Guys, Do You Get Disappointed When You Find Out A Girl You Are Attracted To Is Gay? Girls, Do You Think Guys Would Get Disappointed?

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Jamie05rhs · Accepted Answer

Yeah, sometimes that happens. But the disappointment is not because of her sexuality. It's because there's no chance of ever being with her. That makes a person sad if they like someone. It's only natural. But it's not the lesbian's fault nor is it the guy's fault. It just is.

Berethor · Accepted Answer

Not that I meet many lesbians, but no, it's don't take much to physically attract a guy.

Brainsbeforebeauty · Accepted Answer

I'm sure they would. Same as if I'd see an attractive guy and then find out he's gay.. It'd be like damn aww shucks 😂

DizzyDesii · Accepted Answer

Most take it as a challenge and assume they can turn her straight or bi

jadspop · Answer

Oh without a doubt... But it's no words then finding out a straight girl dosent like me... If anything is better to find out she's gay then just not interested. At least then I know it's noting to do with me... It's not that I'm not good enough xD

But anytime I find out a girl I like isn't into me I'm disappointed

VIVANT · Answer

Probably more so fascinated lol

doe9de · Answer

I would be slightly disappointed but also understand and be supportive.

Lliam · Answer

If she's gay, she's gay. I'd just move on. There are plenty of hetero women.

MCheetah · Answer

Yes. If I find out a girl I like is queer/not-straight ( especially  if she's, quote, "bisexual"), then I'm disappointed by it. Most guys don't have an endless supply of women they can pick from to date, or even sleep with. So yeah, I consider it indirect rejection.

Madhatter920 · Answer

Just a little bit. Same as when you find out they're already in a relationship. Just knowing that opportunity is gone.

whydoweneedausername · Answer

You can still be disappointed, but okay with it!

Jjpayne · Answer

How can this not be a turn off/disappointment... 😂 unless I got more attracted by the thought of lesbian love 😂

SjE78 · Answer

maybe a little but hey, it's not something i'd hold against them as this is life... not everyone we like is gonna like us back... and not everyone who like's us are gonna be recipricated either

jshm2 · Answer

Not at all.  Mainly as I have a well developed gaydar from my younger days. Hence can usually tell a "rug muncher" from a real woman.

Kaneki05 · Answer

Makes them more relatable and cool and even more attractive to me so nah not really. Sure it's bad i couldn't be with them but good on them for wanting a women. Tbh i always lowkey think at times are women blind to that women are just more hot than guys. But i guess that's what makes me straight.

eat_love_workout · Answer

in my humble experience a lot of women are more bisexual than gay

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Nope, but I would like to try remaining her friend if I could?

JosyJosy · Answer

That does sound disappointing so I guess so

Ripper_E · Answer

Of course. Not disappointed that they are gay, but that I can't have a chance with them. IT doesn't erase how I feel about them, but I'll never have a chance.

pigoat · Answer

Halsey is bisexual  Disappointed if they are fully gay but then i realize i never really had a chance with them if they were straight anyway so i get over it