I'm a virgin in my 20s. Why? I was chubby for the past 7 years and that affected my self confidence so I never looked for a relationship/sex (I've since lost weight and feel more confident in myself). I can't stop but feel like my peers and friends see me in this "aww she's so innocent and pure" or a "she's a pathetic loser what is she waiting for" kind of way. I'm not scared of sex nor am I waiting for marriage, I've simply never had the opportunity and I don't want to just hookup with a stranger. I don't want to go out and get rid of my virginity for the sake of getting rid of it. My virginity isn't the problem here. I just wish I didn't feel so embarrassed and scared of being judged about it.