Do you think cheating is justified in a sexless relationship or marriage?

[Finchie40]

Most girls I have met after my divorce that lied about being in a relationship or married have confessed to me the only reason they did it was because their sex life sucked , their partner always denied them sex and they miss feeling desired and wanted. Guys go through this as well. So do you think cheating is justified in these circumstances? I can kind of see where their are coming from so I am 50/50 with this especially if you are fully invested into a relationship , you love your partner and you both use to have a lot of sex then all of a sudden the 1 partner just makes excuses to why they don’t want it anymore. You talk to them about it and still nothing changes , you don’t want to hurt their feelings so you meet someone else to fulfill your needs. So I am kind of 50/50 with this especially nowadays considering every girl I talk to on Tinder wants to be paid for sex or erotic massages , which blows me away considering why is prostitution suddenly acceptable nowadays like WTF happened to this world? Part of me wants to go have sex with a married girl at least she doesn’t ask me to pay her lol , Most single girls I go for have a line of guys lined up so going for someone single nowadays is like playing the fucking lottery.. so you married girls that aren’t being fulfilled , Hit me up lol

[Juxtapose]

Wow, I'm going to be the first person to say this here! Get ready to downvote me!

I think if they aren't trying, I shouldn't try either. If you have me agree to be exclusive and then deny me sex, you're an asshole who deserves to get cheated on.

[Juxtapose]

lol the robot liked me arguing for cheating lol. A. I is great.

[Derekk]

I've heard that line before too. Honestly, if the sex isn't good, talk about changing the relationship or opening it or something. I'm a very sexually liberal person, but I don't lie. Nobody should ever do that.

[RemoErdosain]

You're great

[Derekk]

@RemoErdosain Thank you sir <3

[DizzyDesii]

Its never an excuse to cheat. Just leave the person and dont look back. Now if kids are involved, have a convo with them and let them know that you need to leave eachother because mommy/daddy can't seem to stop emotionally hurting one another

[Peanut127]

Tender is fake. I had a friend who was in federal jail (where inmates can have phones) tell me the guys make fake acts to get men/u to pay them for nudes etc. Ty for comfirming hoow right he was. :)

[Peanut127]

As for main opinion I have? I have a health condition. No disire or really, able, to have sex. There are honest BDSM singers clubs. Not just some house party but professional in a way u must dress nice. And couples only to be able to play with others to spice up sex life. I allowed my guy to do that and hell, I'd just get some hot massage or watch my guy fuck another like it's porn lol sry to be blunt. Anyways, he couldn't. He thought it's cheating even if I allowed him. So at the end of it all. It all depends how u communicate it. Look up ligit swingers clubs. It's cheating if ur hiding it. I don't hide. ;)

[Peanut127]

Swingers*

[RemoErdosain]

That "I don't want to hurt my partner's feelings" line is just SO MUCH BULLSHIT!!! They know that's not true. They do it behind their backs because they're complete cowards. No, cheating is never justified. If you have a sexless relationship and you want to look for sex elsewhere, you need to communicate that with your partner so that they can make an informed decision on whether they want to stay or not. The truth is, you NEVER know what's going on in that relationship, and those lines they feed you are a classic: Every cheater uses them, so don't believe them. Of course they will always tell you that their partners aren't good to them, and that they need something else that you can provide. Sounds awfully convenient, doesn't it? I think I read opinions of you somewhere else here where you said that you got cheated on too in your relationships. Don't do to someone else what you wouldn't like someone to do to you. You have no idea of who those guys are: They might be really good people, but of course you'll never find out when only hearing about them from their lousy partners and wives

[Finchie40]

I agree with ya 100 percent and yes the girls that have told me after the fact that they were married , I ended it with them immediately. My thing is if you can cheat on your partner then that is your answer that you don’t love them so why be with them still? If you’re in a relationship and you cheat then that should be your answer to end it with your current partner but most people don’t do that , they will cheat and go back to their partners like nothing ever happened

[RemoErdosain]

I agree

[Warmapplecrumble]

I understand, but I think I still can't go through that even though my body might talk nonsense. I ignore that feeling and drink lots of water.
I get really guilty. 😕

[jabberwocky00]

I don't know. I haven’t lived everyone’s life. Maybe cheating can be a grey area too just like everything else we go through

[lanadelrey25]

Cheating is never justified.

[FeenaK]

It can never be justified in my opinion. Ending it should be the target then

[Finchie40]

I agree 100 percent , but people today don’t do that , they do what’s best for them , I was only being sarcastic and blunt in my question on how today’s world is nowadays , people don’t value and respect each other like they use to , I blame a lot of failed relationships on social media brain washing peoples heads to think grass is greener on the other side. I lived in this work before social media really entered people’s lives before smart phones and dating sites etc. I lost my ex wife to social media cuz she lived on her phone secretly talking to a co worker that was secretly talking to her behind my back , back then people didn’t have access into peoples lives like they do to today , I am not blaming social media for her actions but it definitely contributed to it. Me personally is nervous to fall in love again , I have so many walls up to trust , especially after I entered the dating world again and was blown away by how things are today , I am not Going to pay for sex and during this quarantine shit it seems like that’s the only way to meet someone and they all want what’s inside my wallet , what happened to wanting a heart?

[elizamichale1]

Cheating is never justified but i wouldn't blame anyone having sex when they are not getting it in their relationship

[British_Empire_1707]

cheating is cheating. Be honourable and end it

[douride2]

If you sex life sucks in your relationship get out of it before you start looking for a different sex partner.

[Siavash_1990]

The only time cheating is justified is NEVER

[Finchie40]

I agree I was only being blunt about how the way the world is today , I feel social media has damaged relationships and how people respect each other nowadays , people don’t value the heart much anymore , they value what’s best for them.

[Anonymous]

Cheating is never justified but I equally don't give a shit and cheat anyway