Insult or Complement?

Question

Should I take it as an insult or a complement that my boyfriend cums in me pretty fast, he cums in me about 15-30 seconds

SjE78 · Accepted Answer

if you are tight and turn him on that much then it can happen, however i would advise him that he needs to work on his ability to pace himself, he should try masturbating once or twice before sex, that should prolong the time a fair while, also he should look into exercising his groin muscles and you can help this too while he's inside you can tense up your pelvic muscles and vagina to help prevent him cumming too soon...

a woman i was dating a few years back helped me get back to the 30-60 min mark during sex... and did it by exactly this... while inside her she stopped me from cumming just by using her vagina...

Berethor · Accepted Answer

How could it be insult? that he not trying to hold it on for you for longer? it's complement in as sense that it indicate that he is attracted, but it's also problematic that his actual sex with you is so short. :)

MsTaniaUncensored · Accepted Answer

Neither offended or complimented. Many men have trouble with prematureness in bed. As long as they get you off too it isn't a huge deal.

RebeccaW · Accepted Answer

15 seconds? He better be giving you the best head in the world or it's not worth it

AustinMan · Answer

IMHO, he's being very selfish and inconsiderate.

pierre7i · Answer

It actually sounds like he suffers from 'premature ejaculation' !

DrippingHoney · Answer

I hope he gets you off afterward

SlothySlob · Answer

How can it be an insult?

ReeferRob · Answer

Really not sure how that can be determined as an insult

thatnicksuitsme · Answer

I think it’s a problem because no matter how much I love and like a women I never came before 4-5 minutes (and that’s the shortest time with my favourite position with full pounding) so it’s a premature ejaculation as far as I can see.