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Why does onlyfans upset men?

obviously men like freaky women which i mean of course who wouldn’t want a woman that’s openly willing to try new and spicy things in bed. SOME men love sending unsolicited dick pictures and body pictures and if he’s lucky, the girl will either accept and send some nudes back or feel disgusted. I just don’t get why ever since the pandemic started and onlyfans became popular a lot of men have extremely negative things to say about women making money for doing things men do FREELY!

Men will go into the whole they want a woman for them and a woman to only do/show their body to him meanwhile he’s sleeping or trying to sleep with every girl he sees... Then the whole WAP song came out and it was even more backlash about how women have daughters and shouldn’t be singing the song and what are they teaching the young girls but the real question is what do we ever teach young boys?

I feel like SOME men are the only ones to pull the double standard card when it doesn’t benefit them.. it’s like how they talk down on strippers but quick to spend some money at one for a good time with friends or watch porn from home which porn seems to be worse than a stripper who doesn’t actually sleep with anyone.. it’s entertainment and a way for women to make money. So why hate on a woman using her body for money when most men try to use a woman’s body for temporary pleasure anyway?
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  • I'll say there's a reason for everything, and it's usually somewhat reasonable. Mmm, maybe not reasonable, but it does have a set of reasons to it which can be understandable. Male or female.

    Double standard cards are tricky, because how do you treat a dog and a lion the same way? They're different, right? So you have to treat them different to treat them the same. So, it's like saying, "Women go pee together, so men should, too." Well, no, it means that that's how women are, more so than men. It's just *different*.

    On the same hand, men are much more likely to tell you how to "fix" something, if you tell them a problem; whereas, women are much more likely to *Identify* with you if you tell them an issue. t's just *different*.

    You've asked a lot of different questions in this one: it'd take me too long to address all of them. But I feel the crux of it is the double standard issue. And, to that regard, men and women couldn't be more different when it comes to reproduction, right. Men have sperm; women have eggs. Men prioritize sex more; women switch between prioritizing bonds or sex more. Men will bang pretty much any woman who asks; women are more selective.

    So how do you treat them both the same? By treating them different, *RELATIVE* to their natures. I feed a lion water buffalo steak, and a dog chicken, right. It's not because I'm favoring the lion; it's because steak is closer to the lion's nature than the dogs--and, it also requires more food, given it's bigger.

    The issue with that is you have to A: accept there are different natures; and, B: understand what those differences are.

    In any case, it seems like you are upset. That is unfortunate, and I hope you feel better soon. There are a lot of unfair things in life, and I'm not saying you're right or wrong. Alls I'm saying is, for me, I had a lot of complaints like that, but I realized the best way to go about my life was to accept and understand and attempt to focus on my own life.

    Good luck to you.

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  • Well I mean men now a days are all apparently just sexual offenders. I mean telling a girl she's beautiful now is a no no. It's assumed that having a dick between your legs means sex is all your want. Then you go online to see all the women wow get pissed at just seeing a guy looking at them because we just want sex, they correlate attraction with perversion then you go and see all these women who believe all that bs selling themselves online. Shit I think the pissed ones have a good fucking reason. I mean I'm a asshole pervert just to approach you but you'll show me you're tits for money uh nah if I want to see tits so bad porns free so yeah

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  • I don't think it's about the fact wemon are getting payed and we're not... I think it's more to do with the fact that they want it and they can't have it unless they pay...

    So it's less about wemon getting payed and now about men having to pay xD

    It's just something else keeping them from getting what they want

  • I dont know any men that hate on onlyfans. Most just think it's pathetic. I'm sure the ones that subscribe likely don't, but they're still not trying to wife a girl up on there.

    I eat really healthy because I'm a very active person and I like to stay in shape.

    I enjoy Wendy's jr bacon cheeseburgers.

    I'll eat one every so often because I can, but I'm not having that for dinner every night.

  • It's not really so much of the app or the women that upset men. It's the fact that there are boatloads of simps just throwing their money out there for women to take, just to give them a friendly waive or blow a kiss or to see her naked. It's the reason why so many women, ESPECIALLY on OnlyFans, have massive egos and bad attitudes, because they have been spoon fed compliments and admiration just for existing. That's what guys are mostly irritated with when it comes to OnlyFans.

  • The difference is very few men could do an only fans. However women get basically free income for little to no effort at all, and then flaunt how much money their making while men struggling.

  • I just don't see why anyone would pay when there is so much out there for free.

  • they're just jealous that they are not desirable. I mean I am too but I am not a jerk about it

  • Well cause onlyfans is a low effort way of posting content for money. Honestly I think strippers is much more respectable than posting on onlyfans cause at least they actually work for their money.

    And I think most people are actually hating the simps that join onlyfans. Cause there's tons of free porn out there so it makes no sense to even pay for onlyfans.

    If you're not ready for criticism don't post stuff on the internet. Cause like everyone says once it's on the internet it's there for ever.

  • I don't care, do whatever you want. So maybe don't lump all men together in an opinion that isn't true.

    • I capitalized SOME men in my post lol

    • Towards the end of your rant lol 😆

  • Don't know, don't care. As long as you are not assaulting people or their property do what you want.

  • Support sex workers.

  • It doesn't make a difference to me, they can make money how ever they want. It wouldn't even bother me if I had a girlfriend that was doing it. You gotta do what you gotta do, especially these days. I bet all them dudes that are so against it are the main ones looking at it. And for the record I have never in my life sent an unsolicited dick pic, I really dont get why guys do that either.

  • Onlyfans upset men in the sense that other men are so easily separated from their money for something that's readily available for free.

  • i don't evan think its men that are hating on onlyfans because they men, but rather its the uproar of the anti sex mind set that a lot of "and women" have been all crazy about lately causing them to go after onlyfans saying shit like "get a real job" or "i only care about personality"

  • It’s not a double standard. It’s a matter of quality.

    Women who use their vagina to get through life, have nothing else to offer the world.
    But women will be internet whores and then expect to be treated like they have the same value as a female who actually has dignity and works for a living.

    • it’s weird that you say they have nothing else to offer but a lot of the girls on there are in college getting their tuition paid... and some are even married with families and their husbands are fully supportive and sometimes involved in the videos. so there are a group of smart girls on their using the money to buy property, pay off debts and investing.

    • Being an educated whore doesn’t make you valuable. Just like being educated rapist wouldn’t make a person valuable. Garbage humans are garbage humans. Being a parasite and not benefiting the world. Just like stock brokers, who make money off the hard work of others but don’t actually produce anything. They aren’t benefiting the world.

    • i get what you’re saying in your eyes they’re considered garbage whores but are surrounded by people who think otherwise especially if their incomes and fanbase keep growing

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  • I didn't know men were upset over onlyfans...

  • Not all guys send unsolicited dick pics. If he does it and blames a girl having OnlyFans, it's a double standard. If he doesn't, it's not

  • Doesn’t upset me. I laugh at all the fools that waste their money to look at girls when the internet is full of girls. Makes no sense.

  • I just don’t like the fact that men can’t do the same if they aren’t some superhuman handsome freak. Women being able to make lots of free money with only by showing their sometimes not even naked body. But it is what it is. I can’t change how everything works so women will be able to do this for a long time if not for eternity and men won’t be able to do it. This is a very deep topic tho.

  • Don't know. I don't use it.

  • I think onlyfans asking for money for use it..

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