusting low life scumbag piece of shit. I bet your wife is still kick ass gorgeous, that aside even if she wasn't, what the hell?