Would you date a guy who expects sex before the 3rd date?

[nella965]

[Xoxocutekitty]

I think it depends on the person. If he told me on the first date, he would be hoping by the 3rd date to have sex (assuming other things were going well) I wouldn't write him off. I would counter ask: how long does he want to "decide" before committing to a relationship (or not) and whether or not he expects to be monogamous during the period that we first have sex and that he is deciding. I know my answers to those questions.

I understand wanting to know if you are sexuality compatible early on, but I am also not a fan of being led on. If we don't work out, I want to know why. I want to leave knowing that it was because I was taken seriously as a prospective partner, and that I wasn't just being used for sex. I would want to know that my sex wasn't being compared to some other girl's sex, and that he was genuinely willing to put work in to a relationship.

[Anonymous]

No. You're not building a relationship if you're getting straight to that. Even 3rd date would be too early for me. I want to get to know someone, develop feelings for them, build up excitement and mystery.

Also, I know a lot of women might come at me for saying this, but I respect myself. I value my body and what goes in it. I know girls who do this and have sex right away and wonder why the guy only wanted sex with her. I waited about 4 months with my boyfriend. I knew he was worth dating because he wasn't pushing for sex. I knew he wasn't using me for that. And it was so much better having waited, developed feelings and respect.

[Dougzy]

I really get worried about the types of guys you ladies date, just really sounds like there is a massive amount of non-intimancy going on! this is obviously just my opinion.

A man's role is to charm

• Charm creates desire
• Desire creates need
• Need creates want
• Want creates have

The questionShould be I have met a really nice guy do you think that I should have sex with him before the 3rd date?Raise your self-image and have what you want!My philosophy if I have to ask I am doing something wrong

[AustinMan]

It depends on how strong the chemistry is.

https://www. girlsaskguys. com/dating/a59202-caution-the-biggest-mistake-i-see-women-make-early-in-a-relationship

[btbc92]

Never. I ain't a hoe. And he isn't going to treat me like one. Bye. I will respect his desires, by walking OUT. Let him find somebody quick to put out. God forbid he catch disease from those chocies. I will not pity.

[chrissykerdock]

maybe a blowjob on the 3rd date at the very quickest... you can't say okay i'm going to have children with some asshole you just met... which is what could happen if you don't take birth control like me... i don't take birth control.

[Paris13]

I would Set him Straight like I Have Had to Do when he is Talking of Marriage or a even a Real Relationsi*t. xx

[MayBrayNaughty]

I'd be VERY frustrated if a guy wasn't up for the jump on a first meet, we're here for a fun time not a long time 🥳

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

It's not even the# date part, it's the expectation part. Sex shouldn't be either an expectation nor an obligation... And those that make it that way just ruin it. Sex should be when both are ready not just one and when you just can't control your wantfor one another... Putting rules and #'s on makes it more calculated/controlled and less natural

[bigmisssunshine]

Nope.

[Yads_Is_Back]

Hell no

[CreativeMumble]

No, to expect it and that soon, I wouldn't

[Daniela1982]

He would have a long wait if I found that out on the first date. There would most likely not be a 2nd date.

[mindNsoul]

no I won't.. especially not knowingly

[wingattebaby16]

Probably.

Depends if he is cute, hot, and we have Chemistry.

I admit when I was younger, I often had sex on the 1st date and if not, by the 3rd date. If it was more than 3 dates Dry, I dint go out again with him.

Do you mean the guy tells you before you even go on one date, or is it brought up on the first date?

[buddies]

Not a chance

[jabberwocky00]

Lol 3rd date is way to soon

[Dazey14]

This is what I would call a hook up. I don't do hook ups because they are a waste of time. Having said that I can't say that it doesn't happen. If people are really attracted to one another and experienced, it's a little silly to wait for what reason? If it was a man that was so attractive and charming, I could be tempted knowing that it was just for sex. Women can do that as well. The only way I could break up with one boyfriend was to stand him up because if I laid eyes on him I knew where we would end up. Take those moments people, life's too short. If you don't enjoy sex, why are you dating at all? It just depends is the rule.
But a guy expecting anything is a douche bag.

[FarrierMaiden]

I wouldn’t if it’s laid out as an expectation. I would and have had sex that early in a relationship but there wasn’t any pressure to do so and it just happened.

[morimeme1]

Nope, I do not like people who put a time stamp on sex, it will happen when it happens, might be the second date, might be the 10th, might be never, chill out dude.

[mixedforever29]

yes but also depends how it comes off on the first date. Like if i feel the attraction between us or if the feeling is mutual then yeah.

[CreepyCute]

Probably not. I don't really want to be with someone who 'expects' us to jump into bed that quickly.

[SjE78]

personally i wouldn't date a guy, but if i dated a woman who i got along with very well and we chose to go out after knowing each other for so long, before dating and expected sex before date #3 then sure i would still date that woman

[SphynxUK]

He can expect it when he wants, but I’ll do it when I feel like it and never under pressure.