Am I considered heteroflexibility or straight?

[Rosabelle98]

I’m mostly sexually attracted to guys but never had sexual thoughts about women I never get nervous when I talk to women but I get very shy when I talk to cute guys. There’s one thing a bit unusual about me is that I sometimes find female fictional characters attractive, mostly I’m attracted to fictional guys when it comes to watching animated movies or reading books but will never ever have sexual thoughts about fictional women or real life women. I always compare myself with other girls sometimes. I’m not really sure about my sexuality to be honest.

[Anonymous]

You need not like all girls sexually to become bisexual
There can be only one
If you are attracted to some girl in particular then it's significant
If only to fictional characters then I think your brain wants to take out something which is hidden inside you
Try thinking and talking to people to find out
If needed you may go for therapy to understand what are you going through
In any case nothing is abnormal or wrong
Take it in a positive note
If you like girls too and find it interesting to imagine and like being involved sexually then go for it
If not don't give it much thought and attention

[Rosabelle98]

But for my case it’s considered unusual, I’m not attracted to real women in real life but got a small crush on certain female fictional characters. I never think of getting into a relationship or have any sexual thoughts about women both in real life and fictional. That’s why I’m confused about my sexuality. My guy friend said that I’m heteroflexibility.

[Opinion Owner]

At first you need to relax Don't be bothered about your sexuality It will uncover slowly And what's wrong even if you develop feelings for girls? You had for fictional characters doesn't mean you need to have compulsorily for real girls. Try to take it slowly Don't think so much If you already have a girl in your mind you want to have sex with then confront her otherwise hope for the best Don't try to rush through it

[Rosabelle98]

Thanks for the advice. At first I was very scared because my sexuality is so confusing and it’s not under any of the LGBT. I have never met anyone who is also heteroflexibility in real life. Almost everyone know about their sexuality

[Opinion Owner]

You need to understand that sexuality may be sometimes transient. it can happen that you are just curious to try bisexuality. Or you may just want to have sex with a girl or maybe you can feel to have threesome also. but point is it can be temporary. You may be straight but you were curious and exploring things. What's wrong in that? There is no need to strictly adhere to some definition that you must be fulfilling those criteria. Take it easy. If you want to try and have sex with a girl then have it If you want to try anything then do it But just remember to be safe legally and sexually Never cross limits of legality of your country and practice safe sex Know the person well then get indulged. In your case you are just attracted to fictional characters Who knows its just a phase which will pass easily. Or it may lead to your increased interest in other things Anyways pleasure is not just by sex. You can try many other things also anyways That's an advice for another topic 😸 Just be safe and follow your heart instead of being pressurised by what people say what you are Take care Dm me if you need more help I am a doctor

[MrOracle]

in my opinion, it sounds like you're a straight girl to me. Most straight women still look at other women - mostly to compare/judge them - but many also can appreciate the shape and curves of other women. But you aren't bisexual/bi-curious unless you actually want to have SEX with other women - and it doesn't sound like you do, so, that means you are straight and fairly typical - nothing wrong with that.

[Warmapplecrumble]

I don't know I'm confused also but I think it's cause I got touched inappropriately by girls.

[Lliam]

You sound pretty hetero to me.
I, too, have some gay, bi and even trans friends. It doesn't bother me. They are what they are. But if anyone but a hetero, natural female ever flirted with me, I'd let them know right away that I wasn't interested.

[Berethor]

Looks like you have little lesbian tendencies, but you more straight than many other girls, I mean lesbian porn is the most popular genre among women, looks like many women are bisexual and lesbian.

[Rosabelle98]

My guy friend was bisexual for fictional characters but is mostly straight when it comes to real life women. So he’s also confused too, he is a lot like me that’s why we both got along very well

[Rosabelle98]

I didn’t know women are into lesbian porn. I’m turned off by it usually.

[Berethor]

Even if it's 'just" fictional characters, a 100% straight would not be into that, I am for example not attracted to any many guy, real or fictional, I can acknowledge that some guys are good looking but that's it. Yes lesbian porn is the most popular among girls, that means that you still more straight than many other girls, and it's really uncommon to hear a girl that say that she is turned off by lesbian porn, I'm impressed. :)

[Berethor]

I mean that "I am not attracted to any guy, real or fictional."

[Rosabelle98]

I don’t think heteroflexibility is classified under LGBT. I think it’s because it’s extremely rare compared to LGBT. I have small crushes on female fictional characters but never thought of dating or have sexual relationships with them. But for male fictional characters I always think of dating them and fantasise about them.

[Berethor]

Actually it's because it fall under bisexual tag, only a 100% straight is a true straight, also in your case your non-straight barely has any effect on your live, that's why it don't matter as much, and as I already said you are more straight than many girls who claim to be straight. :)

tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/NoTrueScotsman

[Rosabelle98]

😇 that’s good to hear

[Berethor]

Controlling yourself? then you know how it's feels for guys better than many other girls. :)

tvtropes.org/.../AManIsAlwaysEager

[Rosabelle98]

It takes a while for me to control myself whenever I see a guy who has a cute smile. I always blush like crazy whenever I talk to them. And they smiled, they refused to tell me my face is red like😵

[Berethor]

Nice, well it's also make you look more straight than girls who act apathy towards guys. :)

[Melhoney]

I think you might be bi

[Melhoney]

No wait, you said you dont think about women sexually. I think you are straight

[Rosabelle98]

I recognise that there are girls more good looking than me or are cuter than me but never have any thoughts of being in a relationship with them. I think I’m straight

[Rosabelle98]

I never have a crush on women in real life but have a crush on female fictional characters without sexual thoughts

[0112358]

Sound pretty straight tbh.

[TCredo]

suggest don't listen to others or worry about labels... like what you like :)

[mich15smith]

you are prob straight but look at the kinsley scale

[AntSchu]

I love looking at women and think they're very very nice to look at. I love the hair, the boobs, and the legs.
I have never even touched a woman (cesarean) and never will. I find women amazingly attractive, just not sexually (and neither does my boyfriend).
I think the most important thing is that you accept yourself, be a friend to yourself, and know that you're worth a lot, regardless of what any idiot may tell you.
I am very observant and I always found it funny that women get all dressed up to go out, and then spend the whole night looking at other women in some form of bizarre competition.
Ultimately if you fancy a man, go do it... and if, next week, you fancy a woman... go do it. I will say a woman probably knows exactly how to satisfy a woman (my sister always goes on about rhythm and timing and how men screw this up)... I know men are very good at pleasing men anyhow.

[genericname85]

it's called "bisexual". or bicurious. not sure why people continuously feel the urge to make new words for the same thing.

[crmoore]

It's possible you're heteroflexible, but I'd say it's likely that you're straight. If you get aroused by these female characters, then I'd have been more convinced that you're heteroflexible.

[COMMODOREII]

You are just you. Thats all that matters. 😎

[Twalli]

You're straight

[Jerre]

I am the sam e way with other guys. I certainly am not opposed to them being gay as long as they don’t try to include me in their sexual life. As for girls, everytime I meet a new woman, I think what she looks about naked, how it would be fucking her

[Valnac]

You are simply curious, nothing wrong with that!
You don’t say how old you are but I assume you masturbate.
Get to know yourself first.

[IlluminatiExposed]

Nothing you've said indicates you're anything but straight.

[Tstrbrainer]

I don't think there's anything wrong with you, but I'm not an expert.
Uh so you like cute guys, don't you? 😉

[Rosabelle98]

Yes he doesn’t need to be very good looking. I had a major crush on a guy who had a cute smile but when he never smiles he looks kinda average

[Tstrbrainer]

That's interesting. 😃

[mrgspoter]

You what's this.

[Rosabelle98]

I have crushes on fictional female characters but have no interest in dating them or have any sexual thoughts about them.

[mrgspoter]

Ok sounds normal I guess, I don't like all these label everything

[Rosabelle98]

My guy friend considers me a heteroflexibility. He’s bisexual for fictional characters but is a straight guy in real life so he’s basically the same as me

[mrgspoter]

I don't think it's a thing it's just normal maybe

[Younghungguy17]

You could just be bi curious or have a more emotional attraction then physical attraction to women. Wouldn’t hurt to explore more into it.

[gandolph3]

i would go with straight

[Aloneboy13]

Heteroflexible

[Rosabelle98]

I think so. But I recognised attractive women when I see one, sometimes I even compare myself with them which is toxic.

[Aloneboy13]

Have been in a relationship with a women/

[Anonymous]

Lol. Pretty much every girl finds other girls attractive in some way